Bigg Boss 19-Daily Discussion Thread- 30th September, 2025
Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai Sept 30, 2025 Episode Discussion Thread
Trump's 100% tariff on Bollywood films
DADI AS BOOTH 1.10
What's next? (Multiple votes allowed)
Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai Oct 1, 2025 Episode Discussion Thread
Budget Single Digit : 7 cameo openings.
Swara Bhaskar..someone who dared to say it out loud #respect
My Box Office Prediction for Sunny Ki....jo bhi hai.
True Face of BIAS & NEPOTISM!
DO NOT REPLY: Current story summarized in 3 pics: ONLY PICS NO REPLIES
Bigg Boss 19: Daily Discussion Thread - 1st Oct '25
Which faces u r fed up of watching
👻 The Manuscript Marauders 👻 BookTalk Reading Challenge October 2025
What are the professional achievements of gabhira
Gen 5- Major Discussion Thread
Official Teaser - Tere Ishk Mein - Dhanush Kriti Sanon
Sonam Kapoor is in her family way ? (2nd baby)
The Literary Looters 💰 | Book Talk Reading Challenge October 2025
The Manuscript Marauders Bingo Challenge Thread
Originally posted by: Amina-Zahra
I do agree that Thapki needs time. I mean, their marriage hasn't even been for a whole month, has it? Obviously, she will not fall over him just like that, she needs her time to understand him better which, I think, is more than rational. I wasn't even that annoyed with their cat-mouse fights in the previous couple of episodes like many ThaHaan fans have gotten simply because I saw in those that they were subtly building up a base for them; making them familiar with each other's quirks etc...
I can't speak for the majority, but what annoys me with Thapki is her rashness to jump the blaming-train without thinking about it (well, actually, the track has to be blamed, I guess). Like, when Bihaan read that newspaper - Thapki came into the scene when he was already reading, how would he have known that she'd come there at this moment? And if he was deliberately reading like this, wouldn't Bauji have said something? Similar, in today's episode, when she brought that you-have-no-heart bhashan, again- it was his immature perception of love, nothing to do with Thapki. What was the need to comment? Albeit, Bihaan, too, at times does the accusing-game (although, a lot of the time, it looks like lashing out from his part) - but we do see slow changes in his behaviour and that not after he decided to play match-maker for Thapki and Dhruv. Like, when he shouted at her two episodes ago, he immediately felt bad and went to apologize. Or, when she refused to take his handkerchief, he was irritated but didn't become angry. Obviously, Thapki will have a harder time softening up to him but till now, I'm not seeing the slightest shift in her [and when there is one, she goes back to square one, immediately, like today].
These are the things which are annoying me, tbh. And they are repetitive, their dialogues and all. There are numerous other ways they can show Thapki distrusting Bihaan while still establishing a status quo between these two which would be natural between people living under the same roof, whether they like each other or not. Why always having them at each others throats? Why not letting Thapki remind him what she thought about him [being heartless] during a slip up where Dhruv is mentioned, for example? I'm not sure if I am bringing out what I want to say 😆
Btw, yes, Thapki has to understand Bihaan before anything else- she hasn't seen him telling Diwakar off from further troubling her or how he had been beaten up while keeping her word, and neither did he tell her about it - if she doesn't see him doing something good, how will she start opening up? In this regard, I do like her hesitation towards Bihaan, avoiding his closeness, her refusing his help and all that. It's logical. If CVs would keep baseless blaming and repetitive dialogues (at least, change the sentences) out completely, it would be perfect. The only fear I have in regards to Thapki (and I do see signs for it) is that she'll be turned into an always-being-right mahaan-aatma - I prefer characters with flows hence, why I love Bihaan so much. I guess to lose that fear, I'll have to see their ideals clash - that would be an interesting track!
And I am rather enjoying the current track 😳
Btw, TM, welcome 😉
Originally posted by: avyarima
Amina, remember all the history between Bihaan and Thapki even before marriage. It does not do good to his face in Thapki's eyes.
In fact, even after marriage, he does bad things with with good intentions. We all know that Thapki will not see the good in him until she finally get some insight about his heart. It seems that Bihaan is trying hard to hide his real self from everyone.
I still think its to early for her to see or feel any good about Bihaan. And its only realistic to blame him for every thing.
By the way, I love Bihaan's character. it is perfect the way it is; moreover, the only thing I am missing from Druv-thapki's relationship is the background music...(seriously craving for that song ...lol). I love Bihaan with Thapki because there is a story to tell. Plus, they look great together.
But i dont want Thapki and Druv bashed for anything.
Originally posted by: Amina-Zahra
I guess we are all a little impatient, and since as viewers we do know what's going on with Bihaan, we expect Thapki to see him the way we do. Which she obviously won't do just like that, and she has solid reasons for that. The newspaper scene was actually the only one that really ticked me off in regards to Thapki, all the rest not so much since even Bihaan blames her for things she had not done. Tit for tat 😆The other problem I mentioned are the repetitive dialogues. I mean, most of the time, even the wording is exactly the same! It's alright when you hear it twice or thrice, but not again and again as it does tend to annoy viewers - that's a lack in efforts by the CVs, though. Or they think it's good to stress a point beyond stressing (just change the wording and it'd be more interesting)...I am enjoying how they are developing the Bihaan-Thapki relationship, it looks very natural, and I do like Thapki a lot although, she has some obvious flaws which could turn into the not-so-good kind of flaws if CVs don't handle it properly - I want her to be somewhat (at least) different from the typical Indian TV heroine.Does anyone actually bash Thapki? 😕 I know many are frustrated with her, though. As for Dhruv, natural fan-reaction to the current plot- not that that's an excuse if there's bashing. The lines between criticising, expressing your opinions and bashing are not always too clear for many people - but I agree that it shouldn't be done especially since these characters have fans loving them (and that includes Bihaan as he, too, has been in the cross-fire, some using rather offensive language for him). We should refrain from hurting other fans 😳 Personally, I'm not a Dhruv-fan but I understand where he is coming from (whether I like it or not) and that he needs time as you can't just switch off loving someone. Same I try to understand everyone.And yes, I noticed from your last post that you like Bihaan 😳 He is one character that stands out 😆 Btw, nice posts! I like how you express your opinion - it's nice reading it! 😊