Real fans????

I have been mostly a silent member of this forum as I don't get enough time to come here regularly but nowadays its a torture to come here or go into Instagram due to all the negativity that has been going around!! I mean the extreme lengths some of these fans go to are just mind boggling for me. bashing actors especially Dhanya for not uploading Helly's photo or for not liking her and I know for a fact that this has been going on for a very long time now. I have absolutely no idea as to why the celebrities should lead their lives according to what the fans want, I mean i know everybody has some one i their life they do not like, so would you like it if somebody forces you to constantly talk to that person or ask you to upload selfies with them, I feel Dhanya can dislike Helly if she wants, it is her own personal choice. How would this fans feel if the roles were reversed and this fans were told to get along with someone they do not like or take photos for that matter. Now I am not taking any sides, I am a SwaSan and Vahe fan myself but everything is better until it is in reel and not in real life, these immature fans expect reel lives to turn into real lives, I am sick of going into Twitter and Instagram to find fans bashing Helly, Dhanya, Teju, Namish and even Varun and they call themselves fan, shame on you!! It is like the celebrities have to like what you like and hate what the fans hate, I for one would hate it greatly if someone imposed their forceful decisions on me, imagine how would the actors feel and most importantly why does Dhanya, Varun or anybody from the Swaragini for that matter have to explain themselves to these so callled fans. It is mostly this immature girls who have time for all this rubbish and time for bashing, even bashing Teju for her fake and OTT acting. I would like to see this same girls try and act to save their lives, LOL 😆 wouldn't even last a day. They even went upto the extent of bashing Namish for defending Teju, jeez grow up people, the world does not revolve around you and certainly not according to what you want or dream about in your own messed up LA LA Land wherever that is. This past couple of days, the social media has been like a giant war zone fighting for useless and meaning less things. If Dhanya does not like Helly,let her, if Teju is OTT,certainly not your problem,if Helly is fake,does not concern you, so people start living your lives instead of interfering in others lives, this will give you time to do something meaningfull and important in your lives for once. This post is not made to bash any actor or even Dhanya, it is just to show how immature some fans have become. If you start bashing in this thread, be prepared to take some back because I in no way will tolreate any bashing and I certainly do not tolerate these so called VaHe or SwaSan fans...

Bang on post dear👏...completely agree with each and every word of what u have written...but I would like to point out that discussing SNS issues and making posts is not allowed on IF and recently similar post was made which led to fan wars😆

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People should seriously stop with the preaching posts. I am not encouraging such behaviour from people under the pretense of being fans, however, this forum is there to discuss the show, it's characters and actors, not how some people are acting outside of India forums. As far as bashing on the forum is considered, then the DT is doing a pretty good job to keep it in control because I have known forums where fans literally got out of hands. Also I am pretty sure people who watch this show are mature enough to understand what's right and what not. They don't need posts like these to correct themselves. If they chose to criticise actors then I am sure your post isn't of much help to them because they are probably already aware of what they are doing wrong, yet they chose to do it anyways.

Thank you for this post. It is so freaking much needed. I just don't get it, why do everyone has to like everyone or be best friends with them? I mean seriously, this has been the case for me VaHe really don't have to be best friends forever for them to convince me anything. I adore them individually for the work they do, for the dedication they show. Whatever they do outside their work is their freaking business. Who the hell are we to even comment on this? Even for Tej Helly for that matter or Tej Namish or Helly Namish or Tej Varun for that matter. From the off screen interviews it is quite clear that they do get along to the level that they can comfortably work with each other and even hang out if needed. Is anything important than this? The snapping from Dhanya, Amar and Namish on the same day showed how frustrated they were with all the bashing and comparison and what not. If they are freaking sharing their pics and few moments of their life with us, are we gonna start sitting on their head and rule their freaking life? That's freaking insane. Why can't we let them be? Why freaking speculate so much? Why can't we just live and let live? It's insane how the lines were crossed that day. And again it applies to all the fandom.
We should just enjoy what we have rather than bashing it and spoiling with our hands.
Helly Varun Tej NamiSh are actors. Not the perfect ones but still getting there. But just because they are actors we freaking don't have any right to treat them like trash just because we like someone more than others. Trust me, when it comes to complaining abt acting, I have done it. I won't deny it. But I have strictly prohibited myself to involve myself in their life. There is always a line a fan freaking always have to respect no matter what.
Please, they are humans. Give them some breathing space and stop all this bashing and comparing. Nothing is gonna be solved that way. It will just make you (the ones who are involved in bashing) look down.
Lastly, thank you for this post.
Peace out,
Shona

I'm so glad that many are raising their hands against bashing. . seriously this bashers don't know how much they are hurting others.. keep it up girl.. I wish many posts are needed about this issue .. it is a severe issue and those cheap people should get sone shame by seeing this.. love you for this post

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Bang on post dear👏...completely agree with each and every word of what u have written...but I would like to point out that discussing SNS issues and making posts is not allowed on IF and recently similar post was made which led to fan wars😆

But yes I agree..the bashing should stop..all four leads are friends offscreen. .they share a good rapport and even if someone doesn't get along with someone that should be none of our concern because its their life...we should be happy as long as we are getting scenes and ivs of our favourite couple..offscreen these actors are normal people like us so what they do or not do we shouldn't be bothered as long as they are entertaining us.

Teju and helly are bashed so much..both girls are so sweet and down to earth and if u watch their ivs they come across as siblings..they both have so much fun together. .dhanya is bashed that why she doesn't like helly why she doesn't post pics with her..why..is it necessary that one has to get along with everyone. .namish is bashed even when he went against his own fans and supported other fans, varun is bashed for saying that teju is my friend and giving ivs with her. So now actors should sit, stand and talk when their fans say.

Don't know what has happened to people..so much hatred, bashing and bashing for every small thing.

So yes its high time fans should start acting maturely now..enough of abusing each other and actors

Originally posted by: temishfan

Bang on post dear👏...completely agree with each and every word of what u have written...but I would like to point out that discussing SNS issues and making posts is not allowed on IF and recently similar post was made which led to fan wars😆

But yes I agree..the bashing should stop..all four leads are friends offscreen. .they share a good rapport and even if someone doesn't get along with someone that should be none of our concern because its their life...we should be happy as long as we are getting scenes and ivs of our favourite couple..offscreen these actors are normal people like us so what they do or not do we shouldn't be bothered as long as they are entertaining us.

Teju and helly are bashed so much..both girls are so sweet and down to earth and if u watch their ivs they come across as siblings..they both have so much fun together. .dhanya is bashed that why she doesn't like helly why she doesn't post pics with her..why..is it necessary that one has to get along with everyone. .namish is bashed even when he went against his own fans and supported other fans, varun is bashed for saying that teju is my friend and giving ivs with her. So now actors should sit, stand and talk when their fans say.

Don't know what has happened to people..so much hatred, bashing and bashing for every small thing.

So yes its high time fans should start acting maturely now..enough of abusing each other and actors

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Completely agree with you bashing the actors and interfering in their personal lives is the disgusting thing to do. If you don't like the actor it's completely fine just ignore them why do you bash them. Disliking and hating fictional characters is ok but for that bashing real people is totally wrong. It needs to be stopped. Helly,tej, namish are all very young and talented they are working so hard. How do we feel when someone says those things about us. Even they are normal people like us they get hurt too.

Even poor dhanya is not spared even though she is no where related to the show. Namish was bashed just because he took a stand for teju. They bash helly by calling her names which we can't even say. she is so sweet and varun gets bashed for not giving IVs with helly and they bash teju by calling her fake and what not she wasn't spared on her birthday too. What is wrong with these people. How can someone stoop so low and say those disgusting things for the people they don't even know. I feel so bad for these 4 actors they are such great friends off screen share a good bonding and so called fans are making the matters worse.