point taken....but still

i dunt get it...wat was the need to show the dirty joke that ridz played and armaans reply to that.....as in all that cuming-to-her-room scene....it kinda destroys riddhima's image as a sensible mature girl.....and alright if that terrace waala scene was done...armaan had left such a good impression by finding wat riddhima did a giri-hui-harkat...y the hell did he cum into her room?? anyone who can justify wat the creatives did???

alrite...fivr..uve rightly justified armaans actions fr wat he did in ur reply...now i totally agree tht it was needed aftr wat ridz did......but im still apalled as to y did the creatives start with this idea anyways....nd pixiecutie....i also wanted tht ridz shud be potrayed as a practical person...not a larger thn life idol...but to do that u dunt have to make ridz appear toally cheap....u cud have shown sumthing more moderate like rids jokin about her death or accident like armaan has dun previously...sumtihn of the same levell...but the whole rape thing...i felt sooooo bad wen armaan hugged her on seeing her tht way....i ws hoping tht its not sum stupid joke of herss but there u go..u kno in reality i f sum girl plays a joke like tht on a guy AND dusnt say sorry AND laughs the way she did...guy can never love her again the same way...the respects gone!! dunt u think...this was a tragic turn which the creatives dint take seriously nd went past tht episode so easily to the basketball game thing

i agree n wht armi did was not rite im not with armi ok rids made a mistake but she relised her mistake so wht was the need of all this crap how can he go around in a girls room n do staff like this im really dispointed with both armi n rids

I adressed something similar in one of the posts earlied. I'm posting it here with the intention of clearing up your questions with regards to Armaan's behavior.



algebramulti wrote:

oh wow...u think its okay for a guy to try to rape a girl and scare her and play around with her izzat...thats amazing... No one's saying that playing with a girl's emotion and self respect and trying to rape her is "okay" for any guy and that is the whole issue here. Ridhimma turned rape into a joke. We all expect Armaan to realise his limits and understand the seriousness of rape, but in all fairness it was Ridhimma who ridiculed the idea of rape by "pretending" to be raped just get the upper hand in a stupid fight of wits. I don't think Ridhimaa is excused to be stupid enough to demean the seriousness of rape just for her personal satisfaction. what rids did was a joke and armaan made it real...so much for morals.... Exactly!! "Ridhimma" turned it into a joke, "Ridhimma" used it as a means to gets her "I won" moment in that fight. Not Armaan. Ridhimma. What Armaan did was just to make her realise that it wasn't a JOKE. Isn't that why he asked, "dar gayi Dr. Ridhimma"? He wasn't planning on raping her, all he did was display to our Dr. Ridhimma that rape isn't a matter light enough to be incorporated in childish banter. its so ironic hearing such stuff coming out from girls mouth...try to put urself in the rids place... I think we all have put ourselves in Ridhimma's place and all we can think is no self respecting sensible girl would make a mockery out of rape for ANY reason. And pretending to be raped herself just to win a fight is far to immoral in my opinion. I believe that is why most of us here are baffled by yesterday's and today's episode. How could Dr. Ridhimma Gupta, d/o Dr. Shashank Gupta consider "pretending to raped" a light enough issue to use it in her pranks? I know most of us appalled by her decision to do so, have only reached this opinion after keeping ourselves is her place. There isn't any justification for what she did other than this: she is just plain immature and juvenile and don't know when she should stop. let me ask u something, if rids did do a bad deed than is it necessary for armaan to stoop to even a lower level than rids???guys with morals, wouldnt do that, they would just slap the girl or cut off all of their relationship... Armaan didn't DO anything. How did he stoop lower? It would be considered stooping lower if he went around making a joke of her "izzat" in public. I don't think teaching an immature girl the seriousness of rape is a bad thing. Yes I agree it scared Ridhimma, but why didn't it scare her when she thought of using rape as her prank? It sends chills down our spine thinking about getting raped God forbid and she went ahead and made a joke out of it. She deserved this little lesson from Armaan. It's sad enough that it took Armaan's words to make her realise how wrong she was, when she should have known it on her own. instead what does armaan do...he gets jealous seeing rids with summit and takes his frustration out on her....I don't get how everyone but Ridhimma notices the flirting nature of Sumit. She's a doctor, someone who should be able to read behaviours and make decisions and diagnosis. And yet she doesn't realise Sumit "loves" her? And I don't think Sumit loving her is an issue, the issue is her not setting her boundaries right. I don't get how she pretends to ignore the flirtatious nature of every one of Sumit's comments and then turns around and holds everything Armaan does to show his affection against him. Very hypocritical if you ask me. If you don't like guys "flirting" with you, then maintain it both ways. Don't allow some and forbid some. hhmmm, i seriously, cant see how u can support armaan...i still maintain both AR brought this situation on themselves with their immaturity. Both AR are at fault...try to look at it neutrally, than u can understand my POV....otherwise, every beliefs and thinking is differ so all types of opinions are welcome...but i hated AR for crossing their limits.
I believe both of them brought this upon themselves too; Armaan by not ignoring her soon enough and Ridhimma by being oblivious to the world around her, but NO ONE, certainly not Armaan, asked her to joke around with rape. That she did on her own, and she should be able to live up to the consequences. Instead of being sorry for what she did, she is "angry" at Armaan for trying to show her how wrong she was.

hey fivr....u just said it all lol!!
ridhima ws way way out of line...i don't think she even considered d repercussions of her act!!
in her bid to make armaan angry...she ended up wid an acute case of myopic vision.well she certainly succeeded in her mission bt at wat cost??
wat galls me is dat even after armaan chilling statement 'tum itna gir sakti ho' she only concluded dat she shouldn't hav used vivek as a prop!!
wat ar did ws wrong in itself bt she needed to b taught d gravity of d issue she mocked not to mention the honour she risked nd lost in process.
so comin to u tanya...der ws certainly no use in showin ridz in such a lowerin light bt hats off to d creatives for thinkin dis up.dey managed to get ridhima into a human front by highlightin her drawbacks...shes stubborn wid a highly competitive spirit nt unlike angali herself only here we didn't expect this off her.but by doing dis atleast dey shoved her off her bigger than life avatar!!!

Originally posted by: fivr_786

I adressed something similar in one of the posts earlied. I'm posting it here with the intention of clearing up your questions with regards to Armaan's behavior.



algebramulti wrote:

oh wow...u think its okay for a guy to try to rape a girl and scare her and play around with her izzat...thats amazing... No one's saying that playing with a girl's emotion and self respect and trying to rape her is "okay" for any guy and that is the whole issue here. Ridhimma turned rape into a joke. We all expect Armaan to realise his limits and understand the seriousness of rape, but in all fairness it was Ridhimma who ridiculed the idea of rape by "pretending" to be raped just get the upper hand in a stupid fight of wits. I don't think Ridhimaa is excused to be stupid enough to demean the seriousness of rape just for her personal satisfaction. what rids did was a joke and armaan made it real...so much for morals.... Exactly!! "Ridhimma" turned it into a joke, "Ridhimma" used it as a means to gets her "I won" moment in that fight. Not Armaan. Ridhimma. What Armaan did was just to make her realise that it wasn't a JOKE. Isn't that why he asked, "dar gayi Dr. Ridhimma"? He wasn't planning on raping her, all he did was display to our Dr. Ridhimma that rape isn't a matter light enough to be incorporated in childish banter. its so ironic hearing such stuff coming out from girls mouth...try to put urself in the rids place... I think we all have put ourselves in Ridhimma's place and all we can think is no self respecting sensible girl would make a mockery out of rape for ANY reason. And pretending to be raped herself just to win a fight is far to immoral in my opinion. I believe that is why most of us here are baffled by yesterday's and today's episode. How could Dr. Ridhimma Gupta, d/o Dr. Shashank Gupta consider "pretending to raped" a light enough issue to use it in her pranks? I know most of us appalled by her decision to do so, have only reached this opinion after keeping ourselves is her place. There isn't any justification for what she did other than this: she is just plain immature and juvenile and don't know when she should stop. let me ask u something, if rids did do a bad deed than is it necessary for armaan to stoop to even a lower level than rids???guys with morals, wouldnt do that, they would just slap the girl or cut off all of their relationship... Armaan didn't DO anything. How did he stoop lower? It would be considered stooping lower if he went around making a joke of her "izzat" in public. I don't think teaching an immature girl the seriousness of rape is a bad thing. Yes I agree it scared Ridhimma, but why didn't it scare her when she thought of using rape as her prank? It sends chills down our spine thinking about getting raped God forbid and she went ahead and made a joke out of it. She deserved this little lesson from Armaan. It's sad enough that it took Armaan's words to make her realise how wrong she was, when she should have known it on her own. instead what does armaan do...he gets jealous seeing rids with summit and takes his frustration out on her....I don't get how everyone but Ridhimma notices the flirting nature of Sumit. She's a doctor, someone who should be able to read behaviours and make decisions and diagnosis. And yet she doesn't realise Sumit "loves" her? And I don't think Sumit loving her is an issue, the issue is her not setting her boundaries right. I don't get how she pretends to ignore the flirtatious nature of every one of Sumit's comments and then turns around and holds everything Armaan does to show his affection against him. Very hypocritical if you ask me. If you don't like guys "flirting" with you, then maintain it both ways. Don't allow some and forbid some. hhmmm, i seriously, cant see how u can support armaan...i still maintain both AR brought this situation on themselves with their immaturity. Both AR are at fault...try to look at it neutrally, than u can understand my POV....otherwise, every beliefs and thinking is differ so all types of opinions are welcome...but i hated AR for crossing their limits.
I believe both of them brought this upon themselves too; Armaan by not ignoring her soon enough and Ridhimma by being oblivious to the world around her, but NO ONE, certainly not Armaan, asked her to joke around with rape. That she did on her own, and she should be able to live up to the consequences. Instead of being sorry for what she did, she is "angry" at Armaan for trying to show her how wrong she was.

👏 Well said i am with you in all the points u covered!!!

well u all ppl did put everything rite...whtz wid da creatives??

i agree-100 percent right-
wat ridz did was wrong but armaan's answer in return also was totally wrong
atleast if he ignored her she wud run behind armu n wud beg for his forgiveness......she would not hav got an execuse for being angry on armaan n it wud hav been interesting to see ridz behind armman...lol!
but all in vain...........