Trauma & its after affects..... - Page 2

Originally posted by: prachetadas1383

I do completely agree. Its very difficult to stay love after a situation like this. Sona should stand by Dev . But i think not now. Because Dev has to understand her importance in his life. He can't take her granted every time. After listening his words she tried her best to make him understand break up is not the solution. I do understand Dev situation but situation se bhagna solution nehi hota. Sona should keep distance from him to make him understand what he loose n what he gain. When i m happy then only i make others happy. If i myself is in pain how i give happiness to others. This is the mistake Dev did. I think once Dev understand his mistake he will come to Sona n in no time she will forgive him.. but to make him understand now what sona is doing is correct. Its my POV

Originally posted by: ARCH21

You know what... this whole drama and pain is very much needed for all of them to refine their thoughts and then try and fit together like perfect pieces of a puzzle...

Am waiting to see what will shake Ishwari enough to open her eyes to what she is causing - intentionally or unintentionally. She is deep down a good person but her insecurities have overtaken her.

The last time he felt guilty for spending time with Sona (Neha's wedding), he shared his thoughts without filter and she supported him.

Now he cast her aside in his guilt for giving thought to his love and not seeing his mother's pain.

He needs to see that everything has its own place.

But he cant see immediately. He is someone who acts first, thinks later...

Sonakshi - she could have simply walked away from the hospital then. That was neither the place, nor the time, and both were not in the right state of mind to communicate clearly.

He would have reached out to her. But she didn't trust her love enough in the heated moment. (and I will go to the extend of saying, She hasn't had trust in the fact that her dream has actually come true from the get go...) so his words were a reflection of her own fear coming alive & her hurt was on the surface...

While we loved her words but honestly, this could have been handled better if you really love that person. He is clearly in pain.

Without judging anyone here, she loaded him with more guilt & left him alone when he needed strength the most.

He just cast her aside without further thought not realizing this is not just 'something' that hurt your mom but a human being who you love & respect.

Ishwari didn't bat an eyelid when she taunted Sonakshi the next day.

All 3 have a really long distance to travel to understand themselves and then know the meaning of love. I will echo your words - Trust, Respect & Communication.

Originally posted by: randomramblings

wonderful post.. so true. to get into any relationship is easy but maintaining it is an upheaval. Be it lovers or husband and wife, "Being there for the other person during their worst crisis is what defines the relationship". Today neither Sona nor Dev have this maturity in them . Both need to learn and grow together .

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

Word to everything you said here. Its loud & CRYSTAL clear in ARCH style.👏

You do wonders to my ego 😉

Nothing to add from my side. Completely agree with u on the need of break-up, Will just put the same words from my reply in ur prev post.

Even though its painful, break-up is much needed at this moment. For,

Sona - To gather herself and to learn to see her life beyond Dev and pleasing his family.

Dev - To understand his mom, to know that giving up is never a solution and to learn how to balance relations in life.

Ishwari - To learn to see beyond her ego, pride, position & own happiness.

We - a much needed break from Ishwari ji's emotional athyachar.😊

Totally...

Originally posted by: ARCH21

The drama quotient has been raised higher than what I would like but I think after last 2 episodes, they got me back 😃... I want to see where they want to take this and how ... I am with you here😊

I am expecting these fictional characters to rise above their demons & insecurities... but I am expecting the makers to rise above the Indian TV melodrama...

This has so much potential...

Let the break-up lead to something wonderful... 😊 Lets hope for the best😊

(I am not going to be able to share my mom's reaction from next week so... 😊

After Sona's courageous morning visit to the hospital & her parting words to Ishwari...My mom was impressed and her words were, 'something like this must have happened for real to the person who is writing this. This seems to come from experience. They have given such good words to the girl. The girl is crying back home is all fine but the way she is facing the world is wonderful. Go beta, nothing is lost. You are strong. And the father is good too - he gives her strength then lets her cry. Take it out. He will not let her wallow in sorrow - things happen, get up, move on. Life is bigger than this'...😃 )

That was my mom's commentary... 😃

So true. Her family became her strength & his family became his weakness...

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

By the way the story mentioned in this post is from KYY, i think it will come after 200 episodes.