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Does that not just fall in line with Raman opting for surrogacy...to give Ishita the feeling of being mom to her own genetic child & raising it from birth?
I'm not at all in support of surrogacy, but after both leads accepted surrogate baby, this almost seems like another way the CVs want to make surrogacy seem like the "best decision" for Ishita-Raman.
Plus now if shags runs away with baby - we'll see double the hurt bc I feel like Romi will come around to want to raise Rohit or something.
Let me get this straight first.I was referring purely to ishita's feelings.
I am in for adoption of a new born.Not surrogacy as it is shown.
I know how it feels to be a childless couple.Hence raman alone deciding over surrogacy or adoption will be totally wrong.
I also happen to come from a v.big family ,where there have been close to 5 couples who have been childless and have gone in for adoption
The couples facing this problem now have gone in for prolonged fertility treatment.
In all the cases,the couple have been childless from 13 to 15 years.
when you see your own sister having children at her liberty why would'nt you also want to have a new born.If carrying to term is not possible after repeated failures and medical treatment.The motherly feelings will always be the same.
Adhi and ruhi have been hand me downs.Infact adhi was thrust down ishitha's throat just like this surrogate child.Forever ishita has got to be indebted to a some woman's womb or the other.
What's wrong if for once she need not share her child with anybody else or be indebted to?
is'nt she also a woman .won't she also have wants and feelings.
I did not wish to share this.But I myself have been through hell before I gave birth to my children.
My own younger sister who got married after me was regarded as the fertility queen with a diarrhoea of babies.I had a total of 4 opininons from different doctors with repeated failures.Finally a team of doctors,including a psychiatrist helped me face this almost hopeless kind of situation and today I'm a proud mother of 2 children,both given birth by me itself.
I did not know that my own cousin/best friend was an adopted child until she turned 16.Such is the acceptance of adoption in our family.I'm proud to say I'm a Tamilian
