Does Suman really know what happened that day?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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So according to the flashback in todays episode and what we've seen till now, 10 years ago when that incident happened and Shravan came to Suman to share pain about his mom leaving him forever, the way she reacted, it seemed he had come to her several times with his family problems before too? And maybe his mom was always distant? So when Shravan came this time and it was REALLY serious, she didn't take it seriously because she didnt hear him out. And it also seems that right after that he left for London so they probably didnt meet again. From the other flashback of Suman chasing after Shravan as he leaves in the car, it seems she may have just found out that he was leaving for London and thought it was all because of how she treated him that day?

Because if till now, she thinks what she did wasn't a big deal, it might be because she still has no idea that his mom actually left that day. She probably thinks that he is behaving this way because of the humiliation but its far deeper than that because she humiliated his personal life and feelings in front of everyone, which is def not done. It was so wrong. But I only wonder if she even knows what happened with Shravan 10 years back? What really happened? Maybe thats why shes so oblivious to the depth of hurt she gave him because she doesnt know about the family aspect, even still? Because its not like they ever met or even talked in the last ten years and this misunderstanding just kept getting worse and worse. And god knows what else they both went through in the last ten years and probably yearned for each other's support which makes their relationship all the more intense. Again, im not entirely sure if this is the case, but from the looks of it, thats what it seems like. If it is, then I can somewhat see where Suman is coming from. Im definitely NOT taking sides. What Suman did then was wrong on a million levels. Im only trying to understand where each one is coming from. I do believe she has matured. But I was quite angry at the fact that she still doesnt realize the extent of the wounds she scarred in him. Until I sat down and thought about this. Maybe shes oblivious because she still doesnt know the whole of why hes so hurt. Except for the humiliation part of course. Because they really haven't sat down and had an actual conversation yet.

Idk. Im quite confused on this one. Feel free to share your thoughts! I am waiting to see what cvs have in store. I think there's a lot more to their past especially in the last 10 years than meets the eye. The way Shravan changed and Suman changed..there's bigger reasons for that.

On the other hand, if Suman DOES know of everything and STILL chooses to conciously be oblivious to his hurt then I would firmly say she doesn't deserve any part of Shravan in her life, not even his anger or presence. Let's hope the cvs prove me right, cuz this is the only way any of her actions and reactions make sense. It's the only way she can work to redeem herself.

My heart went out to Shravan today though!😭 I have to say the child actor is phenomenal! That pain was so real. Truly hats off to him.👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yeah
Seems she's not aware of it

Btw...childhood shravan phenomenal actor

I seriously love his acting
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: --fero--

Yeah
Seems she's not aware of it

Btw...childhood shravan phenomenal actor

I seriously love his acting


If she's unaware of it then I can understand why she thinks this way. It WAS a big deal of course because of the family aspect, but I guess she never truly found out of what happened to him. I guess they both never got the closure.

And ikr!! He's so cute and innocent!😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I think you're right, only then she can say "itni badi baat nahi thi"
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Laya, I am making 2 points here...
Point 1
in our country 18 years is juvenile. Till that age teenager will not have a max sentence of more than 3 years even for murder / brutal rape. This is also true for most other countries in the world.

What I am trying to say is when justice system after so much evaluation treats a 16 year old as a juvenile offender, should we not ponder on the reality of Sumo being childish?

There was no venom there... only peer pressure and stupidity. This indeed is the sad reality.

Point 2
Shravan is successful and handsome why is he still after Sumo?

I am still waiting for today's epi to see the grown Suman's side. I am happy that they have both finally moved on. Shrav with Powder puff and Suman with Push. Shravan's anger that has reduce will resurface again and soon 😃

Its easy to be angry but difficult to forgive. Shravan needs to forgive his younger self and Sumo to be truly happy.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lyla.Khan


If she's unaware of it then I can understand why she thinks this way. It WAS a big deal of course because of the family aspect, but I guess she never truly found out of what happened to him. I guess they both never got the closure.

And ikr!! He's so cute and innocent!😳


Doubt it Laya.. this kind of thing would not stay silent. She says its not a big deal without conviction and at Shravan's prodding... that was their ego.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lyla.Khan

So according to the flashback in todays episode and what we've seen till now, 10 years ago when that incident happened and Shravan came to Suman to share pain about his mom leaving him forever, the way she reacted, it seemed he had come to her several times with his family problems before too? And maybe his mom was always distant? So when Shravan came this time and it was REALLY serious, she didn't take it seriously because she didnt hear him out. And it also seems that right after that he left for London so they probably didnt meet again. From the other flashback of Suman chasing after Shravan as he leaves in the car, it seems she may have just found out that he was leaving for London and thought it was all because of how she treated him that day?


Because if till now, she thinks what she did wasn't a big deal, it might be because she still has no idea that his mom actually left that day. She probably thinks that he is behaving this way because of the humiliation but its far deeper than that because she humiliated his personal life and feelings in front of everyone, which is def not done. It was so wrong. But I only wonder if she even knows what happened with Shravan 10 years back? What really happened? Maybe thats why shes so oblivious to the depth of hurt she gave him because she doesnt know about the family aspect, even still? Because its not like they ever met or even talked in the last ten years and this misunderstanding just kept getting worse and worse. And god knows what else they both went through in the last ten years and probably yearned for each other's support which makes their relationship all the more intense. Again, im not entirely sure if this is the case, but from the looks of it, thats what it seems like. If it is, then I can somewhat see where Suman is coming from. Im definitely NOT taking sides. What Suman did then was wrong on a million levels. Im only trying to understand where each one is coming from. I do believe she has matured. But I was quite angry at the fact that she still doesnt realize the extent of the wounds she scarred in him. Until I sat down and thought about this. Maybe shes oblivious because she still doesnt know the whole of why hes so hurt. Except for the humiliation part of course. Because they really haven't sat down and had an actual conversation yet.

Idk. Im quite confused on this one. Feel free to share your thoughts! I am waiting to see what cvs have in store. I think there's a lot more to their past especially in the last 10 years than meets the eye. The way Shravan changed and Suman changed..there's bigger reasons for that.

On the other hand, if Suman DOES know of everything and STILL chooses to conciously be oblivious to his hurt then I would firmly say she doesn't deserve any part of Shravan in her life, not even his anger or presence. Let's hope the cvs prove me right, cuz this is the only way any of her actions and reactions make sense. It's the only way she can work to redeem herself.

My heart went out to Shravan today though!😭 I have to say the child actor is phenomenal! That pain was so real. Truly hats off to him.👏


I like all the actors and I like the show, except as usual in the quest to dramatize the CVs messed this up.

I am not sure she is not innocent and is unaware of what happened in this life. He plainly told her "my mom left and we have no way of contacting her " and her reply was "So tough luck". her reasoning was very simple she did not want to be seen as the friend of the nerd, OK that was then, but for her being so close to Pushkar and to not know why Shravan was hurt and bitter is a little dense. The CVs really have to think of good reason to prove this I agree with you, but so far there is no easy way out for the CVs.

Also had he still been nerdy would she have been sorry or liked him as much? She stalked him on line and was pleased to see he has turned out handsome, and he is right, everyone wants to be his friend now. I am glad it was not just about the prom that he wanted revenge, his frustration was more than that... he forgave her for that too.. but when he was really hurting she made a mockery of their friendship. So far they have painted her character no matter how much we try to rationalize it still shows her as being callous, and summed up correctly as he said she not only was narcissistic she still is...

Also CVs this is 2016 - can we stop pitting women against each other for a guy! he is mine, no he is mine, what the hell neither cared about him and his feelings, he was the object of their desire because of the way he looked. Her friend Poonam or whoever, did not want to come for the reunion, until he paid for it, clearly everyone around seems superficial.

On the other hand, Shravan baba ... you have become a successful lawyer, I am sure you can afford a shrink!

CVs public humiliation is so boring and overdone, could you not think of something else.? Redeem yourselves, think it through, dont make him suddenly fall in love with her, make it a good reason and show how she learns her lessons, because inherently both characters have some good in them.
My 2 cents anyway!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I think she know about that dear. He clearly mentioned his mom left and he wants to talk to her and she said so what if your mom left what I can do something like that. And her dadji and shravan father is close. I think shravan father used to work for sumo dadaji as assistant or something. And she is touch with pushkar so she will definitely know his mom left.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lyla.Khan



If she's unaware of it then I can understand why she thinks this way. It WAS a big deal of course because of the family aspect, but I guess she never truly found out of what happened to him. I guess they both never got the closure.

And ikr!! He's so cute and innocent!😳


Yup agree...

Good casting younger shraman

And grown up shraman 👏

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: 3serialfan40


I like all the actors and I like the show, except as usual in the quest to dramatize the CVs messed this up.

I am not sure she is not innocent and is unaware of what happened in this life. He plainly told her "my mom left and we have no way of contacting her " and her reply was "So tough luck". her reasoning was very simple she did not want to be seen as the friend of the nerd, OK that was then, but for her being so close to Pushkar and to not know why Shravan was hurt and bitter is a little dense. The CVs really have to think of good reason to prove this I agree with you, but so far there is no easy way out for the CVs.

Also had he still been nerdy would she have been sorry or liked him as much? She stalked him on line and was pleased to see he has turned out handsome, and he is right, everyone wants to be his friend now. I am glad it was not just about the prom that he wanted revenge, his frustration was more than that... he forgave her for that too.. but when he was really hurting she made a mockery of their friendship. So far they have painted her character no matter how much we try to rationalize it still shows her as being callous, and summed up correctly as he said she not only was narcissistic she still is...

Also CVs this is 2016 - can we stop pitting women against each other for a guy! he is mine, no he is mine, what the hell neither cared about him and his feelings, he was the object of their desire because of the way he looked. Her friend Poonam or whoever, did not want to come for the reunion, until he paid for it, clearly everyone around seems superficial.

On the other hand, Shravan baba ... you have become a successful lawyer, I am sure you can afford a shrink!

CVs public humiliation is so boring and overdone, could you not think of something else.? Redeem yourselves, think it through, dont make him suddenly fall in love with her, make it a good reason and show how she learns her lessons, because inherently both characters have some good in them.
My 2 cents anyway!


There was one dialogue in yesterday's episode that stayed on with me. She asks him, "Tum kya se kya ban gaye ho shravan"

The way I see this whole scenario is... She did wrong by him, to maintain her peer image, in her stupidity and youth. But... She has lived with that guilt for the past 10 years.

To take revenge on a person who is already guilty...

If Shravan's anger reduced with this revenge drama, it is but temporary. It will flare up again when he sees Sumo with Pushkar... 😊. Shravan and Sumo need to mend their relationship, they obviously need each other with flaws and all... How they get there will be the crux of the story 🥱

I believe the Cvs will show us Sumo's guilt today.

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