Unpleasant surprise

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Unpleasant surprise for the kids.

Anandi sprang such a surprise on the kids that she felt would have been applauded. The kids stole the show. Mangala did not poison the ears. Whatever happened was spontaneous.

Shivam was angry and he was supported by Abhi. Seems they have patched up nicely.

Even Mangala experienced jatka at the happenings as she was happy for Nimboli.

First time Anant felt that Anandi is neglecting Shivam.

Nimboli experienced far more humiliations on a daily basis at Jhalra but she never reacted like this. She took them in her stride. Here she was behaving as a normal child(not mahaan).

Jagya was angry when Mangala talked about relocating to Jhalra.

Anandi could have told Shivam about Nimboli being part of the celebrations and telling him that she is Nandini which could have made the birthday a pleasant first time birthday for Nimboli. But Anandi is waiting for qayamat to break the news. Mangala could have told the truth to Nimboli instead of talking of going back to Jhalra. She does not want Nimboli to know who she is.
Nimboli is stuck up between the devil and the deep blue sea.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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The good thing is atleast Shivam celebrated by cutting the cake.

The bad thing was Nimboli was crying all the while.

It was a mature decision to carry on instead of cancelling.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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I was impressed with Jagya's booming voice.

I was also impressed how Shivam consoled his mother and tried to tolerate Nimboli for his mother's sake.
Edited by leavesandwaves - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i can understand shivam questions about Nimboli and also his anger at his mother for trying to give his sister's place to a random girl but still no way his behavior is justified He has no shame of even elders He shouts and create scenes in front of outsiders Thats so rude He is not so small he don't know how to apply his manners High time he is put to limits .My mom was so angry at shivam and wanted him to be slapped not for any other reason but this he created such a big scene in front of guests and then he does not care for other's feelings at all if he is jealous and insecure of someone he is fine with throwing daggers at the person's heart to hurt him to satisfy himself I mean Nimbol cried so much and he did not melt down and even in the end he was happy like good riddance Nimboli is not coming and he will not have to share his birthday with anyone . So insensitive These are the signs of brattiness and if shivam is not controlled now he will not be a good person later

and shivam also needs to be made to understand His house is KB He can show this my house attitude there . BH is not his personal property In fact his position in BH is not different than what he is making of Nimboli 's in BH.

On the other side i did not feel anything for Anandi She got well deserved blasting from her both kids Both asked some valid questions but sadly she is still so dumb that she cannot understand and can only cry buckets i am tired 🤢when she was uttering these dialogues i was saying to her actually we are tried of your foolishness and crying buckets after making mess🤢Its only and only Anandi's fault here for messing up her kids life . Dont know for which mahurat she is waiting to open her mouth and tell the truth 🤢


Abhi wants to get rid of the danger hovering on his family's lives with Nimboli staying with them under same roof ,his mother was kidnapped by that goon who was linked with Nimboli and wanted her but abhi's mother was about to be killed because of that i can understand him but he can be made to understand by his parents

Someone needs to show Mangala and Anandi both mirror for playing with the kids lives i will not mind if Jagya and Dadisaa do the honors by blasting both and drill some sense in their empty skulls which is only filled with senseless insecurities
Edited by AdorableAnusha - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Totally agree m glad at least Jagya said wat we all wanna say its Enough Madam Mangla !
BV is getting boring bcz of Same Mangla drama for months
kuch to aage barho dear creatives plz
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Shivam was never allowed to feel like an outsider by Jagya or Ganga or dadisa and so he considers BH as his home emotionally. Only his mother made that point clear by moving out of BH. Even after moving out he wanted to go to BH and play with Abhi and Mannu. And he stayed at BH almost from his infancy.
While Nimboli came abruptly and grabbed all his mother's love and support. He understood Abhi being real heir of BH but he cant understand Nimboli's stay. His mother says she is only a guest. And guests are treated not so specially.He shouted in front of others because his mother cheated him by disclosing that he will have special day and did not mention about Nimboli at all. It was like some cruel joke played on him. And I am glad he is portrayed like a brat rather than a goody goody anandi's son which would have been so boring. He is highly impulsive and when he grows up he wont become a bad person but become more mature. Girls can shed tears and get all the sympathy while boys cant do it. They can only show anger and frustration by other means.
When mannu came to SN during Ratan episode, Shivam was so happy to have him spend one nioght with him.
Edited by leavesandwaves - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Shivam was brought up as one of the kids of BH by Dsa. For her be it Jagya or Anandi's kids it doesn't make any difference.
She considers kids of both the couples Anandi and Shiv Jagya and Ganga as her own great grand children.
For Shivam they are his family

He shifted to SN with his mother because his home is with his mother and where ever she is it is home be it SN BH or KB or anywhere else his mother chooses to be

In fact after shifting to SN though he missed playing and fighting with Abhi and Mannu he was quite happy and made that place comfortable for him and his mother.

His home is his life with his mother. Nimboli is an intruder in his life.His mother brought her into his life and now forcing him to share his birthday cake with her.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Good thing is Shivam is willing to put up with this intruder if the girl is important to his mother.
That shows how much he cares about his mother
His outburst is against his mother and he is more angry with his mother than he is with that girl
Even little N is more upset with Anandi for wanting to celebrate her birthday rather than being upset with what Shivam did.

Both the kids are quite sorted out.They went to the root of their problems pretty fast and both blamed Anandi who they think is the root of the problem
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The kids definitely stole the show today.
I am with Shivam and can understand his anger this time. His outburst was justified. And I can't blame him for bringing it out in front of the guests, because he was cheated badly. He was told it was his special day, which didn't turn out to be the case.

Shivam thinks of BH as his place because he was brought up there for all his life. He was briefly moved out and is back. Can't blame him for perceiving that he has more rights on BH than Nimboli has.

Felt extremely bad for Nimboli. Anandi can't do one thing right for her daughter. Anandi is terrible at handling everything.


@Leaves: Nimboli experienced far more humiliations on a daily basis at Jhalra but she never reacted like this. She took them in her stride.

Nimboli in Jhalra was never double treated. The bad ones (Kundan, harki and Aheraj) always treated her badly. The good ones (Mangala, Kamli & Co) never treated her badly. She just knew what to expect from each one, and with time she had got tuned to it.

Here, she is double treated everyday and is subjected to too much emotional burden. Anandi &Co build expectations for her and then they are crashed big time.

Get all goodies, but get ready to sacrifice your life, cope up with BH boys who are told she is only an outsider, sessions with psychologist, humiliation from Shivam, the burden of putting everyone in danger. And above all, who is she to them?

Why will any loving mother (Anandi) overlook too many emotions of her child and not do anything about it?

The only other person who can bridge the gap (Mangala) will not to do so, because of her own vested interests.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Glad though, that both kids blamed Anandi and not each other.

Mangala did no ear filling, and did her bit well throughout the episode. Even after sending Shivam and Anandi down, she didn't go inside to be with Nimboli to instigate anything.

Mangala does know Nimboli well. Anandi is not even trying to know her.

I get angry at Mangala whenever I see her planning and plotting, but at the same time, the way she stands up for Nimboli and makes her a priority, I find a much better mother in her than I do in Anandi.
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At this point in the serial I am quite torn as a viewer on who is a better mother?

Mangala who can stoop low, but yet stand up for Nimboli in the harshest conditions, OR Anandi, who is just all about herself and not at all into her kids; even though she ticks all the other boxes.

I think, I am largely tilted towards Mangala even now over Anandi.
Edited by Missesha - 10 years ago

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