Can relationships be glue fixed?

Flashback on days of ma skl😳, had (is still) a most loving buddy, we used to hang out everyday together then coz of some misundestanding we became Jaani Dushmann... after 2 years we... just patched up in market place and realized that we really got along very well. Not to worry about the guy who was responsible for misunderstanding we still count on each other but... well but says it all isn't it. Our super glue effort doesn't bring back the same feelings as when we dreamt on becoming neighbours for lifetime.

Debate is :

Can broken relationship be glued again after break ups and holds same value as before OR once broken is broken no matter what?

the question is where is this glue exactly applied....??? 😆 😆

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

the question is where is this glue exactly applied....??? 😆 😆

Very Tuff Q yaaar😉.......main socha socha socha.....phir sochna choodiya....😕😊

Some people feel Kids are the Glue metrial...😉Some people feel Society is Glue...😳 like that Glue image changes everywhere i think so...😳

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

the question is where is this glue exactly applied....??? 😆 😆

On the lips 😆😆

Probably on issues that caused the relationship to sour in first place, ofcourse with glue I meant efforts to mend relationship.

Nooops i think that once a relationship of any kind is broken, it DOES NOT, hold the same value as it once did before.

Once you loose an element of a relationship, it is very hard to mend it. And it can never be the same with before,

Even if with glue- most effort the cracks will still be there in there relationsip. 😳 No matter what can never be the same, you will have same doubts as u did b4 tht cause relationship to break down.

Seen things in family - so i know that no matter what things ar not same as before. trust aspect went. 😳

So whether in family relationship, or friend one or lovers.....no mater how hard to try and piece together the broken aspects, it can look ok on surface to others, but cracks can be seen still.

So yeah i think that even if mis-understanding happen with friends, u sometimes loose some elements of tht friendship...like how tht person might not b understanding or wht not.

Definitely in love relations, i think that once broken....wont be same again. 😳

Originally posted by: raj5000

On the lips 😆😆

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on serious note , yes a relationship can be glued , but depend upon the type of relation , misunderstanding 😊 I observe a misunderstanding due to a third person some times lead to an irreversible split between strong relationship like husband and wife.

Originally posted by: raj5000

Flashback on days of ma skl😳, had (is still) a most loving buddy, we used to hang out everyday together then coz of some misundestanding we became Jaani Dushmann... after 2 years we... just patched up in market place and realized that we really got along very well. Not to worry about the guy who was responsible for misunderstanding we still count on each other but... well but says it all isn't it. Our super glue effort doesn't bring back the same feelings as when we dreamt on becoming neighbours for lifetime.

Debate is :

Can broken relationship be glued again after break ups and holds same value as before OR once broken is broken no matter what?

Why does a relationship have to be all or nothing? Relationships go thru peak and valleys keeping in tandem with our personal growth and sometimes with breakups in between. Why throw baby with the bath water?. Relationships that matter are built over a long period of time with fewer expectations.

Hey if you think it is not a good idea to be neighbours with your friend then you better be prepared to make and hope to meet a friendly neighbour.😛

Relationships are complex and broken relationships cannot be easily fixed. To fix a relationship everyone involved needs to be willing to make amends, compromise and learn. It really takes a special kind of glue to fix it. Even when fixed there will always be the crack which has changed the relationship for ever. It will never be the same, and that crack is a weakness, a certain kind of pressure and it breaks again.

When a relationship is formed it has to be handled with utmost care to avoid breakage. For once broken it can never be the same again.

Originally posted by: raj5000

Flashback on days of ma skl😳, had (is still) a most loving buddy, we used to hang out everyday together then coz of some misundestanding we became Jaani Dushmann... after 2 years we... just patched up in market place and realized that we really got along very well. Not to worry about the guy who was responsible for misunderstanding we still count on each other but... well but says it all isn't it. Our super glue effort doesn't bring back the same feelings as when we dreamt on becoming neighbours for lifetime.

Debate is :

Can broken relationship be glued again after break ups and holds same value as before OR once broken is broken no matter what?

Yaar kya topics hai aapka?👏

No, I donot believe a broken relationship can hold the same values as before. It certainly can be patched up if both parties are interested and work on it........... but there will always be a slight crack visible.

Just my POV😊

Originally posted by: Guardian Angel

Yaar kya topics hai aapka?👏

No, I donot believe a broken relationship can hold the same values as before. It certainly can be patched up if both parties are interested and work on it........... but there will always be a slight crack visible.

Just my POV😊

Yeah i have the same views, its like a vase , very fagile, once it shatters into 100 bits, you can try and piece it back together but it wont be the same as it was before.😳