Hospital Ward #982: Oh My God - Page 3

Originally posted by: teddyyy

...yall scare me 🤣

Originally posted by: ...Shakti...

tbh i used to feel the same way, and still do. i don't have much faith in marriages sticking or even relationships lasting, i've seen too many fall apart and just from personal experience and seeing it personally i think i lost faith in people. it wasn't until i actually fell in love that i started believing in it and that took a long time too. like as much as i laugh about my relationship with A, he truly made me believe. i'm a person who is too independent for their own good, it pisses off my family but i really am a self-made woman i hate it when ppl do things for me. I made sure to get good grades in HS so i could get a full ride to undergrad so my parents wouldn't have to pay and even now i have 2 part time jobs to pay for grad school, i refuse to let my parents pay for me; i give them checks and send them on vacations now.

I've seen so many verbally abusive relationships that i was kinda scared of trusting anyone. A lot of desi households have fathers who are verbally abusive not just to their wives but to their children as well, i'm lucky that i dont have that but ppl close to me do and it effects them a lot.

No joke i literally had the same POV as you i want to be free and do what i want without having any restrictions and i felt like love was a restriction and marriage was something that could hold you back but being with A changed my perspective because he doesn't want me to change who I am and he doesn't expect me to change, i'm still the same person and he wants to be with the real me. I think being with him made me realize that love isn't about changing a person at all it's about accpeting them for who they are, flaws included and loving those flaws. He didn't make me a better person he inspired me to be a better version of myself as i did for him.

so all these shows that show ppl changing in love i call BS to that because ppl don't change (cough yuvi cough), their inner most personalities are only intensified.

i can't settle loll maybe that's just a problem but i really can't and i think A knows this somehow, what my life has been and everything i have went through and worked for i refuse to settle for a life that is less than what i deserve and he feels the same. Yeah we have to compromise because in any relationship you have to compromise but we don't take each other for granted. even after so many years i still feel the same feeling i felt since the first time we confessed our feelings for each other. I think that's what love is, it's pure and beautiful and rough and hard but it's worth it if you're with the right person.

Sorry guys i know this got kinda long 😳😳

let me tell girl, it is not cute and adorable after a while esp when the anger phase comes out. i think that's why i dont wanna see kunj 'jealous' because jealousy almost always = anger in men . it's only cute when they are normal about it loll it's fun to push their buttons sometimes

Originally posted by: teddyyy

Damn, all I have to say is I'm proud of you & in awe of how amazingly inspiring you are!

Originally posted by: ...Shakti...

i hate men who do that to their wives, i can never respect them

Originally posted by: areeba_blossom

That's really great to be independent enough to live for yourself. I hope you find happiness in all your decisions. I have taken out loans because the university that offered me a full ride wasn't just the place i wanted to settle in so i transferred. I understand the need to be self-sufficient and it's super great that you are a person who likes to be independent.

I think in recent tracks, we've seen Kunj get jealous. That cricket bet was because of the jealousy and not being able to ignore the whole past Yuvi had with Twinkle. I don't enjoy jealousy that much on-screen. it's a very insecure feeling imo

Originally posted by: Tranquility123

I LOVE LISTENING TO HAPPY COUPLE STORIES 😆

#TeamA #TeamG #TeamDKI 🤣