Originally posted by: avyarima
Really? you will suddenly be happily marrying a guy you believe married you without you knowledge and destroy your life because he doesn't want you to marry his "perfect brother"
Please, lets be realistic with our expectations.
Thapki still doesn't really understand Bihaan and I really think its to early to be nice to him after what she believes he did to her. no matter how hard he tries to be nice...it's still too early to forgive. In fact, he still hasn't ask for forgiveness. So, talk to Mr Bihaan first.
I am not saying Bihaan is bad, and I want Druv with Thapki. His character in more interesting and he has a good heart, but still he can't criticize Thapki for being rude...no, not with the current situation.
As for Druv, I don't understand the dislike for this character. just because he is not the lead doesn't make him a bad person. yes, he sometime can not control his emotions, but he also knows that both Bihaan and Thapki are miserable in the marriage, so its not like he is crossing any line because of the mature of the situation he is in . We also know how deeply he feels for Thapki, but he still give Bihaan his space to act like a husband.
I do agree that Thapki needs time. I mean, their marriage hasn't even been for a whole month, has it? Obviously, she will not fall over him just like that, she needs her time to understand him better which, I think, is more than rational. I wasn't even that annoyed with their cat-mouse fights in the previous couple of episodes like many ThaHaan fans have gotten simply because I saw in those that they were subtly building up a base for them; making them familiar with each other's quirks etc...
I can't speak for the majority, but what annoys me with Thapki is her rashness to jump the blaming-train without thinking about it (well, actually, the track has to be blamed, I guess). Like, when Bihaan read that newspaper - Thapki came into the scene when he was already reading, how would he have known that she'd come there at this moment? And if he was deliberately reading like this, wouldn't Bauji have said something? Similar, in today's episode, when she brought that you-have-no-heart bhashan, again- it was his immature perception of love, nothing to do with Thapki. What was the need to comment? Albeit, Bihaan, too, at times does the accusing-game (although, a lot of the time, it looks like lashing out from his part) - but we do see slow changes in his behaviour and that not after he decided to play match-maker for Thapki and Dhruv. Like, when he shouted at her two episodes ago, he immediately felt bad and went to apologize. Or, when she refused to take his handkerchief, he was irritated but didn't become angry. Obviously, Thapki will have a harder time softening up to him but till now, I'm not seeing the slightest shift in her [and when there is one, she goes back to square one, immediately, like today].
These are the things which are annoying me, tbh. And they are repetitive, their dialogues and all. There are numerous other ways they can show Thapki distrusting Bihaan while still establishing a status quo between these two which would be natural between people living under the same roof, whether they like each other or not. Why always having them at each others throats? Why not letting Thapki remind him what she thought about him [being heartless] during a slip up where Dhruv is mentioned, for example? I'm not sure if I am bringing out what I want to say đ
Btw, yes, Thapki has to understand Bihaan before anything else- she hasn't seen him telling Diwakar off from further troubling her or how he had been beaten up while keeping her word, and neither did he tell her about it - if she doesn't see him doing something good, how will she start opening up? In this regard, I do like her hesitation towards Bihaan, avoiding his closeness, her refusing his help and all that. It's logical. If CVs would keep baseless blaming and repetitive dialogues (at least, change the sentences) out completely, it would be perfect. The only fear I have in regards to Thapki (and I do see signs for it) is that she'll be turned into an always-being-right mahaan-aatma - I prefer characters with flows hence, why I love Bihaan so much. I guess to lose that fear, I'll have to see their ideals clash - that would be an interesting track!
And I am rather enjoying the current track đł
Btw, TM, welcome đ
Edited by Amina-Zahra - 10 years ago
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