shravan was wrong

i don't agree what he did. he could have talked to her and told her how he felt what she did in 10yrs ago. i know she did the same thing, but that time they were teen age. he should understand that. it was better if he totally ignored her for a while instead of insulting her in public. somus mistake was she should have called him and kept connection while he was in london. anyway both were wrong. your thoughts.

I think it's really not as simple as that, granted she was young and frivolous when she hurt him, he was young and sensitive at the time too.

I don't agree with how he did it, but to an extent his inner need for feeling avenged. After one's been hurting for so long, it becomes easy to kind of just have something (in his case his "revenge") that lulls you into thinking it's the key to stop hurting, that it'll be the cure to his pain. Though clearly, humiliating her in public is going to end up being FAR from that.

i agree. i totally forgot about that bhagoda part. she actually opened the case again. and that made him angry. let the war continue and let us enjoy.😊

Originally posted by: .SankaDevi.

I think it's really not as simple as that, granted she was young and frivolous when she hurt him, he was young and sensitive at the time too.

I don't agree with how he did it, but to an extent his inner need for feeling avenged. After one's been hurting for so long, it becomes easy to kind of just have something (in his case his "revenge") that lulls you into thinking it's the key to stop hurting, that it'll be the cure to his pain. Though clearly, humiliating her in public is going to end up being FAR from that.

Edit: Also, Shravan did ignore her. For quite a bit. He was completely ready to at least pretend like he moved on and to not even give her the time of day. In fact he was supposed to go back to London, but it was that confrontation, where she called him out for running away as a "Bhagoda" that kind of reopened his old wounds.

So he did try, it's not like he'd been planning this for 10 years like a psycho. But again, I agree the way he did it was not correct. Though I would say the arguments he made at the party were bang on, spoken like a true lawyer.

Khair, I see this as a fault of both of them.

I agree one hundred percent... Shravan ko bhi samjho yaar... 😭
Maana he was wrong but she was too... tho it was immaturity but it was wrong..
Insaan hai Shravan bhi... bina soche samjhe ho gyi galti... fitrat gai insaan ki... I know he will realise and then the friendship that would take place after so much will be the best bond they wud ever share 😊

Originally posted by: RoxyC

i don't agree what he did. he could have talked to her and told her how he felt what she did in 10yrs ago. i know she did the same thing, but that time they were teen age. he should understand that. it was better if he totally ignored her for a while instead of insulting her in public. somus mistake was she should have called him and kept connection while he was in london. anyway both were wrong. your thoughts.

Dear har baat baat karke suljhayi nhi jaati... kai baar beech me insaan ki ego, pain, hurt, sab aa jata hai...
It's the same wid ShraMan...
Suman must have assumed he would not talk to her...
He was expecting her ro make a move...
Dono apni hi uljhano mein uljhe rahe and no one made they move to fill the creases in their friendship that today has become a huge crack...
But am sure soon the cracks will be filled and the start afresh will be beautiful...
Let's see what the makers have in store for us!!

His way was wrong but not his intention he wants to show the pain and hurt she caused. Young and immature was not the reason to hurt a person. When sumo doing all these things he was also young, you can imagine the poor young boy Hurt and pain. If she was young and he was an adult then maybe he can think that she said that because of her bachpana and forget. But both are young so if you can give benefit of doubt to her because she was young then why don't you give benefit of doubt to him. Now sumo is adult so she can cope up with the humiliation and rejection but the young boy couldn't cope up with the rejection. Since 10 years he was living in with rejection and humiliation.

Originally posted by: rekha.366

His way was wrong but not his intention he wants to show the pain and hurt she caused. Young and immature was not the reason to hurt a person. When sumo doing all these things he was also young, you can imagine the poor young boy Hurt and pain. If she was young and he was an adult then maybe he can think that she said that because of her bachpana and forget. But both are young so if you can give benefit of doubt to her because she was young then why don't you give benefit of doubt to him. Now sumo is adult so she can cope up with the humiliation and rejection but the young boy couldn't cope up with the rejection. Since 10 years he was living in with rejection and humiliation.

Originally posted by: .SankaDevi.

Rekhaaa ❤️

I love reading your replies, while we all get so emotionally charged your replies are always so well-thought out and balanced! Completely agree with what you said!

-Kriti ❤️

thanks kriti. I think people are so concerned about Suman hurt that they forget to notice shravan pain. I0 years completed for that incident and 10 years are not enough for him forget the pain and hurt so we can imagine how much he hurted.

Originally posted by: rekha.366

His way was wrong but not his intention he wants to show the pain and hurt she caused. Young and immature was not the reason to hurt a person. When sumo doing all these things he was also young, you can imagine the poor young boy Hurt and pain. If she was young and he was an adult then maybe he can think that she said that because of her bachpana and forget. But both are young so if you can give benefit of doubt to her because she was young then why don't you give benefit of doubt to him. Now sumo is adult so she can cope up with the humiliation and rejection but the young boy couldn't cope up with the rejection. Since 10 years he was living in with rejection and humiliation.