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ipkrr

@ipkrr

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Posted: 9 years ago

#11

Some great responses :) Thanks!

Honestly if this happened in real life - I may sway the Sanskaar way - if I was Swara. However this is TV and from an entertainment perspective I believe the Swara Sanskaar combo will be boring. Both being maha sacrificial and all - the Swara Laksh pairing may actually work better :) I also don't like that Ragini ends up with Laksh after all the horific things she did. It sends a wrong message out.

Maybe - being a romantic and avid fan of Wuthering Heights - I do have a soft corner for the possessive, fast acting, puppy like, rash kind of lovers. Chemistry wise also - Swara Laksh works for me. Swara Sanskaar is blah!

All said - I think the CVs are going with Swara Sanskaar - and much as I don't like it - I'll have to accept it and watch or give up.

I started watching ... looking for a Arnav Khushi or Rudra Paro kind of romance - does not seem to be the path ahead for this show!

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_Payalj_

@_Payalj_

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Posted: 9 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: ipkrr
Thanks for your responses. Laksh was manipulated into marrying Ragini a master manipulator - who created a situation where he was subconsciously drawn into making decisions - Ragini knew he would be manipulated into making. He is immature, selfish and stupid. But that is not the point. Swara fell in love with Laksh - so is it that she did not really know who he was as a person - when she fell in love with him - is it that she mistakenly thought that Laksh was strong and when she realized he was weak and had trust issues - she will now fall in love for real for the better guy - because he is smarter. So love is not really a heart based emotion but a head based emotion. Nice! BTW - I don't expect anyone to agree with me - just felt I'd like to express my take :)

Dont mind my question, but how old are you? Because you have a very story bookish, fairy tale notion of love and human emotions.

First and foremost everything in life changes and so do emotions with passage of time.

Let me give you an example, a young woman marries a man with great love and expectations, but after marriage he turns out to be physically and mentally abusive, demeans her in front of anyone and everyone - will her love stay or will it simply erode with time?

You might say that if her husband redeems herself and all but dear, if he has ill treated her enough she will not be able to accept him back fully (forgiving and accepting back are different).

Relationships are like glass. The crack never mends. Further, women are much more emotional than men. She will never ever be able to get intimate again with him with all the previous passion. There would always be something held back.

However, women keep on staying with partners they no longer love for the sake of society and their children.

But where there is no marriage, no children and no societal pressure, is it so wrong for a woman to try and heal her heart, to try and live again? Is it so wrong for her to fall in love again?

Why should she be called a grasping witch or a heartless woman ?😕

In this show has Lakshya not abused Swara emotionally? Abuse and hurt are not only physical. So I maintain that the way it is totally wrong for Swara to expect Lakshya to forgive Ragini, it is wrong to expect Swara to unite with Lakshya.

Edited by billorani123 - 9 years ago

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Aashti

@Illuminati07

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Posted: 9 years ago

#13

I disagree and though I want to say that she shouldnt be with Laksh because he didnt wait for her & married Ragini or accused her time and again and what not..

Trust is when you believe in someone when all the situation is against that person.. or else we couldnt call it trust would we.. Sanskar brought Rgaini's truth with proof, no one believed him.. Y?? TRUST.. Because Laksh trusted Ragini to never pull out something so twisted when he was easily convinced Swara could do the same,,\

But ignore that...

Lets assume that Laksh loves Swara..

But question is does Swara love Laksh?? or was Laksh always a passing fancy. Remember she was so skeptical even before the wedding.

She thinks of him in flash backs- agreed but clearly it is for a past that could have happened.. we all do that.. but she has clearly said --- looking in his eyes-- that she has moved on,, not just to him but to others as well.

If you love someone that you will find any reason to be with that person.. this 'he is Ragini's husband' might just be an evading technique when all she wants is to refrain from confessing that she never loved Laksh

I think if Swara is in Love with either Sanskar or Laksh, she should be with that person.. Its human tendency to stay happy with the person one loves than one who loves them

But from my pov her apparent indifference to Sanskar has more feeling.. more passion than for her past love for Laksh

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Nityah

@-StarlitFire-

Sparkler

Posted: 9 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: ipkrr
Mine may not be a popular opinion - but true love cannot be changed by trust issues or other impediments. If Swara truly loved Lakshya - then she belongs with him and he with her. Even after marrying Ragini - Lakshya could not bring himself to starting a relationship with Ragini. He always stated he was still in love with Swara. As far as I am concerned - I don't blame Laksh that much. He was in love with Swara and vulnerable. Ask yourself if someone showed you a video of your love stating clearly they did not love you and were leaving the wedding - would you not be convinced? There is really no drug that can cause a person to lucidly be manipulated into saying something against their will. So if Swara moves on to Sanskaar - its because her love was flawed in the first place and she never loved Laksh. Sanskaar is an amazing person - but at the end of the day - if love is truly and supposedly a lasting emotion then Swara belongs with Laksh - even though he is obviously the weaker of the 2 brothers.
Just my take on the serial story :)

Tell me what true love is in your opinion??Because in my opinion there is no true love without trust. Love is not just attraction,the fluttery feeling in your stomach, joy and happiness. Love is to trust implicitly your significant other to take right decision, to trust even with your life. Love is combination of attraction, respect, care, trust, knowledge and commitment. In all of these trust is the key feature. Between Swara and Laksh attraction and little care was there but all this went out of the window because Laksh didn't trusted Swara. Also he had no knowledge what Swara is like and still don't have.
About me being in Laksh's shoes and watching video stating my fiance dont love me and is leaving the wedding. I will definitely not marry his brother under no circumstances. None of us will until we are immature, weak and pathetic character. My first action will be to search for him and demand answers. I would be distraught.. I may close off myself from everyone but I will not marry anyother person in the same mandap where I am left. But that's me, coming to Laksh and Swara, He watched one effing video and he believed Swara doesnt love him !!. Didnt he knew Swara was not such a girl. She is upfront, honest and respects relationship. This proves his lack of knowledge about Swara persona.
Then comes Ragini suicide attempt ...Fine ...he saved her saying he will marry her but did someone put him on gun point that he has to marry her in one the same day at the very same altar where he was supposed to marry other girl. It was not like Ragini ki shaadi tooti thi wahan... It was his wedding that broke.. His ego was hurt. and when that was hurt ..the commitment went out of the window.
He married Ragini but then Swara returned that too injured. It should have been first sign for him that something went wrong. But as I said he didnt trust Swara and was too egoistic. He blasted her off. He claimed to love the girl and under unknown circumstances she mysteriously refuse to marry him and then returned home injured.The warning bells should have rung in head at the very moment. Do you know what he did? He manhandled a injured person ...and then throw her out of the house. So there care got cancelled out. He didnt gave two hoots how things got to that point. He didnt care his ex- fiance who was to be bride that day came home injured after mysteriously refusing to marry.
About respect.. we all know how much respect Laksh holds for Swara... ghinn aati hai mujhe usse... tum jaisi characterless laski maine aaj tak nahi dekhi... ring some bell. ?? So no respect here. Also attraction went out of window here And trust was already missing... So where is the love left here??
According to me Swara and Laksh relationship was purely and utterly infatuation. They both felt thrills of first attraction. But when the time came for the first tide.. their sand castle washed away with it. I have talked about Laksh a lot but now Lets talk about Swara. Her marriage broke ...her love married her sister. What were her reactions? All I care is to reunite my maa-baba. I dont want Laksh back... heck she still says so that too with conviction. And now she wants to reunite her sister and him. And she is not obliged to do this at all .. Along with her sister happiness ..it is also because wants to get rid of unwanted persuasion of Laksh which right now .. he is doing. And please dont be fooled by this Laksh trying to woo Swara in being him repenting ... This not repenting.. its just to satisfy his own ego which again is hurt when he was proved wrong on all fronts.. Repenting would have been giving Swara her space and time.. Let everything settle and start again with being friends and the n seeing if there is still something left. I dont know girl how old are you.. but grow up dear. You're notions about love are quite bookish like of childhood fairy tales. And dont say that its just a show.. thats why I think so. Our thoughts here at forum are reflection of our persona and our thinking.

Originally posted by: ipkrr
Thanks for your responses. Laksh was manipulated into marrying Ragini a master manipulator - who created a situation where he was subconsciously drawn into making decisions - Ragini knew he would be manipulated into making. He is immature, selfish and stupid. But that is not the point. Swara fell in love with Laksh - so is it that she did not really know who he was as a person - when she fell in love with him - is it that she mistakenly thought that Laksh was strong and when she realized he was weak and had trust issues - she will now fall in love for real for the better guy - because he is smarter. So love is not really a heart based emotion but a head based emotion. Nice! BTW - I don't expect anyone to agree with me - just felt I'd like to express my take :)

Originally posted by: ipkrr
Some great responses :) Thanks!

Honestly if this happened in real life - I may sway the Sanskaar way - if I was Swara. However this is TV and from an entertainment perspective I believe the Swara Sanskaar combo will be boring. Both being maha sacrificial and all - the Swara Laksh pairing may actually work better :) I also don't like that Ragini ends up with Laksh after all the horific things she did. It sends a wrong message out.

Maybe - being a romantic and avid fan of Wuthering Heights - I do have a soft corner for the possessive, fast acting, puppy like, rash kind of lovers. Chemistry wise also - Swara Laksh works for me. Swara Sanskaar is blah!

All said - I think the CVs are going with Swara Sanskaar - and much as I don't like it - I'll have to accept it and watch or give up.

I started watching ... looking for a Arnav Khushi or Rudra Paro kind of romance - does not seem to be the path ahead for this show!

Coming to your these posts... In every manipulation, the manipulated person plays a role too. The reason he is being manipulated you have stated in your very next line. He is immature, selfish and stupid. Why in the seven hells do you think Swara deserve such guy??

I am a dieheart romantic... and I too love possessive, fast acting, puppy like lovers. But i so hate obsessive, immature, stupid and selfish lovers..which is everything Laksh is.
You think Swara-Sanskaar is blah... I think Swara and Laksh are grossly blah !! These two have no chemistry... passion ki toh baat hi chod do.
And you seriously compared Arnav and Khush with Swara and laksh.?? Like seriously??...Please dont humilate Arnav by comparing him to Laksh. I may have been sounding rude to you but you hit the nerve here. I am a die heart Arshi fan and I find this utterly humiliating.

Edited by Lavender_Love - 9 years ago

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ipkrr

@ipkrr

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#15

Thanks for the responses. The tone is getting a little too serious for a forum post where every opinion ought to be subjective. There is never one right answer. Let's leave the discussion here and just watch the show :)

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