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SamAina_yudkbh

@SamAina_yudkbh

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Posted: 9 years ago

THEY are ok if manik prioritize his friends. but if nandu does it? aiyyayyo !

they are ok if manik goes away from nandu for his friends ( remember diwali party. the way he threw nandu's dupatta at her and stormed away to cabir ? ) but if nandu ignores him a little ? aiyyayyo !

it's ok if manik doesn't even hug her after clearing the mu. ( even after she hugs him thrice! ) but if nandu doesn't throw herself at his feet ? aiyyayyo !

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vaanii078

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Posted: 9 years ago

but manik was always like that from the very first episode. he always prorites his friends first. she also said him that the first thing she notice about him.but nandini was not like that she always give importance to manik first but then why this sudden change.

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RainFlies

@RainFlies

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Posted: 9 years ago

One more...
Its ok if Manik and Mukti have friedship ..but Nandini cant do the same (i know Aryaman has feelings but Nandini dont have na...)

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RainFlies

@RainFlies

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: vaanii078
but manik was always like that from the very first episode. he always prorites his friends first. she also said him that the first thing she notice about him.but nandini was not like that she always give importance to manik first but then why this sudden change.

Its not a sudden change...Aryaman was there with her during Maniks absence.

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Rose.gyp

@Rose.gyp

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Posted: 9 years ago

So true! I have been seeing this pattern for a while now. Manik does ...it's ok. Maybe coz we have girls who are crazy about him. But if Nandini does something similar... Oh! How could she?! Poor Manik etc etc.
come on people... Aryaman was there for her when she was going to pieces coz Manik was assumed dead. He supported her the most when she needed a friend. Navya and the rest were busy getting on with their lives.
Now that Manik is back from dead ( without a proper explanation of why he didn't contact for 4 months) she is supposed to drop everything and everyone and simper over him?!? Nahee na. Yes! She should want to spend as much time as possible with him but when everyone, from F4 to Navya are celebrating, then why should she ignore Aryaman? She was just as concerned about Navya...in the room, she was constantly calling her to see when she will be coming.
For her Aryaman is as good a friend as Navya is. Period.

Now, she has no clue of Aryamans crush (wont call it love) on her. And he hasn't done anything to express it out either. So just chillax and let it play out.

See how Manik reacts. Jealous/Possesive Manik will be a treat to watch.

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vaanii078

@vaanii078

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: KYYian

Its not a sudden change...Aryaman was there with her during Maniks absence.

agree aryman with her during manik absence .but when he came back at least for the first day she can give him enough attention. its not about nandus friendship with aryaman understand she need a friend but why ignoring manik.

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Alo Manan

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Posted: 9 years ago

Coming to the point where Manik prioritises his friends over Nandini... there was a scene in S1 (where Abhimanyu sets up Soha's secret party house and leads Nandini inside). Nandini questions Manik whether he'd ditch her for his friends again and he says yes because he has to be there to protect them because he knows that she will shine for him like a star. And with that Nandini drops all charges against him and accepts his apology.

I don't know why, though it feels good to be addressed as a protector how does it justify his action of hurting her? How does being a star give him the right to go out and do the ditching act all over again? Is there anyone else who's not satisifed with his explantion back there?

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Viji.Chandran

@Viji.Chandran

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Posted: 9 years ago

Aryaman stood with her when she needed a support so badly...

now he is her best friend,...

in no way nandini ignored manik..

she was lil irritated why aryaman didn't reply...

it happens in reality too...

we wont forget our friends when we are in relationship..

we l feel restless if they wont pick up d phone or avoid us...

Nandini share a great bond with aryaman... i dont want that to vanish in thin air due to arrival of Manik...

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-Nymeria-

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Alohomora
Coming to the point where Manik prioritises his friends over Nandini... there was a scene in S1 (where Abhimanyu sets up Soha's secret party house and leads Nandini inside). Nandini questions Manik whether he'd ditch her for his friends again and he says yes because he has to be there to protect them because he knows that she will shine for him like a star. And with that Nandini drops all charges against him and accepts his apology.
I don't know why, though it feels good to be addressed as a protector how does it justify his action of hurting her? How does being a star give him the right to go out and do the ditching act all over again? Is there anyone else who's not satisifed with his explantion back there?

About the New Year MaNan scene, that's how I felt at first too. Later, I read it as Manik saying that for him Nandini's importance cannot be questioned at all, because she is his star who will always protect him, like he always protects her. Not very satisfying, I know, but that is why we had the next misunderstanding/Hate track/Fusion Concert track. Manik believed Nandini was his star who would always protect him and could never make a mistake and so he felt SO disappointed with that courtroom drama. He needed to learn that Nandini was a human too, and she needed him just as much as he needed her. It never gave him the right to leave her or hurt her. But during the Fusion Concert track, when he sees her losing hope, he steps up because he has learnt from the past. Post the kidnapping track is the time when they are finally in a good place (where both understand the other and TRUST each other enough that not Aryamann, nor Fab5 drama could break them.

That's how I see it anyway. 😳

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SamAina_yudkbh

@SamAina_yudkbh

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Posted: 9 years ago

#10

many people here are bashing nandini for ignoring manik and trying to contact aryamaan .

my request is put urself in her position and think.

you are in a condition of total distress. you believe that you have lost the love of your life forever. his friends, his dreams are scattered and shattered.

in this situations, someone becomes your friend, consoles you, supports you, be there for you every time and any time you need. he suffers worst accusations not only from others but also from you. you, the one who he can never hurt! he bears with insults from a bunch of so called friends ( i am writing this particular phrase " bunch of friends " from aryamaan's point of view. please understand. don't bash) and still support them just for your sake. he helps you in your quest for answers regarding the death of your love.

now your love is back with you. so what will you do ? forget your friend ? just forget him and enjoy the party ? didn't manik once let nandini go because of dhruv ? have you forgot the way he broke up with nandu ?

won't you get irritated and worried if you are trying to contact somebody and that person doesn't respond ? if you ask me she was irritated with aryamaan and not manik. manik was just there to receive the... umm ...blast? she was also worried for him.

about nandini hugging arya, i found nothing wrong with it. it was a friendly side hug.

guys please don't bash the poor guy. if he turns negative later, we are free to bash him. but right now , let's give him the benefit of doubt !