right to blame bf if commited suicide

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Posted: 9 years ago
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so i have seen so many peope blaming their partner
if someone commit suicide
is it right to blame their bf ?
because when u kill youself how can u blame others even if they are reason u killed yourself
this sooraj and pratusha bf case
from the news i got to know both were jerk bf
only used them (jiah and pratuyasha )
so they both commited suicide
can we blame their partners
just wanted to ask this question

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Posted: 9 years ago
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First of all why these girls get involve with such assholes? They hit them and yet the girls are not willing to leave such man?

I just don't get their mind and way of thinking. Pyar karo no one stop you but wen u get hit by them u should realize they r just treating you like bitch an unwanted toy for sadist pleasure.



I blame the girls for this. They r too much into such men that they let such guys treat them as they wanted. Sad!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: DeliciousDevil.

First of all why these girls get involve with such assholes? They hit them and yet the girls are not willing to leave such man?

I just don't get their mind and way of thinking. Pyar karo no one stop you but wen u get hit by them u should realize they r just treating you like bitch an unwanted toy for sadist pleasure.



I blame the girls for this. They r too much into such men that they let such guys treat them as they wanted. Sad!

true
the sad part is they have the option to break up with them and
leave them unlike village womens who cant even leave their husbands because of sexist society

and here we have women like jiah and pratuyasha
both strong indepdent women
have media friends everyone
still blinded in love

isliye i am not sure if you can blame their partners
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I have no sympathy AT ALL for girls who end their lives just cuz of some random jerks they fell in love with & completely forgetting their own parents who brought them up with so much love & care 🤢
I see people arguing that taking your own life is a brave thing. Sorry, living your life inspite of all the problems & difficulities is much more harder but fruitful at the end. Realise your self-worth & kick the jerk out of your life instead of blaming him, his friends, family blah blah & then ending your own precious life. Same goes with boys too who commit suicide if girls ditch them.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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No its not right to blame men if you want to kill yourself.
Firstly... yes. SOORAJ is a jerk..they were immature young foolish whatever thats one thing.. men think they are above women..blame our stupid society.


I have 0 respect for girls who actually destroy themselves for love. Who cant stand up for the sake of their ownselves. Who give boyfriends more importance than family. We are adults who should know the difference between right or wrong. We should be well aware of our priorities. If a guy isnt treating you right, block him from your life. DONT plead him for love. Don't beg him for love. Don't force him for love. I don't think Sooraj was the last guy for Jiah. Was he???? NO!!!! Don't say oh she loved him. Didn't she love her family also? These 2 were too young to know the meaning of love. They were nothing than wild high school party goers also dating each other.

Jiah's mom and sister knew about the depressive love life JIah is in. They confessed. Jiah was well aware herself. YET none of them chose to do nothing about it..

And the jerk won? Yep he did.

R.i.p jiah but me gots no sympathy :) never will.
Many people suffer depression. We are all dealing with unlikely shit in this world. Is Suicide the answer? Who is going to support jiah? Ill be scared for you then.

Boys of this forum should answer. How would they feel if their girlfriends kils themselves in their love. Would they feel terrified?




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Posted: 9 years ago
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I dunno about the Sooraj's case, but in reality suicide is something which can happen due to many circumstances. Just think we are afraid even when he get a little burn in our hand while lighting the match stick, so think how much fycked up your mind has to be to kill yourself.
The person who caused those circumstances whether by torturing the other person which eventually lead to the mental unbalance and suicide is hugely responsible for it. But it all depends on situations, for example A did suicide because he failed in his exams, and he did not wanted to face shame and fearing the parents' reaction. Can we blame the parents? Nope. Should we blame a person who killed himself? Technically yes but think deeply how can we blame him, how much ill that person was mentally? Actually he was a victim of his depression and anxiety

Now case 2, B was forced into prostitution, after her first night of destruction and despair, she killed herself. Now every person involved is responsible for the death

So at the end of the day it is all about circumstances. Lets not blame the dead person, as he/she is dead, he was a victim of his own fycked up mind.

Anyways most important for us is to take care of our near and dear ones, or even acquaintance. Talk well, be good, be frank and encouraging positively to all. Yes it is difficult, if we try it will change not only our lives but also lives of people around us.
Edited by Love_Katty_24-7 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Pratyusha's case seems different, as there were unknown marks on her face. Also her boyfriend was very violent.

what if, he has actually killed her and made it look like a suicide. In that case police needs to investigate, right ?

But yes, abetment to suicide is a very subjective thing. If a person is fragile mind, then little stress can also lead to suicide. in such cases one cannot blame anyone other then them.

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