Influence of Elders

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Naina

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Posted: 9 years ago

I loved reading all your opinions from the last post, so thought to put out another one! 😊

How much of an influence have the elders had on Abhigya and how? Or even lack of, since we haven't met more than half of Abhigya's parents.

Edited by Pragz10 - 9 years ago

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Sowmii_cutiee

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Posted: 9 years ago

Well they have total influence eon ABHIGYA... The 2 main elders are Sarla and ABHIGYA... Even though they were the reason for ABHIGYA to come together , they are some what responsible for them being apart now...

If Daadi hasent influenced Pragya for taking up Mogambo then this track would have long been finished in Aug/sept...

I would say that she is the sole reason for ABHIGYA separation now... She influenced And influences Pragya big time...

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nitarata

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Posted: 9 years ago

For Pragya,

No dad of course. We don't know when he died/disappeared. But she has had Sarla Maa and Rockstar Daadi.

Influences- hmm, seems like she believes in social/family values and norms a lot like her elder women also believe in. Nature/attitude wise, Pragya is hardly anything like Sarla Maa. I do not see Sarla Maa hiding emotions, lying around much, not acting on what the heart feels etc. And Rockstar Daadi is one bindaas lady (for example how Ro Daadi and Sarla Maa treated Abhi in MMS track vs. how Pragya dealt with him). So Pragya is sort of more afraid and does not respect herself. So, that way the elder Arora ladies aren't a big influence.

Abhi, he has only Daadi to look up to. I believe Tayaji family moved in with Abhi much later (there was a FB scene). So Abhi might have been friends with Aakash and looked upto Raj but that's minimal I believe. So it's all Daadi that mattered to Abhi.

But then I think Abhi has his own beliefs and ways. He does not go with Daadi's influences as such. His no praying to God, his music, his money making ways, everything is not really appreciated by Daadi. But then there is this family value, generosity, being truthful etc. seem to be values inherited by Abhi from Daadi. And between Abhi and Daadi there is a strong bond which is very important to him and he can do anything to keep her happy.

So I don't think elders have a great influence on AbhiGya, but elder's health has had. Like Pragya stayed in the marriage for mother's health (why didn't she care in Mogmabo track? No idea).. and Abhi stayed in the marriage for Daadi's health (he still cares, and he begged Aalu recently for Daadi)..

But then, they are individuals of their own!

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nitarata

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Sowmii_cutiee
Well they have total influence eon ABHIGYA... The 2 main elders are Sarla and ABHIGYA... Even though they were the reason for ABHIGYA to come together , they are some what responsible for them being apart now...
If Daadi hasent influenced Pragya for taking up Mogambo then this track would have long been finished in Aug/sept...

I would say that she is the sole reason for ABHIGYA separation now... She influenced And influences Pragya big time...

I don't believe Daadi could really influence Pragya completely to take up this task. Pragya agreed with this mission too and took it up.

Remember Pragya was able to convince Daadi to accept TaBhi, why didn't she convince Daadi to tell truth to Abhi? I feel that is because she wanted to make up for what she did by leaving him and she wanted to get back with him without risk. Like if she told him the truth, he may not believe and still might want Tannu but if she proves, he will let go of Tannu.

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Cerealgirl

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Posted: 9 years ago

A lot! Dadi and Sarla ma got them married. And they were a huge influence on Pragya more than Abhi. Let's not forget, Aliya has a lot to do with abhigya😊!!

Dadi kept influencing Pragya to see Abhi as a family person and she kept highlighting to Abhi how Pragya is lakhon me ek kind of bahu, sanskari, Savitri, etc. etc, pushing him to see her virtues!!

Dadi is like Al Pacino.😆 She recruited Pragya for this intelligence/proof mission😆. I'd say dadi has a huge hold on Pragya.