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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nice post Shruti as always!
It was a very good episode showcasing the right things to be upheld by Men and parents !
Barath's reaction was a wonderful show of both his understanding and respect for Mandavi.
In fact , from the beginning of their confrontations it seemed more like he was struck by her for him to be able to react in any manner ( more admiration) . Like having found his love kind of of expression ! But As Mandavi had reacted just opposite was more unsure of his feelings .( kind of. One sided unlike Ram and sita who had both reciprocated silently even with their first looks!).

So , it was also his sincere admiration for Mandavi that leads him to take that step of putting forward the refusal from his side rather than just accepting the rejection !
This was also a depiction of love which lets go rather than try to bind with force !
Now, this calls for a greater maturity and strength and that was wonderfully done by this actor!
Cvs for sure need to be applauded for such good scenes .

Coming today's. Scenario, we'll agree with the age old habits to be moderated with present times .
But then, I have been coming across divorces which are more due to absolute immaturity in people who have had all the benefits of choice of partners, freedom etc.
Basically , the commitment factor for any relationship seems to be missing these days .
It stuns people as to how even after courtship etc the knot once tied takes a very different turn and ends up in a split !

This topic for sure can be discussed on and on from different perspectives but then, happy that this show Siya ke Ram is doing its bit to impart some valuable points in an interesting way.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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@vipraja divorce are caused at multiple level and this denial of choice or freewill is one of those. And when it comes to freewill we have to know one more thing. There are many cases where marriage is happening because it has to happen at that age. It is not only for girls, but also for boys. I mean though they say yes, a large crowd is not mentally or emotionally prepared for it. I mean having fun, chatting, eating ice cream will be acceptable to them. But when it come to reality of taking responsibility these people are not equipped unfortunately. Though I agree marriage needs to happen at a certain age, for today's youth some kind of counseling is needed as they are very much protected and have not struggled and when it comes to failure, struggles etc.. they simply cannot adapt to it. I mean true free will has to checked than just agreeing for marriage because you are at a certain age.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: fatssrilanka



<font color="#cc0000" size="3">This is my personal experience. There was a match for me and I remember one such incident. The boy refused to see me not because he was against girl seeing ceremony but because he was tired of seeing girls and rejecting them. And, the irony was he wanted his mother to come and meet me and if she liked me he would fix another meeting. I was shocked. If I had asked something like this they would have made a big issue.</font>




This s from my exp..i had 2 families rejecting me..it felt horrible

No body likes rejection as you said..that too after facing the humiliation of being looked up and down..
And then came another..they liked the girl..i didn't want to marry him..when I said so ut was a big issue..nobody wanted to hear a no..it took 2 days of talking and finally..everybody got the point..and then I realised my parents are quite understanding..just that they never expected me to say no to something..since I'm always easily pleased!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Awesome as ever Shruthi, You touch my heart every time I read any lines of yours, you are SPECIAL👏👏👏 and as for Bharath awww, I so love him, & teh atcor who is playing that is JUST BRILLIANT..!! in expressing his deep emotional bond with Ram aww..too good
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Good to know your experience. In my family for all my uncles and currently my bro or my cousins there has been only one girl seeing. My grand father was quite firm on one thing and elders in my family have carried forward the tradition. If they are going to see the girl that means from the boy's side it has to be yes. So all the guys were made aware of this fact very strictly and if they have any problem, they were supposed to tell before girl seeing ceremony. Nothing after that. As my family believed there is no greater sin than visiting a girl and rejecting her.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi


Good to know your experience. In my family for all my uncles and currently my bro or my cousins there has been only one girl seeing. My grand father was quite firm on one thing and elders in my family have carried forward the tradition. If they are going to see the girl that means from the boy's side it has to be yes. So all the guys were made aware of this fact very strictly and if they have any problem, they were supposed to tell before girl seeing ceremony. Nothing after that. As my family believed there is no greater sin than visiting a girl and rejecting her.



Di, Kaash yeh sabke families Mein hote!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

Good to know your experience. In my family for all my uncles and currently my bro or my cousins there has been only one girl seeing. My grand father was quite firm on one thing and elders in my family have carried forward the tradition. If they are going to see the girl that means from the boy's side it has to be yes. So all the guys were made aware of this fact very strictly and if they have any problem, they were supposed to tell before girl seeing ceremony. Nothing after that. As my family believed there is no greater sin than visiting a girl and rejecting her.


A big salute to your grandfather Shruthi.👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Wonderful analysis Shruti😃

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