what should i do????

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Posted: 17 years ago
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there is this guy friend of mine that i like more than a friend, but my friend likes him and she always comes up to me and asks me to ask him about her or talk to him about her and i do go being a good friend but he's told me that he doesn't like her and his bestfriend told me that he likes me but i don't want to do anything b/c my friendship mean more than a crush, and the past couple of nights i've had these dreams aboutb him, that really freak me out

plus he added me on msn, and gave me his cell number and we're always texting to one another, and she's asked for his msn and cell number but he's never given it to her, and she always asks me for it

what should i do, tell the guy i lke him too, or just do what i'm doing and back away?

Edited by kuch kuch hota - 17 years ago

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Posted: 17 years ago
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wat a losa😆🤗

I think that u should look at his feelings too. Not because a girl likes a guy, that means he should also likes her.

Yes ur being a good friend by stepping back, but that also means that ur running away from them. How do u think she will feel when she finds out that u weren't as honest to her as she was to u?😕

I think u should go with him. I understand that u don't wana lose ur friendship over him but if u talk to her she might also understand.

Losing ur friendship over just a guy is not worth it, but lying to ur friend also is not right. I'm sure she will be hurt but still.

ok losa if I don't make sense let me know😳

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Posted: 17 years ago
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lol k poojie, but the thing is that this girl when she know's that someone else likes the same guy as her she'll make sure that she get's him no matter what, she has asked me a couple of times if i do or don't like him and at that time i was unsure so i told her that i'm not sure and she totally freaked out on me

she's a girl that i meet at work like a month or two back

and poojie io love you, you make sense 🤗 🤗
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Posted: 17 years ago
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i thnk u shud clear it between ur frnd n ur crush together...opr else it may cause bigger problem in ur life 😊
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Put ur bestie off him by saying something like... that other guy is so much hotter... or like, Lol, u making me fall for him...

then after a few days, when u havent talked about him and her for a while, be like, OMG we were talking on msn yesterday and stuff n he said the cutest thing ever! blah blah, and then say he flirted with you etc etc...
If she asks u for his addy n number n stuff, be like, I dont think he wanted me to give it away... but you should ask him, he would totally give it to you.. 😳
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: kuch kuch hota

lol k poojie, but the thing is that this girl when she know's that someone else likes the same guy as her she'll make sure that she get's him no matter what, she has asked me a couple of times if i do or don't like him and at that time i was unsure so i told her that i'm not sure and she totally freaked out on me

she's a girl that i meet at work like a month or two back

and poojie io love you, you make sense 🤗 🤗

OMG she sounds like ahem ahem, its really kinda up to u if u want to be with him.

lubb ya too my little losa🤗🤗🤗

Edited by Angeleyes 2 - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
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So... hows things... n what happened 😳
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Posted: 17 years ago
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i think if he likes you than you should tell him that you also like him. specially its not your fault that he also likes you and you can make him like your friend so i tihkn you guys should out with each other. if its not convincing than listen to KAL HO NAA HO title song you'll understand what i meant. do read in red tell me if that worked.

Har Ghadi Badal Raha Hai Roop Zindagi
Chaav Hai Kahhi Hai Dhoop Zidnagi
Har Pal Yahan
Jee Bhar Jiyo Jo Hai Sama
Kal Ho Na Ho
Har Ghadi Badal Raha Hai Roop Zindagi
Chaav Hai Kahhi Hai Dhoop Zidnagi
Har Pal Yahan
Jee Bhar Jiyo Jo Hai Sama
Kal Ho Na Ho

Chaahe Jo Tumhe Poore Dil Se
Milta Hai Woh Mushkil Se
Aisa Jo Koi Kahin Hai
Bas Vahi Sabse Hasin Hai
Us Haath Ko Tum Thaam Lo
Woh Meherbaan Kal Ho Na Ho
Har Pal Yahan
Jee Bhar Jiyo Jo Hai Sama
Kal Ho Na Ho

Palko Ke Leke Saaye
Paas Koi Jo Aaye
Lakh Sambhalo Paagal Dil Ko
Dil Dhadke Hi Jaaye
Par Sochlo Is Pal Hai Jo
Woh Dastan Kal Ho Na Ho
Har Pal Yahan
Jee Bhar Jiyo Jo Hai Sama
Kal Ho Na Ho
Har Pal Yahan
Jee Bhar Jiyo Jo Hai Sama
Kal Ho Na Ho
Edited by freecash - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
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ohh wow.. tough situation..
well plz don't back up 4 ur frnd.. b/c by doing that u will b making evry1's life miserable.. talk 2 de guy.. make him understand .. thn get ur frnd thr and al three of u talk... abut how u ppl wana deal wid de situation... and wats the best for all 3 of u.. b/c w/o talkin u wudnt go newhr
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Posted: 17 years ago
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thank you all so much for the good advice THANKS

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