Originally posted by: premparbat
We shall overcome someday ... hi premratan😊
Your title bought a smile on my face as I was reminded of my yester years. Oh those school days when in assembly we were asked to sing songs and one of them was " We shall overcome ...we shall overcome ...one day ... Mann mein hai vishwaas poora hai Vishwas . hum hoge kamyaab ek din..." . Years of innocence as I call them .
yes...😆 gosh yes... assembly.. those were the days my friend..
And innocence is what I see in Viplav & Dhani's eyes , words and belief. That one day it will all be ok with the family and we will all live happily ever after . Maybe yes in fairy tales and TV series. Life itself is a bumpy ride . Turning a hateful heart to love is a miraculous event specially if one does not even have a clue why hate in the first place.
yes love ,hate two very powerful emotions and very thin line of differetiation between them can change as you mention.. but they determine our behaviour towards ourself and others
Viplav intends to find out and he walks into his mothers room to demand an explanation. Why mom do you hate her so much ? You spent so much time trying to seperate us and steeped as low as to involve your name with Trip . Issuing an ultimatum that it is not possible for me live in a house and family that hates my wife. A family is meant to love , respect and trust each other and all this is missing . Viplav walks out dragging hsi wife and leaving a fuming Kanak behind.
its like they both set each other off.. he too needs to calmly think about how he can help other than openingly siding his wife.. all good but the results are not working
So Vip did think that getting Dhani accepted by all would be a piece of cake ? His mother loves him and he loves Dhani is equal to mother loving Dhani . That too after a gunshot wedding . Hah Men ..when do they ever get this MIL - DIL equation right ?
welll at least.. dhani is reiterating his mothers case before him
What follows next is so typical of who we know Viplav and Dhani to be.
Viplav in a huff locks himself and Dhani away with his dadaji banging at the door. Viplav once did tell Dhani that when young the only way he could get his family to agree with him was throwing a tantrum. Chilla-Chilli karni hi padti the. Shouting at his grandfather across a closed door , if my wife cannot get respect then I will not live here . Impulsive Viplav ranting without understanding the consequences of his statements.
knee jerk reaction.. does he not remind you of his mother?
Dhani on the other hand locked in the room with Viplav runs to and fro between Viplav & Dadaji trying to pacify her husband on one side and troubled about dadaji standing outside. Trying to diffuse the situation by trivializing the issue - Nothing happened , it was just an accident. Listen please listen to me Viplav. Dhani gets to open the door and requests DT for sometime till she can calm him down .
welll she too is working to an agenda ,keep the family together
I thought the contrast in their personalities was very well demonstrated. Dhani believes in showing the other cheek when slapped and Viplav believes in hitting back . For Dhani the world and hearts can be won with Love and goodness and for Viplav it is demanding and asserting. What both need to understand and learn that there is a time , place and situation to use any arsenal . If there is place for goodness there is a place for a fight too . Viplav is right in standing up for his wife and so is Dhani in her place to give it time and patience. Its just the way they are - complementing each other.
👏 great comment... they still have to reach a mid way aggrement whereby they can deal with the volatile kanak... mind you both don't know that kanak is also backed and wound up by dashrant.
The scene in the car for some reason was very endearing . Viplavs wants to show her the world and Dhani in her newly awakened desires is excited for any adventure with him. Just meaningless banter - passports, airports, money ... and the holding of hands. I will hold your hand in the entire journey ... and my heart melts.
yes... the thought of an overseas trip got me excited too.. its like I want to show you the world!
There were bits of DT and KT and their politicking . Handing the household keys to choti bahu ? Kanak apologizing to her son and seeing red th every minute Dhani comes in . Shallu seriously needs some attention before she does something silly. And Raja fuming watching the happy couple while his plans have all gone awry .
waving the keys is typical DT.. luring KT into submission.. here he wants to divide and rule
Lovely episode . So the Acceptance Phase is on . The question is how long will the honeymoon continue and what is next for these two . Lets all wait and see.
yes lets see..show moving along very well... premratan ,super to hear from you .. noticed you popped by earlier than usual..hammie was late.. thanks for my bit of fun reading your comments.. much love yours hammie
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