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Guys, it should not be the question that who is the lead, I mean it is a daily soap and at various points, the characters undergo changes according to the storyline. So, what if the question is like this, "Whose story is this?"

It is clear from the intial promo of the serial (even before the start) that it is the story of Thapki, a girl who is humiliated on daily basis due to her stammering. It is the story of this girl, who even after all the obstacle managed to get the happiness and love. Yes, she managed to attract the Pandey parivar for her qualities and love did come her way in the form of DS but here fate went against her. Instead of marrying DS, she ended up with Bihaan, the adopted son of Pandeys. But, Thapki didnot accept this stroke of her fate and did declared that she didnot accept this marriage. But as this is a Hindi daily soap, she had to come back to pandey nivas and stay with Bihaan. Here comes the beauty of the story that like other FLs, Thapki did stand against the injustice done to her. Ofcourse, at a point she will start to love Bihaan as the story demands or else but I will always support the initial confidence of Thapki for her stand against the injustice.


But it is not only the story of Thapki only as the message before every episode says that this serial is inspired by the people who knows how to walk forward inspite of many obstacles in their life. It is just a gentle push of love or THAPKI PYAAR KI to make them go forward inspite of their imperfection. That clearly indicates that it is also the story of Bihaan. Let us keep aside our unconditional love for Bihaan for some time and discuss Bihaan. Bihaan is the adopted son of Balbinder Pandey and the whole family loves him like anything. The reason I am writing him as only bauji's adopted son is that Vasu never accepted Bihaan as her son. It is the reason that BIhaan remained illiterate and was invloved in some gunda-gardi on behalf of Bauji. Yes it was Bauji who need Bihaan's help in his work as he and DS has major difference over the line of Bauji's work culture. Bihaan loves his bauji very much and can die for him but it is the mother's love he always craves for. He alwyas knows that he is discriminated by Vasu but still loves her very much. It is the reason that he almost lost his own family by marrying Thapki against her will.

It is the story of that orphan, who to save his family's honor, lost his own chance of love and happiness by marrying Thapki. He was emotionally blackmailed by his mother into marrying Thapki and even after facing constant humiliation, he did everything for Thapki and her family (Remember that Diwakar drama after marriage?)

It is the story of two different people, who under circumstances became husband wife and hated each other, but gradually began to help each other in different situation. It is the story of two people who are ill treated by the society and family equally, but still are doing their best to make everyone happy.

It is the story of two imperfact people in the society's sense, nor that they are imperfact seriously. Stammering doesnot make you imperfact nor does illiteracy. The perfectness lies in your heart and both these two have good heart. Ok, I am getting biased over Bihaan but he has a golden heart. DS is perfact in every sense, so as the CVs make it sure before every episode that it is the story of imperfact people, it is not his story.
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P.D.Dutta thumbnail
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Aah dplee..👏 commendable work yaar! Very well written😊 dil khush kr dia😉😆
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Originally posted by: peehu99

Aah dplee..👏 commendable work yaar! Very well written😊 dil khush kr dia😉😆



Thank you behna!!😃
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Thanks compass.. BTW, I am frustrated with both SR and TPK right now!!!
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First of all 👏
Its truly a thapki story which is now joined with Bihaan's.
So now, its Thahaan's story of realisation of TRUE love❤️ , their journey, and their hurdles. While thapki still is the person around whom story revolves, bihaan continues to be by her side during all the ups and downs in her life and vice versa😊
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Originally posted by: ashwariya_98

First of all 👏

Its truly a thapki story which is now joined with Bihaan's.
So now, its Thahaan's story of realisation of TRUE love❤️ , their journey, and their hurdles. While thapki still is the person around whom story revolves, bihaan continues to be by her side during all the ups and downs in her life and vice versa😊



Yes. It is now their story only!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree to some extent that it is now a story of both Thapki and Bihaan. However, there is still much more focus on Thapki. Bihaan's screen space is more due to his relation to Thapki and his antics/ entertainment value.
To make more truly his story on an equal footing with Thapki - his life needs to be explored more. They started that with his and Paan's relationship but that is gone now. They need another avenue to continue that. Without that it is really all about Thapki only.
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GAJJAB!! For this essay I'll give you 20/20 mark...hehe..but seriously
But guys I have a big question!! If thapki is a modern girl and lives in today's world, her only aim isto get married??? I mean we read everyday in news abt girls reaching to new levels in different fields whether they are physically handicap or perfectly fine...I mean I lyk thapki as a character till wen she decides to do a job & not let anyone insult her! What happened to her goal?? If this soap is to show struggle of a stammering girl then she should struggle in her life not always getting insulted by her sasumaa & lecturing her hubby...she shud show her talent in society and achieve something great & prove that moon always shine inspite having spots on it!!
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Originally posted by: priya.01

GAJJAB!! For this essay I'll give you 20/20 mark...hehe..but seriously

But guys I have a big question!! If thapki is a modern girl and lives in today's world, her only aim isto get married??? I mean we read everyday in news abt girls reaching to new levels in different fields whether they are physically handicap or perfectly fine...I mean I lyk thapki as a character till wen she decides to do a job & not let anyone insult her! What happened to her goal?? If this soap is to show struggle of a stammering girl then she should struggle in her life not always getting insulted by her sasumaa & lecturing her hubby...she shud show her talent in society and achieve something great & prove that moon always shine inspite having spots on it!!


I saw some discussion in other threads as well about Thapki's career.

MY POV is that Thapki was never a career girl. Her aim was to get married and raise a family. The show starts with her family looking for a groom and thapki taking full part in the process. She was not working and she was not looking for work either. She got the Noida job as her filled in the application for her as a surprise becasue she loved the show. If her marriage to Diwaker did not fall through, she would have never come to Noida. All those goals that she set up before coming to Noida were stemming from the marriage disaster and not from her true self.

the show could be richer if they had shown her going out and seeking another job to prepare herself for her life after the end of 3 months.

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