Can relationships be glue fixed? - Page 2

Nice topic, i often thing about it. I think relations can be bought together but it wont be same, when we glue something broken, we always have a fear in mind that it might break again, same is the case with relations. The crack remains there, may be the same trust, support etc return but the fear will also be included with was not there in the first place.

Nice topic Anshu Bhaiyya! 😊

I think...mmm the breakup is not a very good memory, so forgetting it or remembering it can be really painful. You cant delete it, so it takes a lot in a person to keep it buried in some corner of your head, never to be accessed again.

I think it depends on how much do both parties suffer post breakup, how sensitive both of them are, how deeply involved both of them are, whatever the reason of the breakup be. Some people are too sensitive to even small hiccups and some gulp down biggest of the storms. It really depends. I personally believe, you will always have 20 reasons to wanna be with a person and 20 reasons to not be with him/her as well. It really depends on which of those you wanna really look at, especially during such times.

After a breakup, IMO if both start feeling this really huge void in life, if life isn't the same anymore, if they start thinking.. had I done or handled or said this any other way, something like this wouldn't have happened ...I think they then start ruing over the breakup, n then it kinda develops this crazy urge or hunger to fix n get back what you've lost and try to mend it to get back together. If the urge is mad in both, I guess things probably work out. It also brings in this "I will not repeat this again" attitude n thinking into the relationship as well, which might work even better in future for both of them. If the urge doesn't come easy, things will never be the same again I guess and its best not to get back together in that case.

Rahiman dhaga prem ka, mat todo chatkai
Toote se phir na jude, jude gaanth pad jaye

"Says Rahim, don't allow the (delicate) thread of love (between individuals) to snap. Once it snaps, it cannot be rejoined and if you do rejoin it, there is a knot in it.

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I beleive in the above poem of Rahim.which I studied in my 6th standard😊..but still I try to patch up with the people(friends/relatives with whom I had a conflict..afterall nothing is impossible and I'm possible😉😛😆)

Cheers,

Mythili

Originally posted by: mythili_Kiran

Rahiman dhaga prem ka, mat todo chatkai
Toote se phir na jude, jude gaanth pad jaye

"Says Rahim, don't allow the (delicate) thread of love (between individuals) to snap. Once it snaps, it cannot be rejoined and if you do rejoin it, there is a knot in it.

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I beleive in the above poem of Rahim.which I studied in my 6th standard😊..but still I try to patch up with the people(friends/relatives with whom I had a conflict..afterall nothing is impossible and I'm possible😉😛😆)

Cheers,

Mythili

Wow what a great poem👏👏 Thanks for posting Myths.