Most of our mistakes, the big ones at least, are the result of allowing emotion to overrule logic. We knew the right choice but didn't obey. A wise man makes his own decisions an ignorant man follows public opinion. Unreasonable haste is the direct road to error. Take time for all things...great haste makes great waste. The past cannot be changed. The future is yet in your power. Haste in every business brings failures. Do not spoil the wonder with haste. Don't let your emotions make your decisions. Don't make a permanent decision for your temporary emotion.
Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret. Anger is the devil that intervenes your sanity while you are in pain. We cannot let the anger overshadow the good things in life. Control anger...Don't let your anger control you. If you are mad don't say anything you'll regret later. Calm down and then do whatever you have to do. An angry person opens their mouth and shuts their eyes. When anger rises, think of the consequences. Be sure to taste your words before you spit them out.
Don't take people for granted. No matter how much they love you, people get tired eventually. Things you take for granted get taken. Even the nicest people have their limits. Always show appreciation. Else you end up missing most what you least appreciated. Even the strongest feelings expired when ignored and taken for granted. The things which you take for granted ...someone else is praying for. You don't know what you've got till it's gone...but the truth is you knew what you had, you just never thought you'd lose it.
To a mind that is still the whole universe surrenders. Your calm mind is the ultimate weapon against your challenges. After a storm comes a calm. The answers you seek never come when the mind is busy, they come when the mind is still. Stay patient and trust your journey. You can't calm the storm. So stop trying. What you can do is calm yourself. The storm will pass. A calm mind brings inner strength and self confidence. Remember to keep the mind calm in difficult moments. Be strong enough to let go and wise enough to wait for what you deserve.
There is always a way. Just because we can't find solution it doesn't mean that there isn't one. Sometimes problems don't require a solution to solve them, instead they require maturity to outgrow them. Have patience...all things are difficult before they become easy. Focus on the solution not the problem. Explain your anger, don't express it and you will immediately open the door to solutions instead of arguments. Don't fix your problems, fix your thinking. Then problems fix themselves.
Dhani took the decision to give divorce paper to viplav while being emotional...her anger has lead her make a decision in haste. She never thought of the consequences of this action. Her anger has made her to think illogically...she takes the frustration on her child vidha as well. Whatever she has spoken to Viplav at that moment she shall regret it later after calming down.
She has taken Viplav for granted... she knows he is there for her but she never expected him to leave her. No matter how much ever she may deny but she cannot change the truth...the love Viplav has for his daughter is immense and he has rights over her none can take it away from him not even Dhani, which Dulari rightfully agreed. She is not able to think logically and has started taking haste decisions, is unable to control her anger...and she demands Parshiya not to get angry for VIplav stay in the chawl. She needs to practice before she preaches.
Dhani has no idea how her decision can damage three lives...On the other hand Viplav has become far more sensible and is able to be calm during such difficult situations. He has not come to a conclusion in a hasty matter unlike Dhani. His stay in chawl not only helps him get closer to his estranged wife and child but it also helps in clearing up the legal issue which the chawl members have faced. This isn't the first time when he had to solve the matter by himself. When Dhani was arrested for a murder case he had to calm down and find a solution to save her life.
Viplav is developing more patience to handle the matter. Now that he has got the support from the chawl neighbors he shall let Dhani know the truth before she again comes to any further conclusions for he has made a decision to settle the matter once for all. All the people residing in the chawl are able to see the goodness in Viplav by calling him a protector, one fine day Dhani shall learn to see the same and will truly appreciate all that he has done for her.
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This TOTD is the combination of the past two episodes.
CID
Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2
