Dev, Why are u so selfish with Sona?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dev has shown to be most selfless person when it comes his family and other people around him. But when it comes to Sona suddenly the "I" syndrome creeps in. Even when things were fine between them, he always said i need u for myself, u r solution to all my problems, u r mine. She did more than her ability to adjust in Dev's family but he kicked her out when he came to knw about his mother's insecurities, not even thinking about her misery and pain. She left with all grace and dignity.

Now after break up he is in immense pain because he misses her, he feels emptiness in his life. But there is no remorse. Not even once he thght how wrong he has done with Sonakshi. After all her love and dedication, she din deserve what she got. Atleast he got for what he has taken this major step in his life " his mother's happiness and smile". On other hand Poor soul Sonakshi has completely lost trust in her self.

Last scene of yest episode again Dev says"I" need to c u once, I need to knw what u r doing. That girl, her feelings and her pain doesn't even crosses his mind.

Even in yest SBS segment he says Sonakshi is getting married to hurt him- again him? This is all u knw her Mr. Dev Dixit. A person who has loved u so selflessly u think she will marry to hurt u? Really?

This aspect of Dev's charcter always surprises me. I don CVs have done this on purpose or they ignoring this very important point.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I guess they are trying to show how 'Not perfect' he is. We always say that not everyone is perfect in life. But isn't it nice to see that imperfection shown in a main lead of a TV show?
Dev's possessiveness for Sona shows how much he loves her and wants to be with her. But his flaw is that at difficult times he hasn't realized or thought of what Sona must be going through after the break up.
The beauty of this serial from the very beginning is how they have tried to give a realistic touch to it. And in order to do that, they try to portray the characters that way. Dev has his flaws and so does Sona. They both are not the ideal hero heroine what we see in most other shows. I think that is the reason we love them even more.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thank you for pointing this out...
I felt the same way after seeing the ABP segment yesterday. She won't be happy getting married to anyone else. She must be doing this because her family wants her to. She's doing this to hurt me...

She has no hope of being with you! You didn't even call her or find out how she was!? You didn't care about her. ARGHHH...

I disagree.. with him. With time, one can move of from heartbreak and be happy again. I've seen it countless times. I don't see why she could be cursed with despair just because she was dumped by a guy. Sonakshi deserves to be happy. And right now Dev can't promise that happiness to her.

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