Plz dont justify wrong behavior in the name of love

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tina

@tina59

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Posted: 9 years ago

I mean Sona saying that Dev is doing all this coz he loves her and what not...cut it out, the creatives are somehow trying to justify his behavior..

Dev is even going beyond by trying to stop a person's career, his loan approval ...that is simply wrong and nothing can justify that action.

Half of the people serving time in Jail can justify their behavior by pointing out their miserable conditions/situations in their lives

if people here find Ishwari to be in the wrong by manipulating her son emotionally, then they should find dev in the wrong too as he is manipulating the situation using his position and money.

If the justification is that Dev is lonely and doing it coz of insecurity in love, the same applies to Ishwari as well, she did it coz of insecurity in love and being lonely.

And most of all...as I had mentioned in some other post here

the creatives based on the today's article plan to take the easy way out and make Rithwik negative or show him bad to justify the other characters and their actions...

Edited by tina59 - 9 years ago

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Shaun

@Jade0001

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Posted: 9 years ago

Of course Dev is manipulating the situation but remember he is a kind man once his mind is settled he will realize his mistake and do right by Ritwik.

Dev is no criminal he is a helpless man in love , he has been possessive about his love all along surely even now seeing his love with someone else kills him .

Just give Dev a chance and you'll see he will do right

At the moment he is thinking Sona is not happy with Ritwik so he is doing stuff that he would never do .

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@raksbasu

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Posted: 9 years ago

Do u remember how Sonakshi came in the Dixit house? It was Dev's illogical, rude and impulsive act. It was definitely extremely wrong of him to bring Sona in their house like the way he did.
So why not now? If he wanted something, he got it by hook or by crook, specially if its in the case of his loved ones. Then won't he do the same thing if its his love?
He is a difficult person to deal with...
He was never the flawless hero. Sonakshi loved him accepting his flaws.

And for God's sake, don't compare him with Ishwari..she knows what she is doing..playing with emotions of none other than his son..and still she is turning blind eye to his pain.

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tina

@tina59

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Posted: 9 years ago

please Dev is not a kid that if he doesn't get the lollipop , he can throw tantrums and get away with it

Just bcoz he is in love and he failed in his love, that gives him the right to ruin another guy's life long dream ...how can you justify that in the name of love.

of course he is just like his mom, he knows exactly what he is doing and why he is doing it.

I stick to my point, he is exactly like his mom, if his mom is wrong and evil so is he or turning out to be

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Remus.Lupin4

@Remus.Lupin4

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: raksbasu
Do u remember how Sonakshi came in the Dixit house? It was Dev's illogical, rude and impulsive act. It was definitely extremely wrong of him to bring Sona in their house like the way he did.
So why not now? If he wanted something, he got it by hook or by crook, specially if its in the case of his loved ones. Then won't he do the same thing if its his love?
He is a difficult person to deal with...
He was never the flawless hero. Sonakshi loved him accepting his flaws.

And for God's sake, don't compare him with Ishwari..she knows what she is doing..playing with emotions of none other than his son..and still she is turning blind eye to his pain.

isnt dev turning blind to sona's moving on?

is it necessary to love someone with these flaws?

bullying your boss
stalking you daily
controlling your future fiancee's loan basically creating hurdles in his career

he was never a flawless hero, but shouldnt dev have some remorse and shame that he made all these promises to sona, then broke them and is now stalking her and trying to interfere between her relationship with ritwik by sabotaging his loan... dev cant commit to sona neither can he talk to his mother to ensure he can commit to sona, then who is he to sabotage whoever tries to marry her..

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Sunny

@desigirl987

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: tina59
I mean Sona saying that Dev is doing all this coz he loves her and what not...cut it out, the creatives are somehow trying to justify his behavior..

Lets not jump to conclusions , I really dont expect our Sona will justify everything he does , lets wait for todays episode before jumping with our guns ... She is surely the one with high EQ and she is exactly the one who can show him a mirror , the much needed presence which is missing from his life now ... So lets wait n watch ...

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Khusharni

@Khusharni

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Posted: 9 years ago

Yes!! When you're making a family-ish type show, you have to understand that the content you are showing should be setting a positive example on people. Showing that he's stalking her and ruining her life in the name of love is completely wrong! You are saying then, that it's justifiable for people to create havoc in their ex's life because "they love them still", get over yourself and move on and let them move on!

Cvs need to get this is their heads, cuz I know their showing the darker side of Dev but this isn't just dark, it's disturbing.

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tina

@tina59

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Posted: 9 years ago

exactly, you want to show his dark side fine but plz do not justify it by saying he is lonely, frustrated and what not...

what ever his situation may be doesn't give anyone the right to create trouble in another person's life or manipulate situations so that you get what you want ...

love or no love, that is not right and don't justify it by showing a crying bechara dev...however depressed he may be, what is wrong is wrong

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Simrran

@poojak

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Posted: 9 years ago

Good argument Tina.

Dev is definelty wrong starting from breakup decision and up until now. But I don't want to compare him with ishwari because ishwari knowingly doing all this but dev is doing this bc he know sona loves him and she will not be happy with anyone else. But if he is behind Rithvik loan cancellation then that is wrong, I won't defend that.

Edited by poojak - 9 years ago