Dev's attitude towards sona & Natasha

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I had always this doubt from the beginning.
I know Dev loves sonakshi. But , he says that rich ladke girls ki respect nahi karte.
Does Dev has respect for sona after they fell in love ?
We have seen Dev talking to Natasha. Always with respect.
A perfect gentleman.
Won't sona also want the same behavior towards her ?
Because Dev respected Natasha & the fact that she was very rich & important for dev's business,
Iswari didn't show that much face.

Because sona is from middle class, Dev is behaving like this.
I know he loves her immensely. But some where he takes her for granted.
Dev is allowing all these taunts . The people in the house also don't respect her.

Can anybody throw some light on this?
Would Dev be in better position if he had married Natasha.

Atleast iswari's insecurity won't be sky high.
Dev may not dismiss Natasha like he does with sona.
Because he will be scared of gujral & business.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Absolutely. Dev would never insult someone in power
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I dnt thnk so otherwise he wud have married her na...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dev Will be in more happy with Sona than Natasha, and yes Natasha would be definitely in better position, GKB and vicky will not behave like they do to Sona..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I am not sure about Dev as he is struggling in a quagmire.
He just gets too carried away and filled with obligations due to Ishu which comes out as an anger and frustration in front of Sona.
Dev left a rich girl Natasha and had to go through financial loses because his love for Sona. So I will not say he would behave differently had it been Natasha not Sona.

Ishwari- Yes. She is expected to be a bit toned down if it is Natasha at Sona's place.She will not harm her on the face but will definitely play tricks at her back.
Ishwari knows that both she and her son cannot afford(financial) to upset Natasha as she is always shown as money-minded .In Natasha's case she may come up with new tricks from her book called-- 101 Nuskhe Bete ko Bahu se dur rakhne ke.


Edited by Shilky88 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I beg to differ here

Natasha was his friend and Sona is his wife .Obviously he won't behave the same way with both of them.He treats all the women with respect .He is not a perfect guy but he is not someone who will value a person based on money .

If money was so important to him then why would he break his engagement with Natasha for a middle class girl .If his business was everything then he would not have given up on his dream project for Sonakshi .

You show your true self to the person closest to you and there are times when both sonakshi and Dev have taken each other for granted .

If Dev was afraid of Gujral's he would not have broken the engagement and regarding Natasha would destroy Dev if she had to deal with Ishwari ,Natasha is a sensible girl and we have seen how she handled her breakup .It sounds childish that a wife would destroy husband's career for some domestic issues .Even if Natasha wanted she and her father will not be able harm to Dev''s business .He is a self made man and we have seen how Gujral was unable to harm him in fact Dev could have harmed Gujrals if he wanted to .

I feel Ishwari treated Natasha better because she knew Dev was not in love with her and it was more like a arrange marriage .So she was less insecure but with Sona it was a different case.Ishwari has problems with Sona because of her insecurities not because of her financial status
Edited by yyyy - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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The word "Respect" is used so casually in this post !
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ishwari would not have behave like how she does with Sona is because of Dev's love. Dev never really loved Natasha nor he ever felt like sharing his personal thoughts and feelings with her. He never discussed anything related to his personal past with her. Even when the talks of his marriage with Natasha was going on, he never felt like discussing Neha/Ranveer relationship with her. He was never emotionally invested with her.
This is the main reason for Ishwari's insecurity. Dev changes for Sonakshi. He values her advice and is his confidante. Hence all these drama...

Just my POV...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy

I beg to differ here

Natasha was his friend and Sona is his wife .Obviously he won't behave the same way with both of them.He treats all the women with respect .He is not a perfect guy but he is not someone who will value a person based on money .

If money was so important to him then why would he break his engagement with Natasha for a middle class girl .If his business was everything then he would not have given up on his dream project for Sonakshi .

You show your true self to the person closest to you and there are times when both sonakshi and Dev have taken each other for granted .

If Dev was afraid of Gujral's he would not have broken the engagement and regarding Natasha would destroy Dev if she had to deal with Ishwari ,Natasha is a sensible girl and we have seen how she handled her breakup .It sounds childish that a wife would destroy husband's career for some domestic issues .Even if Natasha wanted she and her father will not be able harm to Dev''s business .He is a self made man and we have seen how Gujral was unable to harm him in fact Dev could have harmed Gujrals if he wanted to .

I feel Ishwari treated Natasha better because she knew Dev was not in love with her and it was more like a arrange marriage .So she was less insecure but with Sona it was a different case.Ishwari has problems with Sona because of her insecurities not because of her financial status


100% agree with u...this is what i wanted to say...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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To some extent I feel Yes. Dev respected Natasha but never showed such respect to Sona
I don't know if being rich is the reason but it is a fact.
Had Natasha been his wife and asked. Vicky to be the trainy first Iswari would never have asked Dev to reconsider the decision. Leave alone Iswari Vicky would not have the guts to say no.

Dev takes Sona for granted before marriage and after marriage.Shouts and shuts her up. But He wouldn't have done this to Natasha.
Even Iswari wouldn't have dared to throw tantrums. GKB would have been in her limits.
Finally Iswari Nivas and Dev's life would have been smooth and peaceful.

Natasha is a career woman. She would have left the home power to Iswari.
Sona never bothers about her much respectable profession.
Even in today's scene she says Dev brought thrill or some thing into her boring MBBs Nutritionist life

For a minute I was in shock. Then I realised. I was absolutely right. Sona cares very less of her profession. I never saw the zeal and urge to achieve new things or anything connected to it.
She hardly remembers she is a doctor.
I am of the kind who thinks that our profession is our identity.Marriage or no marriage we should always respect and care for it.
Natasha is that kind. Dev respects her. For sure.

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