My take on today's episode and Ishra

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Posted: 9 years ago
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First of all, today was a superb espiode as it had revealed so many emotions from both Raman and Ishita. They are complicated characters to themselves and to the audience, however for me a new light had been shed on both characters.

Raman was portrayed as a husband who was surprised and awed that his wife is alive and was happy with this very fact. Anyone could tell how much he love her and this was the real Raman. He was so surprised that he even drag Bala to confirm if they really saw Ishita 😆

Now Ishita had defended Adi in front of Mani and despite that the fact she had emphasised that she love both Adi and Aliya - it's looked to me that she is more of a mother to Adi than Aliya. Since the very minute she heard that the accused boy is no other than her own darling and only son Aditya Bhalla - she changed sides and supported Adi even before hearing the full story from Aliya. thus even after so many years with Aliya, she could not replace Ishita's own child.

When Mani interfered with the mother and son moment. Raman's whole demeanor altered from a happy father to cold hearted and angry husband and father. He was quick to shield Adi from Mani. Both father and son stood united after Mani exited from the scene. This was the moment where Ishita had made a mistake because even though Raman couldn't meet her eyes, he subconsciously want to know if she will stand with them or say anything which she didn't. She ran after Mani and for Raman, I would imagine that he believed that she was unaffected or didn't care for them as she did for Mani which explained him being indifference in the precap. He is so angry that he didn't hesitate to hurt Ishita by reminding himself and her about Ruthi. I believe he thinked nothing had change since he misunderstood her intention of running after Mani.

Now, I can't help thinking that both Raman and Ishita love each other more than their family members a and children. Yes RKB had said hard words to Ishita which he probably said in anger. But the moment Ishita was dead in his mind - he changed and couldn't be a proper father or son. He need Ishita like an oxygen so that he can become like his usual self. The minute he saw her - we saw brief glimpses of the old RKB coming back. Same goes for Ishita - yes she love her kids yet she abandoned them due to her husband's harsh words. I still couldn't comprehend why and how she can leave her kids until I realise that she love her husband above them that from the moment he had insulted her - he broke her and she couldn't bear his hate that she left.
However when she heard him yesterday speaking affectionly about his wife unknowingly - she couldn't resist but turn around and yearn to see her husband who she once knew loved her. The old Ishita came back like a lioness and defended her son from Mani.

Big applause to KP and DT for acting superbly and bringing our beloved couple Ishra alive. Ishra are unique couple who have been through a lot and yet the still continue to burn our screens with their intense and heartbreaking chemistry and love for each other. I am loving the new montage and is hoping to see more storylines focusing on Ishra as a couple 😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I also feel ishita love adi more than aliya , aliya never and ever could take place of adi ruhi,pihu in ishita heart and life no matter what she do
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I can't help thinking that both Raman and Ishita love each other more than their family members a and children. Yes RKB had said hard words to Ishita which he probably said in anger. But the minute Ishita was dead in his mind - he changed and couldn't be a proper father or son. He need Ishita like an oxygen so that he can become like his usual self. The minute he saw her - we saw brief glimpses of the old RKB coming back. Same goes for Ishita - yes she love her kids yet she abandoned them due to her husband's harsh words. I still couldn't comprehend why and how she can leave her kids until I realsie that she love her husband above them that from the moment he had insulted her - he broke her and she couldn't bear his hate that she left. However when she heard him yesterday speaking affectionly about his wife unknowingly she couldn't resist but turn around and yearn to see her husband who she once knew that loved her. The old Ishita came back like a lioness and defended her son from Mani.

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I agree... they love each other so much that they can forget anyone around... ishita choose to remain dead to her parents (which was wrong) just for raman's happiness due to his harsh words...
raman was so happy ... just to make sure he saw ishita ... he pulled bala and pinted towards ishita... he was awe struck...
they are just impossible...
and i love them😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: 3fra

I also feel ishita love adi more than aliya , aliya never and ever could take place of adi ruhi,pihu in ishita heart and life no matter what she do




It will be interesting to see how Ishita's relationship will develop with Adi now that she know his identity and whether Aliya will be affected by this. As Aliya will need to learn to share Ishita with Adi
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: CharmGal




It will be interesting to see how Ishita's relationship will develop with Adi now that she know his identity and whether Aliya will be affected by this. As Aliya will need to learn to share Ishita with Adi


did I heard ishita calling adi baby 😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweet.Aman

Both r fools in love...




Agree 😆

On a serious note they are so in love that they couldn't see others suffering other than their own pain over the conflict and blames they shared due to Ruthi's death. It will change once they realise their Ruthi is alive or try to understand where each other are coming from.

I feel both Raman and Ishita are justified to feel what they felt but handled it badly. Since they are also parents to Adi and Piku, which they neglect and fail to realise due to their pain over Ruthi
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: CharmGal




Agree 😆

On a serious note they are so in love that they couldn't see others suffering other than their own pain over the conflict and blames they shared due to Ruthi's death. It will change once they realise their Ruthi is alive or try to understand where each other are coming from.

I feel both Raman and Ishita are justified to feel what they felt but handled it badly. Since they are also parents to Adi and Piku, which they neglect and fail to realise due to their pain over Ruthi


@bold would be nice to see...especially from Raman understanding Ishita's side

Minus the OTT crap and need for a leap...parents often come closer or drift far apart after the death of a child so given Ishita & Raman's strong personalities and nature of their relationship...the realistic though is there - just engulfed in drama 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Beautiful take on the episode...without siding too much on one side...

It would have been more awesome if Raman remembered seeing Ishita in the lift & frantically searching for her before the jail sequence.

Raman is angry that she choose to stay away from them & he cannot stay calm after that.He is bound to spit venom.
But Iam glad that Ishita didn't take it lying today. She stood for herself.
When he was uttering all those words, her expression was like "Well, what else is new.."

Alia wants to call her Amma to complete her imaginary family...& Ishita agreed because she is indebted to Mani & she naturally can't deny any child...
But even 7 years with her, Alia is not Adi ,Alia can never be Adi because Adi is the son of Raman kumar Bhalla & she is not...
For all her naturally motherly feelings Ishita didn't hesitate a second to side with Adi...after knowing that it is Aditya Bhalla...That says it all..
But for Raman that never will be enough & that's the way it should be too..
(Even as the audience for us too...Infact Alia is as irritating as Mani and Iam hating her constantly being clingy with Ishu).

Everyone was worried that why no one is asking Ishita Why she stayed away..
Mihika asked in her own way... & she gave the answer too..
"I killed Ruhi. Because of me everyone suffered. I cannot go back and push them all into more pain or recreate chaos..Its better this way, even though they feel Iam dead when Iam not."
& It would be the same answer for everybody else..except Raman & the kids...
Raman won't ask her that anytime soon, because in his heart he knows the answer and he can't hear her say that to his face..

For anyone doubting Ishita's love..
Here are the beautiful lines from my fav philosopher Rumi, reflecting her inner turmoil...

I choose to love you in silence,for in silence there is no rejection.
I choose to love you in loneliness,for in loneliness no one owns you but me.
I choose to adore you from a distance, for distance will shield me from pain.
I choose to kiss you in the wind, for the wind is gentler than my lips.
I choose to hold you in my dreams, for in my dreams, you have no end.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anuhyaa

Beautiful take on the episode...without siding too much on one side...

It would have been more awesome if Raman remembered seeing Ishita in the lift & frantically searching for her before the jail sequence.

Raman is angry that she choose to stay away from them & he cannot stay calm after that.He is bound to spit venom.
But Iam glad that Ishita didn't take it lying today. She stood for herself.
When he was uttering all those words, her expression was like "Well, what else is new.."

Alia wants to call her Amma to complete her imaginary family...& Ishita agreed because she is indebted to Mani & she naturally can't deny any child...
But even 7 years with her, Alia is not Adi ,Alia can never be Adi because Adi is the son of Raman kumar Bhalla & she is not...
For all her naturally motherly feelings Ishita didn't hesitate a second to side with Adi...after knowing that it is Aditya Bhalla...That says it all..
But for Raman that never will be enough & that's the way it should be too..
(Even as the audience for us too...Infact Alia is as irritating as Mani and Iam hating her constantly being clingy with Ishu).

Everyone was worried that why no one is asking Ishita Why she stayed away..
Mihika asked in her own way... & she gave the answer too..
"I killed Ruhi. Because of me everyone suffered. I cannot go back and push them all into more pain or recreate chaos..Its better this way, even though they feel Iam dead when Iam not."
& It would be the same answer for everybody else..except Raman & the kids...
Raman won't ask her that anytime soon, because in his heart he knows the answer and he can't hear her say that to his face..

For anyone doubting Ishita's love..
Here are the beautiful lines from my fav philosopher Rumi, reflecting her inner turmoil...

I choose to love you in silence,for in silence there is no rejection.
I choose to love you in loneliness,for in loneliness no one owns you but me.
I choose to adore you from a distance, for distance will shield me from pain.
I choose to kiss you in the wind, for the wind is gentler than my lips.
I choose to hold you in my dreams, for in my dreams, you have no end.



bengo 👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anuhyaa

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2">Beautiful take on the episode...without siding too much on one side...

It would have been more awesome if Raman remembered seeing Ishita in the lift & frantically searching for her before the jail sequence.

Raman is angry that she choose to stay away from them & he cannot stay calm after that.He is bound to spit venom.
But Iam glad that Ishita didn't take it lying today. She stood for herself.
When he was uttering all those words, her expression was like "Well, what else is new.."

Alia wants to call her Amma to complete her imaginary family...& Ishita agreed because she is indebted to Mani & she naturally can't deny any child...
But even 7 years with her, Alia is not Adi ,Alia can never be Adi because Adi is the son of Raman kumar Bhalla & she is not...
For all her naturally motherly feelings Ishita didn't hesitate a second to side with Adi...after knowing that it is Aditya Bhalla...That says it all..
But for Raman that never will be enough & that's the way it should be too..
(Even as the audience for us too...Infact Alia is as irritating as Mani and Iam hating her constantly being clingy with Ishu).

Everyone was worried that why no one is asking Ishita Why she stayed away..
Mihika asked in her own way... & she gave the answer too..
"I killed Ruhi. Because of me everyone suffered. I cannot go back and push them all into more pain or recreate chaos..Its better this way, even though they feel Iam dead when Iam not."
& It would be the same answer for everybody else..except Raman & the kids...
Raman won't ask her that anytime soon, because in his heart he knows the answer and he can't hear her say that to his face..

For anyone doubting Ishita's love..
Here are the beautiful lines from my fav philosopher Rumi, reflecting her inner turmoil...

</font><div align="center"><font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2">I choose to love you in silence,for in silence there is no rejection.</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2">I choose to love you in loneliness,for in loneliness no one owns you but me.</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2">I choose to adore you from a distance, for distance will shield me from pain.</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2">I choose to kiss you in the wind, for the wind is gentler than my lips.</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2">I choose to hold you in my dreams, for in my dreams, you have no end.

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</div>



Beautiful post, thanks for sharing the lines written by Rumi, they have indeed beautifully summarise Ishita's feeling.
Now that the truth is out, it's will be interesting to see if the dynamics in the relationship between Aliya and Ishita will change.
I agree when Raman spoke in anger to Mihika, I could see Ishita looking irritated and disappointing with his bitter and unchanged words. It will take time for Raman to process and think about everything since he had a pressing matter regarding to Adi to deal with. Hopefully we will eventually see Raman acknowledging the errors he made on his part.
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