To be or not to be...some democracy and politeness please!!

There has been a lot of discussion on the morality or correctness of Sagar-Gangaa's impending consummation before marriage. Before delving into the subject, I have 3 important facts to state: -
1) Everyone lives in the 21st century...no one should worry about that. Relax.
2.) People can have different and equally valid perspectives about a similar situation.
3.) Democracy calls for valuing everyone's opinions...majority, minority everyone.
Now coming to my opinion on the issue: - I have been a Sa-Ga fan, have been enjoying the show and would definitely want then as life partners and there is no iota of doubt in it. My only reservation is the logic of the show. Just imagine, Jaanvi died one month back and that too in the same room from the ceiling fan (for which Sagar himself admitted of being morally guilty), Palash almost shot Sagar to death, the Baba almost killed Gangaa, Ratan Mama died nearly 20 days ago...in such a terrible way. Witnessing back to back dead bodies of near ones, that too unnatural deaths both, GAngaa being tied up in a Shamshaan in the middle of the night, Sagar stayed in Police custody for days together...imagine the mental condition of a normal person in such a messed up situation (whether in love or not in love). And that too, happening within a span of 3 months (Supriya's pregnancy, she still is in her 3rd month, I don't know why the CVs don't make the pregnancy progress reasonably) Now , if so much is happening in a span of 3 months, will anyone be stable enough to consider marriage. People want to recuperate and get their rhythm of life, people loose appetite, so much can happen. It is now seeming as if Sagar just wanted Jaanvi to die to get back to Gangaa. Please, they could have at least shown some months to go-by wherein Sagar is trying to come to terms with all that has happened, meanwhile Gangaa pursues her education...Sagar is back with his practice and Gangaa assisting him as an intern and while doing this they re-kindle their love for each other and slowly come out of the scenario. Also, this period could have been used to expose all the other deeds of Jaanvi, which could have further helped Sagar come out of the terrible guilt. Supriya had given birth to a baby et. al.
Time is the biggest healer and that is what the CVs have failed to provide. They could have shown intimate scenes between Sagar and Gangaa while working in Sagar's chamber in the middle of the night or any such situation...the palpable chemistry, rediscovering their passion and then mentally prepared to get married- whether consummating before or after would be immaterial. I just simply have problems with the unnaturalness of the hurry in marriage. Also, considering Ammaji's conservative nature...there should not have been an auspicious function within a year of a family member's death, how come they are planning to doing it with all pomp and show within 2 months??? That, my friends, is my problem...not the coming together of these two people. I'm a huge Sa-Ga Fan, I have an issue with the creative side of the show not that I am judging individuals for their sexual desire. I hope have been able to put my point through. I welcome all kinds of opinions, just that I expect little bit of politeness in the approach. Thank you everyone.😊

I agree that the story could have been better developed regarding the time scale where we see Sagar trying to get back to normal and SaGa subtle affections growing. - the other way could be that so much trauma has happened that saga don't want to lose any more time. There love is based on friendship but it very common in those first few months of a relationship ( in this case has finally be accepted) that you want to be with each other- this is the lust of a new relationship - the can't keep your hands off each phase and Sagar is in that phase

- it doesn't make his character bad or disrespectful as some have suggested, he is a hot blooded young man who finally gets the woman he loves, he would naturally want to touch, kiss her etc

Yes, even I am not calling him bad or disrespectful, it is just the scenario, in which the love making is shown is a bit misplaced. Also, the only reason why this ill-placed logic is still looking believable is because of the actors. I 100% agree that people are watching to see how Vishal once again aces this track, which I'm damn sure he will. The discussion was never on the actor/s but on the character/s. Vishal is an undoubted rockstar, have no worries on that count.😊