WHO WILL HEAL WHOM - LEAP POST

WHO WILL HEAL WHOM

I am entering the forum after days. Well yea happen to stump across certain posts that forced me to open after Long. Also I am not Ishitha supporter or Raman's. I love them as IshRa and hence my view is such.

Today is the last day we will get to see an emotional IshRa . After this it's going to be their so called dramatic face off in the police station before their family. So the blame game and hate spree can start. YHM 2.0 is airing already but my dear CVs it can never match the original YHM ..!!!

So coming to the episode, why am I not surprised to see so many posts calling Ishitha is an idiot for leaving Raman. Oh btw I am not here for moral policing Nor forcing anyone to agree with my POV.

I am not doubting IshRa's love and their love is beyond what they show in every other show. They hurt each other to heal one another and grow together as a couple. The same Raman who fought against the society for calling her a bhaanj and manhoos called her a bhaanj and manhoos just because they lost Ruhi. Ruhi's loss affected Ishitha more than Raman. Whatever be the situation he refused to acknowledge Ruhi because of a mole on her upper lip and it was Ishitha who brought the Father and Daughter close to one another. Ruhi was the one who made Ishitha see the light when her world was engulfed in darkness. And so Ruhi's loss did affect Ishitha more.

Raman is an angry young man but that doesn't give him the freedom to spew venomous words and expect her to stay back and stick to her responsibility. In yesterday's episode a sloshed Raman spoke his deep seated feelings to the person who needed to be healed. But then just because he is broken inside there is no way she should stay back with him and hear more words when he is back to his conscious self.

Of course I am longing to see them together after a confrontation and a sincere apology or rather a heart felt talk is all that we all want. But that should happen only when both are in their senses. Just because he confessed once again that Ishitha is his life it doesn't mean she should stay back and make him realise he still loves her more. It all happened when he was drunk. In the coming episodes, they come face to face and he is back to spewing hatred and as he said she is his trouble maker and rightly Adi is also behind the bars for misbehaving with Aaliya. It once again pushes Ishitha to decide between Adi n Aaliya. Families will be judging her decisions and Raman as well.

So by no means Ishitha running away from Raman is wrong. It's definitely not the right moment to stick to him. It's also clear that she too doesn't want to move but it's his words which has made her take the decision once again. It will only be Raman who will need to heal her and not the other way around.

you are partially correct
had ishu been angry on raman fr that night then today her running away wud have made sense
bt no she isn't angry on him
she wants to see him happy and she has seen that his happiness lies with her
that is why her running away doesn't makes any sense

Aru wonderfully put!

Very good post.. Loved it. And, welcome back.

After yest episode I didn't think ishita will leave today but from her words she is still stuck at dat one night whch is a night mare she hasn't moved on she accepted all d words Raman has said she doesn't blame him for those words she thinks herself as Bhaanj and also manhoos and as Raman said she is d biggest prb of his life she wants to leave I really didn't understand ishita one moment she doesn't want to leave and in a moment she decides against it and she has seen Raman remembering her she knows he still loves her and misses her but she is still stuck there and yes an emotional confrontation is much needed and we will not get dat soon trp ke Chakkar mein they are making d characters weird and confusing us more
She is answerable but only to adi Pihu and family but not Raman because he himself wanted her to leave his house and his life so she left

I think Ishita is petrified of a sober Raman's wrath. Sober Raman will not be the one she imagined in her dream. And the prospect of him saying something like he said seven years ago, I think, terrifies her. So she is running away. And to be honest, running away from problems, is a very human reaction.

Originally posted by: Zoyamalik2005

I think Ishita is petrified of a sober Raman's wrath. Sober Raman will not be the one she imagined in her dream. And the prospect of him saying something like he said seven years ago, I think, terrifies her. So she is running away. And to be honest, running away from problems, is a very human reaction.

I am not against Raman, I know he was in self preservation mode. But that wound won't heal until he helps it heal, and Ishita doesn't think sober Raman will ever admit how broken he is, even though a drunk Raman will

Lovely post 😊

Other important point to remember she still under assumption that Raman is married to Shagun and she is not like Shagun who just cares about her self,Ishita thinks about others no matter how much pain they give and take her for granted 😭

Originally posted by: Aru.Divan

WHO WILL HEAL WHOM

I am entering the forum after days. Well yea happen to stump across certain posts that forced me to open after Long. Also I am not Ishitha supporter or Raman's. I love them as IshRa and hence my view is such.

Today is the last day we will get to see an emotional IshRa . After this it's going to be their so called dramatic face off in the police station before their family. So the blame game and hatred spree can start. YHM 2.0 is airing already but my dear CVs it can never match the original YHM ..!!!

So coming to the episode, why am I not surprised to see so many posts calling Ishitha is an idiot for leaving Raman. Oh btw I am not here for moral policing Nor forcing anyone to agree with my POV.

I am not doubting IshRa's love and their love is beyond what they show in every other show. They hurt each other to heal one another and grow together as a couple. The same Raman who fought against the society for calling her a bhaanj and manhoos called her a bhaanj and manhoos just because they lost Ruhi. Ruhi's loss affected Ishitha more than Raman. Whatever be the situation he refused to acknowledge Ruhi because of a mole on her upper lip and it was Ishitha who bought the Father and Daughter close to one another. Ruhi was the one who made Ishitha see the light when her world was engulfed in darkness. And so Ruhi's loss did affect Ishitha more.

Raman is an angry young man but that doesn't give him the freedom to spew venomous words and expect her to stay back and stick to her responsibility. In yesterday's episode a sloshed Raman spoke his deep seated feelings to the person who needed to be healed. But then just because he is broken inside there is no way she should stay back with him and hear more words when he is back to his conscious self.

Indeed I am longing to see them together after a confrontation and a sincere apology or rather a heart felt talk is all that we all want. But that should happen only when both are in their senses. Just because he confessed once again that Ishitha is his life it doesn't mean she should stay back and make him realise he still loves her more. It all happened when he was drunk. In the coming episodes, they come face to face and he is back to spewing hatred and as he said she is his trouble maker and rightly Adi is also behind the bars for misbehaving with Aaliya. It once again pushes Ishitha to decide between Adi n Aaliya. Families will be judging her decisions and Raman as well.

So by no means Ishitha running away from Raman is wrong. It's definitely not the right moment to stick to him. It's also clear that she too doesn't want to move but it's his words which has made her take the decision once again. It will only be Raman who will need to heal her and not the other way around.

Hi Aru, How are you?? It's been long since we have spoke. Welcome back to forum.