Originally posted by: russhmeSS
The intimacy comment was related to some other post.
Yes, moving on was not easy. I didn't claim that. Yes, it took long time for Anandi to move on. But once she moved on, she never looked back. Same was the case with Jagya. So the intimacy was never a problem for them after they moved on with their respective partners.
When Jagya came back to Anandi leaving Gauri, she was already committed to Shiv. Though she was in zombie state, she was very clear about one thing that she will never let down Shiv and his family and stick to the relationship irrespective of the circumstances in which she got into it. So there was no question of accepting Jagya back as her partner. Not accepting Jagya had nothing to do with intimacy.
Can't comment anything on the situation that you shared, because I have no insight into the background or circumstances. But I don't see any reason why marriage should affect status of any girl as daughter in her house, even if the she is daughter-in-law turned daughter. More than how society looks at such relationships, it is about how you look at your own relationships. Probably in Anandi and Singh's case CVs wanted it to go that way. They didn't feel that Anandi lost her status as daughter in the house after all these years.
They had difficulty in moving on but once they moved on they never looked back on those days when they were husband and wife though they continued to care for each other as friends.
@red 👏This is what I have been trying to say.It's not society's opinion that should dictate one's relationships but what one feels about the person that should shape the relationships.
Anandi never saw Singhs as any different from her own parents and they never saw her someone who is not part of the family.For them the status of JA marriage did not matter in their relationship.
Through Anandi and Singh's relationship they wanted to show that though there was so much love in that relationship the marriage did not survive because it happened at an age that shouldn't happen.Jagya may have failed Anandi as her husband but as a friend he was there for her.This is what they wanted to show through Singhs and Anandi. The evil tradition cast a shadow on their interpersonal relationships and hurt them all but it is the humanity and their innate goodness that healed the wounds that child marriage caused.
Dsa and Jagya being there for Anandi when she was in need of support post her husband's death and Nandini's kidnap is to show that relationships matter more than the society's diktats.
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