need suggestion.

guys what should i do...

well i am goint to india after like 5.5 yrs and i use to live in surat gujarat. we dont have anybody there excep for few of my dad's friends. and one of my friend... she is getting enggage this december and n i wanna meet her and not meet her cuz if i go to surat where i used to live then both my grand parents have troubles ... like my materinal grand parens are in mumbai and my paternial grand parents are in small town named visnagar its near amdabad

i wanna see my friend in surat but in like 5 ys she never gave me a call or neither i did..... our friendship got loose before i left india which was like 5 yrs back.... she recenly got me in orkut form and for like fast 2 months i have been keep in touch with her.... she is forcing me to come attain her enggag which is on dec 30 and i am not getting any ticket to stay til then......i dont wnat to go and somethimgs i felll i wanna go ....she still dont know that i amcomming to india.....i am leaving on 27th nov.... and i will be back on 28th dec

my grand parents cant take me to surat cuz they both are quit old n i dont wnat them to get any stress from me....

i will take flight from mumbai to amdabad and surat is in between mum n amdabad.... if i go to surat then i will be staying with my dad's friend family.....

plz help me guys what should i do i am so lost.........

hm...well u can ask ur grandparents if they can maybe arrange fr one of their frnds or a reliable person to take u there.
if not then ask ur frnd to come over to meet u at ur grandparents
um...but since its bout her engagement there's no way i guess fr u to stay till then
in that case how about u guys hav a gathering. arrange to meet his future hubby, and hav wht my family calls a dholki.
play songs, eat food, dance till u drop!
frm my point of view what matters is to spend time with ur old and good frnd...plus i don't think it'll be tht bad if u stayed at ur dads frnds place!!
this is only an opinion.. bottom line: the decision is urs! 😉
by the way, have a safe, awesome, and funfilled trip!!!

Honestly, shaadi is rarely about the bride and groom anymore. It is more about enjoying yourself, so even if you feel a bit awkward with this friend or there are some travel issues, I think you should still go, and chillax at the wedding. Weddings are so much fun--once you get there, I am sure all your troubles and questions will go away. Hope this helps!

Since this has nothing to do with Khwaish, I'm moving this topic to Advice Corner.


*Topic Moved.* 😳

y dont u consult wid ur parents? 😕

So wait... if you come back on the 28th Dec... doesnt that mean u miss the engagement anyway =S

Or did I get something wrong here??