Double standards of Bhabho

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Bhabho's sense of betrayal' has had me wondering for a long time...Is it because Sandhya is a woman first, a daughter-in-law first - that she should have NOT thought of her country above and all? Is it not weird that Bhabho holds the view that marriage divides a woman's duties towards her job? I ask her only one question - since she has so definitely two sets of rules for sons' and daughters-in-law' - had it been her dear chhora Sooraj who was an IPS officer and had done exactly what Sandhya has done (gone on a secret mission to save the country and letting the family think that he died') - and then one day would have come back after the successful completion of his mission - what then? Let us imagine that Sandhya would have lost mental balance in her grief and there would come a man who would put his own life at stake to cure her - would Bhabho be in a hurry to get her beendni marry this guy? And when the son returned, would she be adamant in not allowing him to enter the house as the man who has cured the beendni has more right to marry her now? Of course we know this woman Bhabho is selfish to the core - just look at how Mohit and Emily are treated in the family. No prizes for guessing that the return of a dead' son would have found high praises and a hero's welcoming - but nothing but insults for daughter-in-law?

I know the serials need drama to survive..but can't the writers' spare some thought to women's dignity?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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bang on
that is bb for you
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Posted: 9 years ago
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So true!
I suddenly miss Manjari now... 😉
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Good post! I have never participated in the forum. But the the way this story is moving I am very upset! Sandhya is being punished in a much brutal manner than it would have been if it were Bhabho's own son. I just hope they show Suraj is able to open Bhabho's eyes.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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And the sad part is, after everything is over and Lm's true color is revealed, sandy would be the first to forgive the mahan bhabo and move on as if nothing happened. For once i wish sandy would make her count the number of sacrifices she did for this family she is so proud of, such as donating her kidney, saving chavi's marriage, saving meena from going to jail coz of her child swapping crime, saving suraj and bhabo in the hijack track.. the list is endless but she is never the one to point out her sacrifices because she is one selfless soul.
Despite of being an educated woman, sandy bows down infront of her nonsense not because she doesnt have the guts to fight back but because she respects bhabo as her mother. Bhabo is so lucky yet she takes all of it for granted.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Exactly my thoughts. I've been hating her character since day 1. And she has done done this with her son before. She accepted that chamcha Mohit back in their house and didn't accept Zakirs proposal for Emily. Giving 1000 excuses for being the bindni. Cheap ass character.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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The best part is that after all of this she will win the best Saas award in Star Parivar award like each year.

I understand this a popular show, but bhaboo has been the worst possible saas from day one, i dont understand how they give her the best saas award so many times.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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My thoughts exactly!...Dont even think far. Stupid Mohit left his wife and daughter for 5 years. Emily looked like a living death for all those years...right in front of Bhabo, but immediately Bhabo sees Mohit she welcomed him with open hands. Didn't even for once to talk to Emily about her feelings on all these.
Worst part, Mohit was maltreating Emily right in front of her, still the stupid woman didn't think of help Emily get strong. she doesn't even think of what their daughter is going through.
Now, Sandy leaves for only 8 months...to save the whole of India, and Bhabo thinks she has no right to stay Sooraj's love.

Are you kidding me?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Bhabho has always held double standards when it comes to Sandy. She has never fully accepted Sandy for who she is, and punishes her relentlessly for being an IPS officer. My only problem with the track is that Sandy could have phoned Suraj and told him she is a alive to stop his suffering. I think that was her mistake. Yes I find it disgusting that Bhabho took Mohit back into the house with welcoming arms, despite what Emily endured all of those years alone. Mohit was never punished for it, only rewarded. Now if Emily had disappeared for five years and returned, Bhabho would have punished her!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: avyarima

My thoughts exactly!...Dont even think far. Stupid Mohit left his wife and daughter for 5 years. Emily looked like a living death for all those years...right in front of Bhabo, but immediately Bhabo sees Mohit she welcomed him with open hands. Didn't even for once to talk to Emily about her feelings on all these.
Worst part, Mohit was maltreating Emily right in front of her, still the stupid woman didn't think of help Emily get strong. she doesn't even think of what their daughter is going through.
Now, Sandy leaves for only 8 months...to save the whole of India, and Bhabo thinks she has no right to stay Sooraj's love.

Are you kidding me?



I wish the writers have the guts to get this out in the open - in fact, it would be perfect if Emily points this out to bhabho 😛

Writers, you have messed up many times, but can the women audience of your serial have a little satisfaction this time? Can Bhabho be shown a mirror?

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