Nanu inviting Nirmala... correct or wrong?

How far is, Nanu inviting Nirmala for Preeti's marriage is correct?

Of course it depends on once perspective...

According to me, it is not correct as I feel when you are getting your child (may it be son or daughter)married, taking care of that family's emotions is very important, you just can't effort to hurt them as it will result in them thinking that you don't care for them... here Ramnath and Shravan stay with lalaji and his family, infact they all stay together and for me they are one family, so they are your most important guest for the day, so their emotions should be given high level of importance.

I can understand that Nirmala is like his daughter but not his daughter and not that important that, if you don't invite her Marriage can't happen, it would be better to inform her about the marriage and tell her that they are not inviting her as they don't want to hurt Pushkar's family, simple...

Imagine how awkward it will be for both the families in the marriage if Nirmala comes and will Pushkar's family like it and how will they feel, I would definitely feel bad as it was not compulsory for Nirmala presence in the marriage and they know that we don't like her and can't even tolerate her presence but still she is invited without valuing my emotions...I will definitely not like it.

Can't wait to see all the family member's reactions especially Shravan's and ramnath's as they will be caught where they can't leave the place and can't even bear her, I feel more for Sharman here as he is more stuck.. can't see to know how mature he has become and then chachi's , how will she taunt and she will keep taunting tiwaris life long for not caring for their emotions and if she does I don't mind this time...

Guys I know the post is long, but please to share your view and one request, before thinking about this forget our enmity with Ramnath and kamini...think it as a normal situation without being bia, as I really want to understand this situation...

Thank you...