So if you've followed the MANY iconic Jodis across TV (which I'm sure most of us have 😆😆), you'd have noticed 2-3 key points common across them all.
- They become a reflection of the times, mirroring real life and/ or aspirations of the audience, their self-image.
- They have well-developed, real yet aspirational characters, motives that define who they are, what drives them and what their journeys will be.
- And based on the above, they have a unique & convincing relationship; reasons why they would gravitate together, why would like, love, respect, fight and ultimately grow together.
- Adarsh, the Officer and the Gentleman: (Yeah I know I know, I've already devoted a post to that 😛😛) Brilliant potential as the smart, charming, mature, idealistic, goal-oriented, conscientious IAS officer, the type the country needs. The type that is back in fashion, with the recent thrust on anti-corruption and good administration in Indian Politics. Adarsh can literally become the symbol of a new wave of IAS officers, who use their wits, intelligence, power and competence to bring about the change India needs - effective beyond the 'common man' because they have the wherewithal to affect change at a larger level.
- Unfortunately, this aspect has been grossly under utilized, with the makers going in for the easy picking of a good looking lead with good chemistry. They've been content to follow the 'cliched' TV trope of 'love at first sight'. And the biggest injustice they've done yet to the otherwise 'sorted' guy is depicting him in an almost 'stalker-ish' light, where he spends all his moments stalking or thinking about her. Not cool esp. for the self-respecting, gentlemanly, chivalrous, 'secure', professional he is!
- Swadhinta, the Friend: While I'm far from condoning Adarsh's behaviour (refer to above!! 😆😆), I do think the last episode showed her in an unnecessarily rude light. Esp. from someone who had been helped on a number of occasions. Instead, she should have given him the same spiel that she gave Suhasini - That she is a middle class girl who wants to make the most of the hard-won opportunity granted by her parents. And asked him to back off or continue as friends. We would have respected her more (Though to be honest, the way Adarsh is going, not sure if anything short of a sledgehammer would drive home the point 😛)
- Adarsh-Swadhinta, the 'Power' Couple: I want Swadhinta and Adarsh, esp. Adarsh to fall in love with other because they believe in the same things, something so obvious to us.
- I want them to fall in love because with each other, they become the best versions of themselves, because both understand what drives the other, unlike their families.
- I want them to fall in love because they become good friends who feel comfortable sharing the happenings of their day with each other, sharing their troubles.
- I want them to fall in love, because unlike ANY of the current TV couples, they can ask each other for advice at a PROFESSIONAL level (not just personal) because both understand each other's careers, making them 'true' companions.
- I want them, again esp. Adarsh, to fall in love with each other because they are kindred souls who genuinely respect and admire each other, before they ever fall in love.
- I haven't seen that kind of stuff from Adarsh unfortunately, he's been smitten by her since the first meeting, more like an adolescent rather than a grown-up. I've seen him ask her out for no more reason than a pretty face and some spirit to boot and since then he's been helping her because of his early attraction. Wish we could see more of the 'real' reason why they belong together and an acknowledgement of that from him. Wish they show a more mature, nuanced romance rather than just attraction and love at first sight. Wish they get the relationship really really really right.