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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

New Kundan got into the skin of old Kundan easily with his brusque manner.

He will not change that easily. Harki is in shock.

Nimboli almost hit dadisa. She is as rude as Shivam. Afterall Akheraj is her bapusa even if he had tried to kill all of them. And she missed meeting Kamli and Pushkar!

Mangala's true home is Jhalra and she will be doing up and down to meet jhalrawasis.

Will akheraj attend his own funeral?

Harki and Akheraj mocked Urmi in her death and insulted her now and now its their turn to be insulted by the entire village.

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Posted: 10 years ago

Anandi would have weakend and allowed Nimboli leaving for Jhalra but she was happy that dadisa intervened and stopped it. This shows she needs someone strong enough to solve her problems. I am waiting for anandi to say sorry to Mangala and Nimboli.😡

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Posted: 10 years ago

Will akhiraj attend his funeral hope so.
Dadisa how can she stop nimbuli saying she does not have any relationship with Akhi. When dadisa herself could not get rid of Anandi. Anandi has no relation with bh people because she is divorced legally.
Cvs double standard rule to promote bal vivah.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

This new actor got under the skin of the character with so much ease.It seemed like seamless transition.

Really do not know what it will take Kundan to change.

Harki is numb with shock

Looks like Jhalra people gathered at Akheraj house just to watch Tamasha and not really to share the grief of family members.

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Good that Dsa stopped Mangala from taking Nimboli to participate in those funeral rites.

N was made to understand how Akheraj is not her bapusa and how they are not her family any more now that her marriage to Kundan is declared null and void.

Anandi as usual way too soft with Mangala.😡

But Mangala should be made to understand that emotional bonds that the child shares with some of the family members will always be respected but she should stop treating that child as part of Akheraj family.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
Anandi would have weakend and allowed Nimboli leaving for Jhalra but she was happy that dadisa intervened and stopped it. This shows she needs someone strong enough to solve her problems. I am waiting for anandi to say sorry to Mangala and Nimboli.😡

Dsa took initiative and told Mangala in her own way.

But don't think Anandi even on her own would have allowed the child to go along with Mangala this time she would not have been direct like Dsa but would have persuaded her with soft talk..

Anandi respects her daughter's ties with that family but not the marriage which was thrust on her daughter

She had no issues with Nandini wanting to attend Urmi's godh bharai or funeral except safety issues.

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Missesha

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Posted: 10 years ago

Harki's acting was really nice. New Kundan fit in well.

Felt bad for Nimboli. Anandi disassociated Nimboli's identity from Jhalra / Akheraj & Co, but didn't give her any other identity in return. The girl wants to belong somewhere, and it hurts her to know that she belongs nowhere. Her hand-holding Mangala shows that nothing will make N accept CC or her family as her own, until N gets her rightful identity and sense of belongingness.

Mangala's part was nice. She did her duty as the elder of their family.

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Still hard to believe that Akheraj died. I was waiting all through the episode for him to pop up from somewhere.

Jhalra vasis may not have had guts to take up against Akhiraj while he was alive, but they surely resented him.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

Villagers rightly resent Akheraj a lot.

But what did Kamili do to them?

If it had not been for Kamili would they have been free of Akheraj?

She was the one who motivated the villagers to give witness against Akheraj. She has done what very few daughters from that area are capable of.

He was Kamili's father too.

Atleast they could have been with Kamili in her grief if not Kundan and Harki.

They could have helped in carrying the body of Kamili's father if not Kundan's father.

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SPuja

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Posted: 10 years ago

How can DS say that Nimboli has no relationship with Jhalra just because her marriage was dissolved? Is it that one rule applies for DS and another rule for others?

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

On the issue of identity - That child was lost when she was reminded of how her marriage to Kundan was nullified and how Akheraj is not her Bapusa any more nor his family is hers any more.

But it is also a fact that identity as Akheraj's bahu and Mangala's beti had not done her any good.

It is better not to have any identity than when compared with the identity she had till now,

In fact that child always longed for identity that came from her parents' daughter though she was grateful to Mangala for treating her like a daughter.

This is the first step in dissociating Nandini from Nimboli

Hopefully the journey will continue at a pace which is more brisk than this.

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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: SPuja
How can DS say that Nimboli has no relationship with Jhalra just because her marriage was dissolved? Is it that one rule applies for DS and another rule for others?

It seemed to be an afterthought. She did not want Nimboli to go to Jhalra and we all saw how traumatised she was during Urmi's death. Just she gave an answer to Nimboli's query. If Nimboli goes anandi has to accompany her and all the other hassles. Mangala should have thought about these things and asked Nimboli to stay back.

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