Third person: Mihir jaanbujh kar Anjaan bewakoof insaan - Page 2

I agree with you. Ravan was better than this vicious snake.

She might proclaim that she loves Mihir but what she’s really is jealous of Tulsi. Sure, she’s a successful, independent woman who has a career and enough money to enjoy a happy and comfortable life, what she lacks is family.

She sees Tulsi as a woman who has a good home, husband, kids and a family; which no amount of money can buy. She’s convinced that she is better for Mihir and in love with him because she walks into his life again when his marriage is going through a rough patch, his wife appears older than him and Mihir comes across as a younger man who still has his looks. The fact that all his kids are now adults and don’t need him anymore as much makes her think parenting his kids will be a cakewalk too if they were to get together.

She essentially wants the perks of having what seems like a perfect marriage, as she’s so convinced and confident, hers would be with Mihir, without any of the hard work, duties, responsibilities and obligations, the blood, sweat and tears…

Because at this age she knows she’s alone and lonely; she doesn’t have biology and time on her side to start her own family. Her sister and niece are not enough; so she wants everything readymade and rather than looking for someone her age who is single, widowed, divorced; she would rather chase a much married man because in her head she probably finds the idea of the known more comforting than the unknown but would rather label it as her long buried feelings of love than she suddenly can’t control or bury again.

The fact that Mihir made sure that she feels important, special didn’t help either. He added a her delusions by being a thick headed buffoon!

Originally posted by: BangBang_Shilpa

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Yes, you're right. Jealous is the perfect word to describe Noyona. We all feel a person who's a successful business man or business woman who is rich to lead a happy and perfect life since they have all the luxuries. But, they're the most unhappiest. Specially when they're single. They lack privacy and are always in the limelight. Both Mihir and Noyona are successful in their business but Mihir has Tulsi to share his success whereas Noyona is alone. She finds Tulsi lucky to have everything and hence she feels jealous and wants Mihir in her life. I would say she's selfish who wants everything and for that she'll go to any extent to get it.

I’m not sure if I am forgetting it but we haven’t been shown anything about her past, right? I guess we only know that Noyna is divorced. The reason for her divorce was not revealed, unless it skips my mind.

Wouldn’t surprise me if Ekta shows that Noyna and her husband split up because of their professional lives clashing, maybe she was more successful/ likely earning more than him or getting better opportunities and that caused them to divorce or she was not willing to have children to prioritise her career and her husband wasn’t willing to compromise.

Something tells me that she chose to focus on getting a successful career over her marriage in some way or another and that led to her marriage ending. She might not have regretted it before but she feels something lacking, an emptiness and loneliness now.

Weirder still, Mihir has decided to get her niece married to his son but we are not even sure where or who is Mittali’s dad. The writers have not even mentioned if Noyna’s sister is living with her along with her daughter because she’s a widow or separated or divorced from her husband either. It’s an all women household and we don’t even know why….

Would be interesting to see if Ekta and the team behind this show have the guts to show something along these lines. Regrets of professional women who miss out on the chance of having a marriage and a family… and the crazy things they’re willing to resort to in order to avoid being alone and lonely in their old age.

Originally posted by: BangBang_Shilpa

Hum pagal nhi hai bhaiyya, hamara dimag kharab hai.this song suits on Mihir as well as viewers .

Matlab, issko ILU Noina n kiss wala scene yaad hai, wo bhi nashewali, Jab hosh me hai, to kya chahta hai apni life me ye nhi pata?? Black magic hogya kya Mihir pe . Why is he acting so innocent and making him,hate question his character?? Matlab, iss bande ko life me clarity hi nhi hai. Dekho, Noina, bahot clear hai, she wants him minus Mihir's family🙄🙄, wah, jaise Shaadi k time Tulsi apne saath poora toli leke aayi thi, she can think of her life alone, bcoz she never did realize pariwar kya hota hai.

Tulsi, ko agar Mihir bolta hai he loves Tulsi alone, gulity about that ILU scene, confronts Noina himself like a sensible man, would be better.

If he says, he feels his life can be spent with Noina, then he should take care of his whole family, why Tulsi has to take his responsibility alone?? And Noina should accept Mihir+family.

I agree, this lady isn't Ravan, and Mihir isn't Ram. That's a wrong comparison. Mihir is at fault, and now he's feeling guilty about his actions with Noina. As Tulsi explained what marriage means to Indians, his conscience is bothering him, and he feels like he's cheated on her in this marriage. Otherwise, Mihir has no clarity🙄, what he wants in his life?? Dono haaath me ladoo chahiye usse, Dost k saath lover boy rho, patni k saath 80's indian pati bane raho?? Doesn't make sense.

Sorry, if it sounds rude. Mihir only looks like an attention seeking person, who chooses to be ignorant.

As they say, you can wake a sleeping person not a person pretending to sleep. Mihir, here is pretending to sleep.

His behaviour has been outrageous. Tulsi should have left the moment he chose to stay at Noina's and humiliated her for the nth time. This is not "hamare rishte me behas ke liye jagah hain". Tumhare rishte me badsalooki ki jagah nahin honi chahiye.

Here, Hemant is wrong too. Mihir should confess whatever happened in US. When he understands the kind of advances Noina has been making, the shrewd lawyer that he is, not understanding such basic things in a relationship is absurd. What's also absurd is, the family being a silent spectator to everything, to their mother's, Sister-in-law's, daughter-in-law's disrespect by their father, brother, son! I mean Pari's silence and enjoyment is based on her being an absolute jerk, but what about the others?

By the by, where is Hemant's family?

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

She might proclaim that she loves Mihir but what she’s really is jealous of Tulsi. Sure, she’s a successful, independent woman who has a career and enough money to enjoy a happy and comfortable life, what she lacks is family.

She sees Tulsi as a woman who has a good home, husband, kids and a family; which no amount of money can buy. She’s convinced that she is better for Mihir and in love with him because she walks into his life again when his marriage is going through a rough patch, his wife appears older than him and Mihir comes across as a younger man who still has his looks. The fact that all his kids are now adults and don’t need him anymore as much makes her think parenting his kids will be a cakewalk too if they were to get together.

She essentially wants the perks of having what seems like a perfect marriage, as she’s so convinced and confident, hers would be with Mihir, without any of the hard work, duties, responsibilities and obligations, the blood, sweat and tears…

Because at this age she knows she’s alone and lonely; she doesn’t have biology and time on her side to start her own family. Her sister and niece are not enough; so she wants everything readymade and rather than looking for someone her age who is single, widowed, divorced; she would rather chase a much married man because in her head she probably finds the idea of the known more comforting than the unknown but would rather label it as her long buried feelings of love than she suddenly can’t control or bury again.

The fact that Mihir made sure that she feels important, special didn’t help either. He added a her delusions by being a thick headed buffoon!

Bang on.

Except that i dont think Noyna ever got over Mihir. She may have realised late but probably she never got over him. Which explains preserving his paintings in an exclusive corner of her house.

She said her husband was abusive and committed suicide and if my memory serves right, he knew about Mihir too.

So, there is history. Had it been anyone in place of Tulsi, she probably would have felt the same. Playing guardian to his adult kids is just a, by the by, thing. Nothing she would volunteer or take responsibility of but would contribute on need basis.

She just wants him to call her own.