Ashish - The 'najaayaz' father

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Khushi_love

@Khushi_love

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Posted: 9 years ago

Ashish- his holier than thou attitude...it's all a farce, imo...As Ashok says, he is indeed NEVER gonna legalise his relationship with Asha...in fact, at a sub conscious level, he never intended to, coz he always knew how his mother would react...& he doesn't know how to handle her...

If he can sleep with the woman he loves(,without informing his mother & keeping it under wraps), why couldn't he marry her in court so many years back?!?!? (without informing his mother & keeping it under wraps)

Yes, one does have responsibilities towards parents...but also towards your child!!!...one whom you've brought into this world!!...

The "dev-purush" ranting mother has another son in her life...Avni doesn't have another father...

Asha- to love unconditionally is fine...if it was just her, it was fine...but y do such people bring children into this world, esp in a society where illegitimate children are subjected to such prejudices & contempt??...& she's now in her la-la land n all ready to bring her second child into this world 👏..bravo...being naive is one thing, & being outright dumb, quite another...

I have nothing but contempt for a man like Ashish...who can't stand for himself...for the one he claims to love more than life...& esp for the one whom he has brought into this world...just because his self-righteous mother wants him to keep her "dev-purush" happy 🤢

My heart reaches out to Avni...who yearns for a "normal" family...& has just realised that the world doesn't consider "her" normal...

You are perfectly normal, baby...it's the spineless son of your eccentric grandma & the (dumb) mother of yours who are not normal...you are a perfectly "jaayaz" child of God. ...it''s your parents who are "najaayaz" ...

Edited by ---Khushi--- - 9 years ago

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Posted: 9 years ago

Well said dear.. They both don't deserve to be called parents. Everyone else can see how much Avni crave for a normal family (to some extent Ali also) but they don't. And your last lines were amazing. Truly Avni has all the rights to be a legitimate child.

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kautilya04

@kautilya04

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Posted: 9 years ago

Loved the post. And rightly said - Ashish and Asha are najayaz parents. I hope Avni says those words to them some day. They have earned it.

Ashish's show of machismo is restricted to beating up men who don't behave as he believes they should. He is very lenient with himself 😆 When it comes to actually showing some guts and taking a stand for the woman he supposedly loves and his innocent child, he cowers under his mother's pallu with his tail between his legs😳 And Asha of course is a ridiculously pathetic woman. Her maternal instincts are submerged underneath her great love for Ashish. When Ashok says they need to seek the help of the police to find Avni, she is not keen on the idea because Ashish's name will get dragged into it. It shows where her priorities lie.

The scene in which Avni struggles to pronounce the word "najayaz" properly in front of Asha...it was poignant and beautifully enacted. The poor child is too young and innocent to even utter najayaz' without fumbling. But that word will probably haunt her at every step in life as she grows up, thanks to her unbelievably selfish parents.

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Khushi_love

@Khushi_love

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Posted: 9 years ago

Loved your post even more...the child playing Avni is pure dynamite ⭐️...& makes Avni''s pain appear so real & so believable that you actually want to get hold of Ashish & beat him up black & blue

Originally posted by: kautilya04
Loved the post. And rightly said - Ashish and Asha are najayaz parents. I hope Avni says those words to them some day. They have earned it.

Ashish's show of machismo is restricted to beating up men who don't behave as he believes they should. He is very lenient with himself 😆 When it comes to actually showing some guts and taking a stand for the woman he supposedly loves and his innocent child, he cowers under his mother's pallu with his tail between his legs😳 And Asha of course is a ridiculously pathetic woman. Her maternal instincts are submerged underneath her great love for Ashish. When Ashok says they need to seek the help of the police to find Avni, she is not keen on the idea because Ashish's name will get dragged into it. It shows where her priorities lie.

The scene in which Avni struggles to pronounce the word "najayaz" properly in front of Asha...it was poignant and beautifully enacted. The poor child is too young and innocent to even utter najayaz' without fumbling. But that word will probably haunt her at every step in life as she grows up, thanks to her unbelievably selfish parents.

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kautilya04

@kautilya04

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: ---Khushi---
Loved your post even more...the child playing Avni is pure dynamite ⭐️...& makes Avni''s pain appear so real & so believable that you actually want to get hold of Ashish & beat him up black & blue

Seriously...the girl is astounding 👏 She seems to have internalised the character. That's something that most grown-up actors on TV today are incapable of doing. Among child actors, some of them do a somewhat decent job with emotions like fear, sadness, and excitement. But I've not yet seen a child portray rage and pain the way Arsheen does. It impresses me every single time...

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Shaina_b

@Shaina_b

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Posted: 9 years ago

A kid is never najayaz!!!!😊

It is the parents who are!!!!😡 😡 😡

Yashji brought this concept many years ago when in Trishul Amitji's character Vijay called his dad R.K. Gupta (Sanjeev Kumar) his "najayaz baap"!!!!👏 👏 👏 👏

I hope Avni does the same!!!!

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sashashyam

@sashashyam

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Posted: 9 years ago

My darling Khushi,

You and I are really symbiotic. See how much our views on Ashish and Asha overlap, right down to the definition of who is illegitimate! I want to spare my fingers, so I shall simply paste here what I wrote just now in response to your post on my last thread.

"I watched it for a week, my dear Khushi, and then abandoned it, for I do not like Mahesh Bhatt's obsession with illegitimacy (though to my mind it is not the kids who are illegitimate but their stupid, irresponsible parents), basically his real life illegitimacy, a topic on which he has been feeding for well over two decades now.

Plus I could not stand the very capable Viraf Patel - he was splendid in Yashraj TV's Kismat - being reduced to this jelly of a man, nor could I fathom the psyche of his ladylove, who is actually getting ready to have a second kid under these circumstances!😡"

Of the two, while both get my goat, Asha is more responsible for this sorry state of affairs even than Ashish. As a woman, always more vulnerable socially, she should have thought ahead of time about what life would be like for the child she has so heedlessly brought into the world. This kind of thing belongs to the 1960s films with Mala Sinha as the unwed mother.

Two more points.

One, Your title is spot on.

Two, the premise on which the whole script rests - that a noted film director can live with a woman for 10 years in the same city in which he lives and works, without being exposed - belongs in the 1960s. Not in 2016.

I am glad I quit when I did. I have too many things wrong with me already, and I did not want to add an ulcer to the list!

Shyamala Aunty

Originally posted by: ---Khushi---
Ashish- his holier than thou attitude...it's all a farce, imo...As Ashok says, he is indeed NEVER gonna legalise his relationship with Asha...in fact, at a sub conscious level, he never intended to, coz he always knew how his mother would react...& he doesn't know how to handle her...
If he can sleep with the woman he loves(,without informing his mother & keeping it under wraps), why couldn't he marry her in court so many years back?!?!? (without informing his mother & keeping it under wraps)

Yes, one does have responsibilities towards parents...but also towards your child!!!...one whom you've brought into this world!!...

The "dev-purush" ranting mother has another son in her life...Avni doesn't have another father...

Asha- to love unconditionally is fine...if it was just her, it was fine...but y do such people bring children into this world, esp in a society where illegitimate children are subjected to such prejudices & contempt??...& she's now in her la-la land n all ready to bring her second child into this world 👏..bravo...being naive is one thing, & being outright dumb, quite another...

I have nothing but contempt for a man like Ashish...who can't stand for himself...for the one he claims to love more than life...& esp for the one whom he has brought into this world...just because his self-righteous mother wants him to keep her "dev-purush" happy 🤢

My heart reaches out to Avni...who yearns for a "normal" family...& has just realised that the world doesn't consider "her" normal...

You are perfectly normal, baby...it's the spineless son of your eccentric grandma & the (dumb) mother of yours who are not normal...you are a perfectly "jaayaz" child of God. ...it''s your parents who are "najaayaz" ...

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Shaina_b

@Shaina_b

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+ 2

Posted: 9 years ago

About a noted film director living without anyone knowing about it, I would like to say this point has been solved by my very good friend Madhumita!!!!😊 😊 😊

And I would ask you guys one question that how many of you have seen Aham Sharma's wife??

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tallbrowngirl

@tallbrowngirl

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Posted: 9 years ago

Very well said. They are completely destroying Avni's and the unborn child's life. My heart goes out to that innocent child who wants nothing more than a normal family.

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sashashyam

@sashashyam

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 9 years ago

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Dear Shaina,

I would be really interested in seeing her take on it, if you will give me the location.

Aham Sharma's wife: yes, I have seen her photo with him in a Pune Times supplement to the Times of India, soon after the Mahabharata ended. But he is not the right choice for a comparison. Someone far more celebrated and in films, not TV, like Karan Johar or Sanjay Bhansali or Rajkumar Hirani , would be a better choice.

Today, in the era of mobile phones and MMSes, if someone as well known as these guys or this Ashish landed up regularly in a modest mohalla in a swank car to visit a woman, someone would made a video of him, and would have noted his car number and traced his identity in a matter of days. Then sold the news to the most widely read scandal sheet.

Plus, the local curiosity, malevolent curiosity, about Asha's irregular relationship with this frequent visitor would have made her life unbearable. Unless it is that they are pretending to be married - I cannot remember that now - but then that friendly neighbour knows perfectly well that they are not, so why would the rest not do so as well?

Anyhow that is not my main point, which is really about the efficiency with which the paparazzi , and even more so amateur paparazzi, track celebrities in these days of smartphones and the social media.

Shyamala B.Cowsik

Originally posted by: Shaina_b
About a noted film director living without anyone knowing about it, I would like to say this point has been solved by my very good friend Madhumita!!!!😊 😊 😊

And I would ask you guys one question that how many of you have seen Aham Sharma's wife??

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