Vaada karna aasaan hota hai, but nibhana mushkil. Both of them said this to each other. I think the biggest lessen they learnt from this incidence is that all they needed was for one person to support the other. If one person held the other's back, they will never have a disagreement. Swadheenta told him the real truth yesterday. They will fight, they will argue, but at the end of it, they will come to one conclusion which will be true for the both of them. But the unspoken thing there was the fact that they will argue and fight in the confines of their privacy. I hope this is the last fight they had in public.
Swadheenta did not get intelligent overnight. I got the impression that Swadheenta had guessed that someone (Suhasini) was trying to harm their relationship. In such a situation, it would reflect like her loss if she let appa apologize. And she was under the impression that Adarsh was on the opposite side in this situation. I think it took her some time to realize that Adarsh would never let appa feel insulted or humiliated.But in the end, both of them realized that they had not broken any promise that they made. They were both on each others side always. They just failed to see it in their anger. I hope that is another lesson learnt.
Shru, I kind of disagree that she failed as a lawyer. Yes, she won as a woman, but she is proving to be a better lawyer than Suhasini in my eyes. Most of us complicate our lives by taking the tough route when it is absolutely not necessary. Swadheenta realized that Suhasini is still apprehensive about their relationship. By exposing her without knowing the intensity of Suhasini's insecurity, she may be creating a problem that does not exist. So, she is trying the most direct route of addressing it head on, and assuring Suhasini that she does not mean any threat. She hopes that this will solve the problem. But she will not get comfortable. She will be watchful.
The thing that Suhasini does not realize is the extent of understanding in Adarsh and Swadheenta's relationship. Manohar and Suhasini also share a superficial relationship where Manohar is completely submissive and follows everything Suhasini says. Simmi and Abhay are way to immature as a couple, and now it is evident that Jaya and Jaidev are not even a unit. So Suhasini has not seen or experienced a relationship of equals. She has not seen the power of understanding and supporting one another. I think that will be a good eye opener for her.
We have all mentioned many things about Jaya and Jaidev taking the reigns of the Sinha family. I want that. I would love that. As individuals they are great. But as a couple, they have so many things to learn from SwaDarsh. And they are being brought together (even if it is unknowingly) by SwaDarsh. Although Jaya and Jaidev will take the reigns of the Sinha family eventually, SwaDarsh will be the ideal couple that everyone will look up to.
Edited by Soapoperasrfun - 9 years ago
Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2
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