Swara with Laksh or Sanskaar

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Mine may not be a popular opinion - but true love cannot be changed by trust issues or other impediments. If Swara truly loved Lakshya - then she belongs with him and he with her. Even after marrying Ragini - Lakshya could not bring himself to starting a relationship with Ragini. He always stated he was still in love with Swara. As far as I am concerned - I don't blame Laksh that much. He was in love with Swara and vulnerable. Ask yourself if someone showed you a video of your love stating clearly they did not love you and were leaving the wedding - would you not be convinced? There is really no drug that can cause a person to lucidly be manipulated into saying something against their will. So if Swara moves on to Sanskaar - its because her love was flawed in the first place and she never loved Laksh. Sanskaar is an amazing person - but at the end of the day - if love is truly and supposedly a lasting emotion then Swara belongs with Laksh - even though he is obviously the weaker of the 2 brothers.
Just my take on the serial story :)

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Posted: 9 years ago
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oh what if someone send him video where his mother stabbing someone 😊 Will he believe sat video? No nah?

When we love someone we trust them blindly no matter what.

& nw Swara don't want him why she shld accept him?
For Swara trust matters most.
Love happens after marriage too & she will fall fr Sanskaar soon.

Laksh z creep who z after her Bhabhi 🤢
I cn see Ragini 2.0 in him
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ipkrr

Mine may not be a popular opinion - but true love cannot be changed by trust issues or other impediments. If Swara truly loved Lakshya - then she belongs with him and he with her. Even after marrying Ragini - Lakshya could not bring himself to starting a relationship with Ragini. He always stated he was still in love with Swara. As far as I am concerned - I don't blame Laksh that much. He was in love with Swara and vulnerable. Ask yourself if someone showed you a video of your love stating clearly they did not love you and were leaving the wedding - would you not be convinced? There is really no drug that can cause a person to lucidly be manipulated into saying something against their will. So if Swara moves on to Sanskaar - its because her love was flawed in the first place and she never loved Laksh. Sanskaar is an amazing person - but at the end of the day - if love is truly and supposedly a lasting emotion then Swara belongs with Laksh - even though he is obviously the weaker of the 2 brothers.

Just my take on the serial story :)


I could agree to this if Lakshya would have waited for Swara to come back once and heard her out before taking the plunge with Ragini. Lakshya's love was weak because he did not chose to wait to hear it all directly from Swara's mouth. He could have left the wedding venue distraught - the video or Ragini's suicide attempt is not enough reason for him to jump into matrimony with Ragini. That is where his love does not seem like love but infatuation. Also, Lakshya would have given Ragini her due rights - situations did not let him. Had Ragini's truth not be revealed - he would have moved on because he trusted and believed in Ragini more. 🤢

Yes, if someone showed me a video - I would definitely be angry and probably my trust would be shaken a little bit - because being a human you tend to make wrong judgements - but I would still give the one I love a fair chance. But I would still not step into matrimony with his brother. That is just sick! Lakshya married Ragini of his own free will. True he could not trust the video - but Swara came back - begging and apologising and lots of explaining - why did he not trust her then? He can believe a video but not trust Swara when she was right there in front of him? He could not believe her when he could see she was hurt in the head? Who did he trust more then? Ragini! So yes. If someone's love was weak - it was Lakshya's.

Swara if she choses Sanskaar which will be done rightly so - will not have loved Lakshya any less - but every girl deserves to be with a man who gives her a chance and sadly Lakshya failed - constantly! There is no justification for what he did and Swara does not need to give him a chance to prove her love - she did that many times before and she got only betrayal in return. Lakshya's love was and still is flawed and not Swara's.



Edited by --Anna-- - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sanskaar is the best for Swara as he stuck with Swara through thick and thin when he could have easily walked away.
Lakshya doesn't know the meaning a true love because if he did then:
1. He should believed that Swara doesn't take drugs and she a girl who wouldn't in the first place (repeating told him that she doesn't).
2. Should have waited for Swara on their wedding day
3. He believed this best friend over his lover
4. Degrading Swara's character in front of everyone
5. Forcing her to marry Sanskaar (sindoor scene) and real marriage

And if someone show me a video like that I would definitely NOT believe in that video because I would have full trust on my love

Edited by yoyorileysingh - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thanks for your responses. Laksh was manipulated into marrying Ragini a master manipulator - who created a situation where he was subconsciously drawn into making decisions - Ragini knew he would be manipulated into making. He is immature, selfish and stupid. But that is not the point. Swara fell in love with Laksh - so is it that she did not really know who he was as a person - when she fell in love with him - is it that she mistakenly thought that Laksh was strong and when she realized he was weak and had trust issues - she will now fall in love for real for the better guy - because he is smarter. So love is not really a heart based emotion but a head based emotion. Nice! BTW - I don't expect anyone to agree with me - just felt I'd like to express my take :)
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ipkrr

Thanks for your responses. Laksh was manipulated into marrying Ragini a master manipulator - who created a situation where he was subconsciously drawn into making decisions - Ragini knew he would be manipulated into making. He is immature, selfish and stupid. But that is not the point. Swara fell in love with Laksh - so is it that she did not really know who he was as a person - when she fell in love with him - is it that she mistakenly thought that Laksh was strong and when she realized he was weak and had trust issues - she will now fall in love for real for the better guy - because he is smarter. So love is not really a heart based emotion but a head based emotion. Nice! BTW - I don't expect anyone to agree with me - just felt I'd like to express my take :)

@bold : Yes and who wants a lead like him? 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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If Sanskar was in Lakshya place than he would have reacted more anger than Lakshya we all know Sanskar cannot control himself but Lakshya is a nice guy he controls himself
Sanskar did wrong n he knew Swara was innocent that's why he took her side n believed her
yaa u r right Swara n Lakshya love story has been the show highlight since start of the show Swalak should unite in the end
there will never be denying fact that Swara loves Lakshya since start of the show but she is smart to hide her love untill she says she does nobody can guess wats going on in her mind
Lakshya was Swara first true love and Lakshya also showed he loves swara so much despite trying to accept Ragini he couldn't accept her n he will never accept anyone bcz true love no one can forget
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ipkrr

Thanks for your responses. Laksh was manipulated into marrying Ragini a master manipulator - who created a situation where he was subconsciously drawn into making decisions - Ragini knew he would be manipulated into making. He is immature, selfish and stupid. But that is not the point. Swara fell in love with Laksh - so is it that she did not really know who he was as a person - when she fell in love with him - is it that she mistakenly thought that Laksh was strong and when she realized he was weak and had trust issues - she will now fall in love for real for the better guy - because he is smarter. So love is not really a heart based emotion but a head based emotion. Nice! BTW - I don't expect anyone to agree with me - just felt I'd like to express my take :)


@Bold : That is up for discussion. If Lakshya took a subconscious decision of marrying Ragini then subconsciously HE did not want to marry Swara and wanted her to falter. He is definitely immature, stupid and selfish and that is why his love is flawed. You said it yourself.

Coming to Swara - Swara when fell in love with Lakshya - she may have seen his strong characters and the fact that he would believe in their love. Her realisation of Lakshya's love for weak was when he proved to her that it was weak.

Love, is not a heart based emotion - and if anyone who thinks so is living in delusion. I think the serial has done a good part in showing that Love is not for everyone who thinks from the heart because that seems good for a while - it is not real. Heart can take you only so far along - Head and Heart together takes you very far along. When you think from the heart - you accept only the positives. When you think from the head and the heart - you look at both negatives and positives. The show has been very real when it comes to Swara. Being a girl, I might have fallen in love with a guy like Lakshya but I would not even have forgiven him even when he apologised. He needs to redeem and grovel and beg just like Swara did - before I would have decided to forgive him. Acceptance toh door ki baat hai. 😆

And that being said, I would not have initially forgiven Sanskaar and now Ragini also. But Sanskaar made up for his mistakes and that is why he continues to be the better guy. Which girl would not use her head over heart and think of Sanskaar and all that he has done for her is beyond me.

I always believe, it is better to be married to someone who loves you unconditionally even if you are not in love with him. Because a time will come when you will fall in love with the goodness of that person - unknowingly. However if you get married to someone who claims to love you but has no faith in you - god save that person.

Btw, I like how you have put your points across. We can agree to disagree but it is nice of you to express your views so calmly even though I am from different fandom. Kudos to that. 😊




Edited by --Anna-- - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Interesting post actually..my POV is slightly different

The idea of bubblegum romance = love as a concept itself is flawed..for swara, lakshya will hold a place somewhere maybe, since he was the first man in her life..but is he the right person for her? Matters of heart too is higly overrated as a concept..again romanticized big time by our movies..sometimes its about taking practical, sensible decisions..in teenage it all looks dreamy and real..but sometimes even the best of couples with the most epic love marriages fail to sail it through n end up separating..so was it because their love wasn't true..or with time the preferences n priorities start changing? What really survives in long run is respect, sense of understanding and inherent friendship in a relationship..that connect..that maturity and depth is present in Swasan dynamics..and for once I want to watch something different on TV where a couple takes a practical call, really works on their marriage and explores some real challenges and issues n usual teething problems in their marital life..rather than the same old third angle..i wish they would show swara n sanskaar's professional life as well in detail..rather than roaming around this quadrangle mess

If not love..i hope Swara atleast takes a decision that's for her betterment than anything else..but ohh I forget we are watching RS show lol..i need to tone down my expectations lol..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Laksh may Love Swara or he claims to...but I have my doubt on Swara ever really loving Laksh...To me she was forced into thinking she loved Laksh by Ragini and Laksh and to an extent Sanskar too...
Swara liked him as a friend but I really don't think she ever really truly loved Lux...she was made to think that she did as she loved him as a friend...and it she was forced to think that she loved him as something more...


About Laksh...no he has not loved anyone really...Hes still an immature child who is just fascinated with Swara...her personality...love her he does not...

The biggest thing in any and all relationship is Trust...without trust their is no relationship at all...and in Love that is the most important one dear...

When it came to trusting her...he didn't

Ragini could manipulate him all she wanted because he was weak of character and his so called love for Swara was weak too...

He could have stopped her from committing suicide but did not have to marry her to do so dear...thats just making excuses for Laksh...sorry don't buy that as DP was not for him marrying Ragini either...

Marrying Ragini on the same day..in the same Mandap...like Really???

His disbelief ...anger on watching the video one can get but all his other steps...not sign of love at all...


That's my opinion...😃


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