hahahhah, hi kowsi...
good, must watch again and again, humara asr hai. no matter how sugary.
thanks you so much for that lovely set of comments. i am thrilled you liked my rave rant. this man is super precious.
as is the story of love ipk brought.
you said that bit of lonely in acrowd so well.
that loneliness in the always happy khsuhi... her eating constantly, her talking too much.. all signs of a vulnerability, even an anxiety maybe. i am no psychologist but writers gave her those things for a reason and sanaya interpreted beyond the writing.
yes, she needed him as much as he needed her, that's why it worked. only for him she became all woman, all of herself.. he got in and brought out things from her... the beautiful period of making her feel her "huq" on him.
if i were orphaned at 8 and though brought up by loving people i would have had a very fragile part in me... there's no one who is completely her own... by right. only on your parents really you have that unqualified huq. and your spouse... your partner... and his insisting she had the huq... maybe that gave her such amazing joy and strength...
uff how i wish they'd do a little more on that huq thing... let's get a chudail 😆
The ASR we saw on 6th june was an ASR who was about to change from the ASR who did not believe in love to ASR who would fall in love for hamesha. Because someone was going to fall in his arms and break the walls he had created around him since his mother's suicide, since he and Di had been thrown out of Sheeshmahal. And that is how the story was born.
The serial encased his resistance to love, his gussa, a defence mechanism to make people fear him so that no one could come close enough to hurt him and he could stay away from such "middle class" ideas like love and marriage that did not work for his parents, wounding him for life.But on the day he fulfilled his revenge DM sent him his peace in the form of Khushi. Only he didnt know then, but realized later.And after three years of marriage to his soulmate he must be completely at peace, no? What reason can be there for him to lambast the world when his Khushi has taken away his pain and made him a happier person.. He has moreover forgiven Garima for her affair with his father. He is the same Arnav who had forgiven HP for spilling coffee on him...he was changing then already...if the story had not progressed in terms of actual time there would have been no question of a changed ASR from the one who let go off her hand and allowed her to fall from his cabin to the one who promised hamesha sambhalta rahoonga.Its true that love and happiness within has a calming effect and it also wants you want to do things for people you love however stupid they might seem... proposing to Khushi publicly, doing salmans dance for her, making jalebis...only because she will love it.And I think ASR decides himself what opinion of his wife is worth appreciating or he wouldn't have forgotten their anniversary every year.Three years into marriage he still forgets their anniversary because his work, his self made company, his AR is still important to him, and then he does not believe in special dates of love, he still has his sense of humour about him, he still teases her, yet he is sensitive to her needs as he always was.The Jashn set is tachy, the script loosely written, the direction average, ASR too mushy for words but three years down the line in real time I am happy to see a happy ASR. He has suffered enough dammit.
True ASR was the first husband to push his Biwi to become independent especially financially like even his Di he is still dropping money on her bank account but he doesn't do that to KhushiMaybe he identifies himself in Khushi, the will to become independent and not to be a burden on anyone!And of course Sanaya and Barun are the best (With maybe also SRK-Kajol!)About that Chudail part we are already thousands girls who want to snatch ASR from Khushi 😉But yeah it would be awesome to see Khushi's possessiveness but better if it's Arnav's green monster that shows upExcept that Khushi always manage to stop the guys by calling them Bhaiya!!(As you all noticed I can't stop blabbering about Arshi! once started it's impossible to end the conversation about them)
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