Will u explain ur kids abt sex, kiss n other adults things?

I did not know about Sex till i was 21. and I got to know about how it is done by reading stories here on IF. LOL. I have read Chetan Bhagat's stories(first 3) when I was in College and I never understood the words related to sex. Tried to find them in dictionary, still cudn't understand. There was no internet at my place at that time. so it's later when I was doing master's I got to know about this stuff from internet. My parents and even my elder sisters never told me about that except periods which they had to. There is a popular thinking that by telling this stuff, they are corrupting the child but at that time they forget that an innocent child who has no idea about this is more susceptible to sex-related crimes as she/he doesn't know anything which is wrong. Another thing if they cannot discuss sex with their kids, their kids will never be comfortable to share the misbehavior incidents.

D episode show which I talked abt above showed dat d girl of 14 was not even told abt periods by her mom before she was sent to d boarding school. It was her friends who helped wen she 1st got her periods. Normally, we r not told abt periods till we have them but in dis case, d mother sud have told her abt it as it was her age to get periods n she sud be alert abt it.

Originally posted by: angel_juhi04

D episode show which I talked abt above showed dat d girl of 14 was not even told abt periods by her mom before she was sent to d boarding school. It was her friends who helped wen she 1st got her periods. Normally, we r not told abt periods till we have them but in dis case, d mother sud have told her abt it as it was her age to get periods n she sud be alert abt it.

Wen I 1st got periods at 11, my mom wud tell me not to say anyone. If remaining absent for school, tuitions or gym(I was told by doctor to join gym due to some reason wen I was 12), I sud lie dat I was sick but not tell d truth. Initially, I listened but as I grew up like being 13-14 or 15-16, I started teln d period reasons of being absent or not able to do something. Dat time, my mom did not had problem wid dis but she wud tell me not to say to any boys which I don't do even now. I told mom dat its not wrong to tell dis period thing to women n she agreed. At least, my family n relatives r not crazy like some families who wud keep period women isolated in one room wid her food given to her alone during 4-5 days of her period n 2-3 days after. They were not even allowed to enter d kitchen let alone cook. Luckily, my family is not like these people. But here on IF, we openly talk abt all these things not caring abt girls n boys both in here be it in stories or discussions.

I was told about periods just a few weeks before that. We are asked not to visit temple or do pooja but except that we can do anything. Not Talking to boys and even Papa has led to many funny incidents. I had to call my mother to tell Papa on fast or specific poojas held that I cant participate.

These days, it becomes necessary for the parents to talk about sex to the kids starting when the kid is around eleven yr old. And they can tell information in installments. Most importantly, things will become OK when the intention of the parents is to be caring and understanding to the kids. In that case, the parents will also be mature. It is always good when there is open communication in a family on any important subject. If the parents are not going to tell anything about sex, these days kids will be exposed to sex based on internet and when there is no open communication between parents and kids, kids could experiment which can result in disasters especially for a girl. We know sex always thrills but at the same time sex can result in pregnancy which only mature persons can handle and that is the reason, sex is made 'adults only'. When there is open communication between parents and their daughter, then only daughter will be free with them and the parents could see that she is safe. Especially in this era when there is a lot of misinformation and girls are exposed to many new situations.

Informing and educating kids about sex can go a long way in keeping them safe. There is a lot of misinformation out there, and education protects them from being misled. It also lets them develop self respect, self esteem and boundaries so that they are not misled by peers or taken advantage of. Sex education has also proven to be more effective in reducing teen pregnancies rather than abstinence only education.

Sparing my own experiences, if I ever become a parent I would certainly make sure to teach my kids about the private body parts, inappropriate- touch and the likes when they start identifying their body parts. Funny names like weejay and wee wee are a big no no. Will talk to them about puberty when they are aboutto reach that stage and sex when they reach that age. Bits and pieces. Sex education should be a continuous process.

No.. let them find it for her/himself..its more natural.and good way to learn.. hs more truth to it... but here in the USA they are out to suck out the innocence in the kids by crude education..which leads these kids to addict to po*n...ladke ko ladki nahi mili toh kya,.. credit card use karo and sit perenially in front of the computer...

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

No.. let them find it for her/himself..its more natural.and good way to learn.. hs more truth to it... but here in the USA they are out to suck out the innocence in the kids by crude education..which leads these kids to addict to po*n...ladke ko ladki nahi mili toh kya,.. credit card use karo and sit perenially in front of the computer...

to somebodys call on safety.. many girsl are getting molested raped here.. so s*x education has nothing to do with it... in fact you are providing the info they so use to commit all these orgies!!

.. of course given the incidence of s*x predators they need to know the touch thing and some basic Nos without the details.. imo...

infact in this case "bandh mutthi lakh ki" holds a lot of water

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

No.. let them find it for her/himself..its more natural.and good way to learn.. hs more truth to it... but here in the USA they are out to suck out the innocence in the kids by crude education..which leads these kids to addict to po*n...ladke ko ladki nahi mili toh kya,.. credit card use karo and sit perenially in front of the computer...

to somebodys call on safety.. many girsl are getting molested raped here.. so s*x education has nothing to do with it... in fact you are providing the info they so use to commit all these orgies!!

.. of course given the incidence of s*x predators they need to know the touch thing and some basic Nos without the details.. imo...

infact in this case "bandh mutthi lakh ki" holds a lot of water

Qwerty you missed my point. These days you cannot prevent unhealthy sexual exposure to kids. So it's better they know about it than they being confused about it, experimenting and exploring it at all the wrong places. How do you expect them to learn about it themselves while being safe too? What can ensure that no one misuses their lack of knowledge on it? What do you mean by 'learn naturally'?