Originally posted by: premparbat
Hey Hammie . hi premratan... yes got the news poor amif down in the dumps its weather changeπ‘
you are so right about the theme of todays episode and the values and skills that are handed over from a mother to daughter. How a mother sets the example and the daughter picking on them as her life moves ahead. Daughters are called a reflection of their mother . The Dhani & Shallu contrast so well portrayed and highlighted by you , the difference in their upbringing.
key point ratna, also the circumstances.
The "love nest" as you call it is the space where both Viplav and Dhani can shed off their headaches and heartaches and just be together. Oblivious to the world outside they continue to build on their love and trust as One . A no fuss , important scene to be honest and done aesthetically .
yes and willingly we grant them sacred bond towrds each otherVipal is in a hurry to decide on their honeymoon destination. Dhani confused has no clue of what to choose . The only person she can think of who can help her is her sister in law who is literate and of her age group with whom she can discuss something like a honeymoon. . When in a new house a bride often looks for support from people who can be their friend besides their husbands. Was she right to walk over to Shallus room for a suggestion ? A mistake indeed but not because of insensitivity . Dhani did not think it through nor did she anticipate such a violent reaction from her SIL .
yes .. I agree ratna.. her heart is in the right place.. Nusrat mentioned... that it gave shalu an opportunity to vent offf..and dhani found out the severity of her problem
And Shallu ? Should I sympathize with her or pity her ? She has yet to grow a spine and a thinking mind of her own . As Viplav said she is Na Samaj . She mimics her mother's actions and words to gain attention. She did that at the Pindi pooja during Shambhu's death and now again channels her unhappiness towards Dhani in the way she has seen her mother do it. The one person who is giving her attention is Raja and she has promised allegiance to him. So gullible that can be taken advantage by anyone who is not her brother or bhabi. Found her actions to be cruel .
she folows the example of what her mother has set in
She compared herself to Dhani saying you have had the fortune of marrying twice ( something Kanka too said a day ago ) and I've had the misfortune of 2 broken engagements . Really Shallu , Kanak ? Dhani living a life of a widow and being mistreated by the family you want to send your daughter to is her good fortune ? Is the good fortune just the Act of getting married ? Gosh what is with people to put "marriage" on such a pedestal . Its an important part of life not life itself. I would really like someone to tell this to Shallu ..but who will ?
its what is considered the next thing in such societies.. daughters are expected tobe married off
From KAnak & Shallus's perspective I get it . They are the ones with the prestige, the money and the means for a good life but with a reversal in fortune it is the poor widow who seems to have the last laugh . And to deserve such a recognition from Viplav it has to be Dhani who has bewitched him - that chudail is the enemy who needs to be exterminated .
this is it.. its all destiny..money,power plays no part before it.. that's life what will be will be in their cases
Now the last scene , my favorite of the day . Viplav walks in with a box of chocolate for his little sister . Asks her to sit together and share a piece . Shallu is in no mood to indulge him gives him a dry response - you have come as a lawyer to prosecute me as I burnt your brochures. Viplav , the elder brother and on recurring advise from his wife to be calm, quietly replies that he does not even know about the incidence . "Thanks for clarifying it and for making your feelings towards Dhani known. She is trying to built a bridge with you and all you can offer her is hate ". Not backing down or threatening to leave AN he asserts that Dhani is her because of him and she has an equal right to stay here as you have, She deserves the respect and if you cant give it willingly do it as a favor . Coz all this hate that you hurl at her is directed to me . Loved Loved him standing up for himself and his wife.
it was such a strong scene.. if you want to hit a strong man aim at his weakness
He walks out reminding Shallu - "Here is the chocolate box I bought for you ..." it was bought out of love and care ..its is still here for you . He bumps into Dhani outside who stands with tears of gratitude in her eyes for the Love this man has for her. Ishq Ishq...
anddd prem ratan he wipes his nose with his knuckle and walks offf.. may be he has a cold like aimf???
Yeah a bit on the senti side but these women need a lesson in life ... will they ever learn.
ohhh give her a sword and watch how she fights! here dhani catch the sword!
Thanks All for reading my ramblings everyday . I am loving the show even the days when I am all full mode complaining.
pata hai you loving the show... too much choc gives spots tooo!π€£
Talk to you all soon.
have to see how much choc was consumed by the couple today?? love hammie