being woman a sin or not

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Posted: 18 years ago
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hi guys i know what i am going to write is not relevant in this forum...but i would like you to read just because u can atleast shed some tears on a woman's miserable life if not feel her pain.......please read it....i have tried to pen down the pain of a woman whom i saw today on one of the news channel.......

-U can feel her "Innocence" In form of a Daughter.

-U can feel her "Care" in form of a Sister

-U can fell her "Warmth" in form of a friend.

-U can feel her "Passion" in form of a Beloved.

-U can feel her "Dedication" in form of a Wife.

-U can feel her "Divinity" in form of a Mother.

-U can feel her "Blessings" in form of Grandmother.

-Yet She is so Tough too...
Her Heart is so Tender

a woman is so great but yet so tender.......

today for the first time i cried while feeling someone else's pain.....

that woman what did she asked for,to god just a beloving husband and happy life but in return what did she got pain,tears,abusive words,harsh physical taunts.....

she asked for love,but her husband loved her body.....

she asked for life,but her husband killed her everyday

she asked for happiness,her husband asked his friends to rape her very own wife.....

she pleaded,he torned her into pieces.........

she never complained but what he did he thought her silence her weakness and continued torturing...

god knows how many times he slept with other women in his house even she cant count it

her tears got dried......her body is full of bruises.....today she is nothing but a entertaint toy for her husband and their friends...........

now even dreams left her heart......when she got fed up.......she ran away......but see sometimes even god forget to decorate our life with petals.....instead her destiny welcomed her with sharp thorns......today her blood has become so cold....that even emotions cant reach her heart

she is now a blood* prostitute........circumstances took her there where she never imagined even in her wildest dreams........people accuse her,split on her,but cant they see pain behind those eyes,cant they reason out that because of one of us she is there.......she now has nothing to loose.....today only her eyes speaks...........people hate her and she hate herself.......today she confessed on news that she is paying a big price for being a woman.....

i dont know what to say....people in india consider woman as goddess lakshmi,sita,motherland....a divine power but on the other hand they are abusing her not physically but emotionally too.....is being woman a sin??????

today we should feel ashamed on ourselves.....its so pathetic i mean why should we suffer......just for mens pleasure???????

this report was presented to you by nihita

sorry if you think it should be posted here

really sorry but couldn't stop myself

love

nihita

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Posted: 18 years ago
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well i dont know what to write... or comment...
comment on ur writing or the content of ur writing... 😕 it just touched my heart.. may be i am not the right person to comment...
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: abhilashasharma

well i dont know what to write... or comment...
comment on ur writing or the content of ur writing... 😕 it just touched my heart.. may be i am not the right person to comment...

hey abhilasha u r free to express ur thought i hope i didn't made u upset..........

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nihita

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Posted: 18 years ago
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this is deep

its very touching 😕

its got me thinking about a lot of stuff

nice post nihita

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Posted: 18 years ago
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im the wrong person to comment on this but i really loved what u had wrote, it made me like alot of women more in my family made me consider all the things they did for me, they put up with me n i dont teat em right this has opened up my eyes thanks
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Posted: 18 years ago
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omg....that touched my heart, im speechless right now...if only some men could understand the importance of women....its great thanx for sharing it...it touched my heart i dont know whether to cry or smile, cry because its so touching or smile because we women know how to continue on in life even though it hurts............ 😭 i hope this article opens the eyes of many more people...that women should be respected equally we are god's children and were born equal in every way 👏
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Posted: 18 years ago
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hey what is this shit i cant write anything itz rediculous
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Nihita..i can understand the pain..
I have known people in my life who have been abused by their loved ones...
I don't think being a woman is a sin or a shameful thing...According to me Woman are as equal to men in everyway that counts...

But in india, Men are bought in such a way that they think that they know much better than woman..i would say it is the brought of those people and the mentality of those men that makes woman suffer in their lives..

All men are not like this but i don't ever feel that we are anyway smaller than them... I am proud to be a woman..and Men should be ashamed if they think that Women are beneath them in anyway...
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Nihita again... we are a total shocker... so grown up and what u have written has made me into a bigger fan of your work!! 👏

Domestic volience is part of modern day society in all religions and faiths across the world. I gave up my career is Social worker because i could not handle the many thing i have seen im my life time and experience complete helpness and the circle was never breakin for some. Its a disease and only education and help will it be complete gone from this world.

For those ppl who work is the field i total admire them and think they going a great public service to help these ppl get out of this cycle... 👏 👏 👏

Faith teaches us that woman are free and equal but the society and traditions paint a diferent picture..

Be a woman is not a sin... but we should be liberated and voice a views in a constructive way!! 😳

Great work No1 Fan

Kat 😳

Edited by Catwoman - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Catwoman

Nihita again... we are a total shocker... so grown up and what u have written has made me into a bigger fan of your work!! 👏

Domestic volience is part of modern day society in all religions and faiths across the world. I gave up my career is Social worker because i could not handle the many thing i have seen im my life time and experience complete helpness and the circle was never breakin for some. Its a disease and only education and help will it be complete gone from this world.

For those ppl who work is the field i total admire them and think they going a great public service to help these ppl get out of this cycle... 👏 👏 👏

Faith teaches us that woman are free and equal but the society and traditions paint a diferent picture..

Be a woman is not a sin... but we should be liberated and voice a views in a constructive way!! 😳

Great work No1 Fan

Kat 😳

thanx kat but really yesterday i felt a deep pain.......i dont know why but i wrote bas yeh pal there i showed a girl being raped ya its different that later on both fell in love.....but yesterday i realised that how horrorful rape is!!!!!!!!!believe me kat i m regretting writting bas yeh pal..........i feel i used this piece just for my story sake....i am regretting

love

nihita

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