Swa lost as a lawyer, but won as a woman

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Posted: 9 years ago
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What a turn around, what a beauty. Suhasini Sinha you simply lost it. Whatever you are whether you are a lawyer, doctor, wife, student, mother, " n" number of roles you play in your life. But what that never changes in this life for you is the fact that you are a woman. And the most essential quality of a woman is that as much as possible she keeps the relations together.
In every instance her primary responsibility is managing relations the right way. Just like the chain of pearls that are tenderly held together by a soft thread. If one breaks everything breaks. It is a very painful task to hold everyone in a family in a single thread like that.
And it needs an exceptionally knowledgeable woman who has good observing skills, analytical ability and presence of mind to ensure that conflicts are nipped in the bud at the right time, unnecessary conflicts does not happen. Back up her instinct with logic.
Jaya hides conflicts thinking they will disappear on their own. And Suhas she suppresses conflicts willfully. Both doesn't help. Addressing conflicts is necessary at every point which Swa does.
I felt sorry for Swa today. In front of her the idol Suhasini Sinha was breaking. There is nothing more shameful for an elder than lose the trust of a youngster who has blindly followed you.
And look at Swa. She didn't tell anything to Adarsh. She didn't put Adarsh between herself and Suhas. She didn't tell her suspicion to him. She decided to tell it to Suhas first and assure her she will not harm their relation. She didn't want to unnecessarily spoil mother -son relation.
And her stand for her family paid off. Ramakrishnan went. But Adarsh didn't allow him to apologize. He came in between and told since his guruji came, the intend is enough to end the topic. And I loved that Abhay jumped in and supported his brother than create unnecessary drama. Ahuja had no option, but I guess he accepted it wholeheartedly and Simmi seemed to be happy.
And thank you from Swa and sorry from Adarsh. I told naa when you think with cool head that sorry comes along from both sides 😆😆
PS: I loved that they gave Swa the red dress for engagement. Red the color of Goddess Durga, symbol of Shakthi. Someone is coming to clean up the Sinha parivaar

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Now I wonder what mauka Suha was talking about.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nothing star. She has understood Swa's weakness that Swa doesn't want to come between Adarsh and his mom. Now she will play her dirty tricks in such a way that Adarsh is placed painfully between them so that Swa succumbs.
And it is here Asad becomes Swadarsh savior. Suhas defeat has to be public. Not at home, but in the court of law 😆😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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As usual v well analysed shruthi.tru suhas just wants her power may b over her relations or family members
Jaya s very weak n submissive in her approach as she blindly follows her MIL being a perfect bahu but she s very strong from inside its her inner strength that has kept her attached to jaydev

Whereas simmi s very impulsive she does things first n then thinks i.e coz lack of education .but her strenghth s that abhay loves her n has gone against his family to marry her.

But with swadhu she s intelligent , straightforward n values relations (thanx to her mamu n mami ).Although she has shown up.her cards too early i m pretty sure in the due course adarsh is gog to realise what his mom s trying to prove to him as he said in one of the episode to swadhu "guruji hameesha kuch aacha karne jaate hain toh bure kyon ban jaate hain" i m pretty sure if these incidents keep n happening he will b forced to think guruji bure ban jaate hain ya circumstances aise bana diye jaate hain n by whom.

@shruthi u mentioned abt red dress yah even i liked Godess durga to clean all evil thoughts also i like blue n white combi for adarsh as he s pure soul n loves all his relations to the depth of sea.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@suha as I said earlier , you write beautifully .. Bang on... Relationships are not meant to be binded or controlled .. They need space , love and nurtured to grow ... Yushh swa became a women .. No matter soon she will be a great lawyer too.. What irked me is that Manohar told .. That he is not angry on swa , she is a good lawyer good human being good family but he doesn't want suha to loose.. Is it some sort of a battle or game?! Takla doesn't understsnd it's relationship , in process of harming swa n her relationship with adhu , they are hurting their own son... After yesterday's episode I got one thing clear not saas and bahu will be pitted directly ... Arey peet peeche maarney mein kya maza hai!! Real fight begins with one on one match ... When you clearly knows who is your opponent , who is your target ...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hey Shruthi,

loved reading u as always u bring a nice point.. I wanted to ask is there any significance in that scene where Asad shows the terrorist trio Manohar as kam baal and one of the guys saying yeh toh pura takla hai..
My favourite part was Jay-Jaya coming together for managing the wedding preparations. This will give Jaya hope that maybe Jay is giving her a chance their relationship a chance.. and only when she realises that he doesnt care of her or their relationship inspite of all that she does.. her breaking point will be tat.. I guess for wedding her parents will also be there so there could be a reality check around that time for her.. I just hope Jaya moves out of this adarsh bahu mode. or will she just continue her facade...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@Jria yah tru if after so much efforts by jaya if jaydev still doesnt value her then may its time for her to cross that dehleez to find her tru love n respect n that could b a big blow for suhu n thn she will understand relations cant b forced
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@dumpling missed on blue white of Adarsh. It is not only the color of ocean, but that of sky and also that of mountain caps viewed from a distance. And it is also the beautiful illusion of nature which doesn't show what lies beneath the calm surface. Suha will misread Adarsh. Today also he gave her by jumping between Ahuja and Guruji and holding Appa's hand and speaking on his behalf.
Jaya and Simmi I agree to you on your analysis. And Jaya is a nurturer in true sense. Swa's only job should be to ensure that Jaya gets the respect she deserves and no one take advantage of her goodness which currently both Suha and Simmi is doing.
She has to let know Simmi the truth of her heart condition so that Simmi becomes responsible than running around impulsively. Adarsh will know what his mom is upto. Poor guy he will break for sure
@gayatri Manohar tells he doesn't want Suhas to lose. But does that mean you give unlimited control to her. No check points whether she is doing right or wrong. Suhas has told Adarsh is like Manohar. So obviously he will also not want Swa to lose right. But then instead of giving unlimited control, he will put checks and balances, taking pain himself too so that together they stand for what is right.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@Ria Jai has to know what Jaya is. He needs to know the power of a wife in true sense. If you see he no longer taunts her after she came with the divorce thing for Adarsh's sake. Though there is no love, there is some respect for Jaya in Jai's eyes.
And Jaya is happy at that place now. We only need to see whether it will progress from this point or they part ways. For me it should progress. Because Jaya cannot fail. If she fails it is a woman's failure, failure of goodness, failure of every good attribute.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Very nice description of a woman.
Actually whole sinha family is like this. Simmi may have problems but she never wanted to move out of sinha house.
Suhasini wants all of them to live under the same roof. She never tried to manipulate Abhay to divorce simmi as was mentioned by Ahuja in one of episode. Ahuja never tried to influence Abhay to get separated from his family.

Regarding swadheenta you have described her so well. She was looking beautiful in her yellow and orange dress.

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