Discussion Forum: Is being a dark-skinned girl really a big sin?

Your Post is sweet and thoughtful 😊 ..I find a darker,wheatish or tan complexion more attractive than fairer ones!..imo makeup sets really well on that skin tone rather than fairer ones :)...But yes people r of this opinion that a girl should be fair 🥱 🤔 ..

But its definitely not a Sin..Almighty has made everyone beautifully..Be it fair or dark..One should be proud of what she/he had and Ignore the rest 😎

its not sin but sadly many people still exist who does not treat dark skinned girl well. many men want to marry pretty tall fair girls. so girls want to marry handsome rich tall boys. sadly ppl dont consider personality. most ppl do this including me. it will take a long time to change. and indian tv show makers should not make mockery of such sensitive social issue in name of social message coz they actually care for trp not message. shows like Balika Badhu Diya Bati Udan sometimes goes so disgusting. they actually dont show the message and how it can be changed. rather they drags the issue forever in disgusting way always showing evil winning. i remember there was a show on zeetv afsar batiya. on this topic. i heard they did good and ended the show rather dragging it.

even iam honey colour not too fair in complextion nor too dark iam in middle range real beauty does not lies in ones complextion it lies in ones personality and pure heart it will reflect back to ur face let others comment never mind they cannot distinguish actual beauty we should hold on to our self respect i wonn't marry to the family were they donn't treat me with respect and not moke at me

People think that girls must be fair , beautiful , have perfect body , perfect legs and all , if they want this all then they must go and buy Barbie.


Or give us a guy who is like zayn Malik.


People expect a lot. Everyone is beautiful in their own way.

And people who differentiate between white and black or dark color are such racist.

I'm a fair person that doesn't mean I would treat others badly? I don't. I hated the way Haseena used to treat nikhat , check her color , give her fair and lovely and all.

it definitely is sin. I am always compared with in my family and their friends. sometimes I do feel suffocated but then I tell they don't know me n I am better than them. I can't have such bizarre mind and thought. I happy for what I am right now

Originally posted by: Joavssk9

it definitely is sin. I am always compared with in my family and their friends. sometimes I do feel suffocated but then I tell they don't know me n I am better than them. I can't have such bizarre mind and thought. I happy for what I am right now

then ignore them whoever compare you and can not appreciate your real beauty.

In the socity we live,yes its a sin.i m dark skintoned girl.in school,colleges,tutions infact among relatives i listen thr talks.we live separately bt in a colony,so onetime in a month we get togethr with relatives,uncle aunty,mausi mausa,dadi,bua evrybody.&till nw i hv 2 listen thr talks.in evry get togethr koi na koi to mujhe kehtei hai i shud do ths,do tht,use tht product,use ths,eat ths,eat tht.i m little plumpy also...so smbody said with dark skintone,little faty i cudnt get marreid.infact mai modern drs,jeans,indo western drs pehenti hu isme vi sabko prob hai.thnks 2 my mom & papa who suport me & hv no issue with it.i dnt knw evry time i said myslf jst ignr it,bt i cnt.evry time i end up crying.its very difficult to cope up with ths bcz nt only frndz,relatives also said smthng.smtime in all ths my mom bcm very frustratd & said me why i dnt tk cr of myslf.i blng in a middle class family.&mere studies k kharche k baad its nt possible aap altime parlour me baitho.firvi jitna mai kar sakti hu main karti hu.only my papa undrstnd me very well,may b in anger mom say snthng harshly bt papa,he always support me.
So yet being educatd,modern 21st century girl i still say jis socity me hum rehte hai,its sin.
I realy wish mere kismat me jo vi ho,wo mujhe dekhe,samjhe...naki aisa ho.

Great topic.