I am relaxed because

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I am relaxed beacuse Anandi knows that how Nandini looks now.

I am relaxed now that Mangala has taken away Nandini with her which means she does not care for Kamli or Pushkar really. And I thought her love was universal. She does not even love Nandini really. She loves to fulfil her own desire of keeping Nandini with her forever. Her priority is not Nandini but keeping Nandini with herself. I used to give her some benefit of doubt. I am relaxed because she cleared my misconceptions about her.

I am relaxed that Anandi can cry and show emotions atlast. And how did she think that Nandini is not molested when she knew that Nandini had become a child bride? Did that thought never cross her?

I am relaxed because Kundan is sleeping in goshala with the cows. Where is his friend now? Hiding?

I am relaxed because I saw Pushkar atlast.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Mangala has become insecure now, and so badly driven by her own maternal emotions.
Well, if she truly loved Nimboli, she would have been thrilled to know that Nimboli belongs to such a noble, educated and cultured mother. And where will she run away taking Nimboili?
Akhiraj, Harki or Kundan's tortures on Nandini couldn't make Mangala run away from Jhalra but mere realization of Anandi being Nimboli's mother has robbed her of all sanity.
I think Nandini wouldn't go by what Mangala tells her.
She will make her own decision about her mother.

Anandi and Jagya were simply fantastic yesterday !



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Mangala never cared for Urmi Kamili the same way she cared about Nandini.
Kamili and Urmi are more like pawns to settle scores against Akheraj and Harki.

What bounded them together is their common enemy Akheraj and family. Now Akheraj Kundan Harki are powerless against them so nothing can keep them together.

Urmi thankfully will have her parents support. Kamili can take care of herself in a much better way without her Teesa's wisdome which only served to clip her wings.

Nandini has a mind of her own if people call her stupid foolish retard etc. She will make up her own mind.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I gave Mangala a lot of benefit of doubt thinking that the poor lady has nothing in life other than loving the child. But her running away has changed my thoughts about her. She's not the poor Mangala any more. But she has become a kidnapper now. Running away with someone else's child is called kidnapping and especially when intentions are not honourable.

She didn't care about Kamli or anyone else. Or even about what will happen when they get caught. I think right now Mangala has turned a psycho and her love for Nimboli has become an obsession.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think side characters surprise us more.

I never thought crybaby Kamli will become so defiant, though shortlived.

I never thought drama queen Urmi will turn out into a nice human being inspite of her mother constantly drilling her against Nimboli.

About Mangala, I was apprehensive in the beginning, then loved her for a while, then started doubting her intentions and now feel nothing for her.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Mangala's Devi act and her using that act to get herself splashed with Holi colors in the scene whwre the character was introduced has put me off her.
It's not her desire to get splashed with colors that was a put off but the method she chose to do that.

To the world around her she was not aware of what she is doing at that time when Devi was around but she knew very well.

This fooling people around her and at the same time letting her image as a widow who follows the norms of the society intact was a major put off for me.

That actually was the key to mystery called Mangala as for as I am concerned.

Everything looked on surface like good acts but underneath that it looked like she did everything to fulfill her wishes.

I may be called biased but that is how the character came across for me.

They did intend to juxta pose this character with that of Anandi.

Because of Mangala I started liking Anandi even more.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Initially, I though Mangala is psycho - but as the story progressed - I saw the beauty of that character. And then came the relentless maligning of this character by some people in forum. This only made me sympathetic to this character. I tried to measure Anandi (whom I loved so far) with the same yardstick that was used for Mangala - and I found that Anandi fared no better than Mangala. I discovered how I gave credit to Anandi for many things that was actually done by some other character - like stopping Phooli's marriage. Perhaps some day - I will prepare a table of similar incidents to compare Mangala with Anandi...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: SPuja

Initially, I though Mangala is psycho - but as the story progressed - I saw the beauty of that character. And then came the relentless maligning of this character by some people in forum. This only made me sympathetic to this character. I tried to measure Anandi (whom I loved so far) with the same yardstick that was used for Mangala - and I found that Anandi fared no better than Mangala. I discovered how I gave credit to Anandi for many things that was actually done by some other character - like stopping Phooli's marriage. Perhaps some day - I will prepare a table of similar incidents to compare Mangala with Anandi...

same here. i used 2 like Aji's ckt but constant unwanted comparison & unwanted credit given 2 Aji 4 oder's works & putting down of oder ckts 2 show her great both by CV & forum members made me see the things in same perspective wid which i used 2 see Aji & i started dislike her & eventually hate her.wen i applied that same yardstick 4 Aji's work i also din't find her better than any oder ckt except -ves ckts.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: SPuja

Initially, I though Mangala is psycho - but as the story progressed - I saw the beauty of that character. And then came the relentless maligning of this character by some people in forum. This only made me sympathetic to this character. I tried to measure Anandi (whom I loved so far) with the same yardstick that was used for Mangala - and I found that Anandi fared no better than Mangala. I discovered how I gave credit to Anandi for many things that was actually done by some other character - like stopping Phooli's marriage. Perhaps some day - I will prepare a table of similar incidents to compare Mangala with Anandi...


I always had mixed thoughts about her but still gave her the benefit of doubt. Why should you compare someone to someone else ? For me compare or not I would like a character based on the characters actions.

Mangala loved the child and tried her best to safeguard her as much as she could. So in spite of her grey shades she still had positivity in her. But right now that same positive factor has gone too far to an extreme making it negative.

I felt sympathy for her a lot too. A widow whose husband is killed by his brother and the brother is lustful after her. She has to think of an alternative to save herself and there's nothing wrong with that. The holi incident wasn't needed but still it's okay because she's a human being and has her own feelings which she may want to express. But I don't like what she's currently doing with Nimboli. She is ready to go lengths to keep Nimboli with her but her determination to seek revenge with Akhiraj is not as strong as this desire. She has a lot of scores to settle with Akhiraj but she still managed to live in the same house. Why she didn't run away with Nimboli then? Kundan molested Nimboli and Akhiraj supported the son and even police didn't punish him. Why didn't she run away with Nimboli then?


So that means it's not Nimboli and her safety that greatly bothers her but just the fact that Nimboli shouldn't get separated from her. Which means she only cares of her own selfish feelings and not about nimboli. That's a negative character.

Anandi has her own plus or minus points but that can't be compared to Mangala. It's not like for like comparison.



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Posted: 10 years ago
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so wat if she wants N wid her & going thru any length?? after all she cared her & luved her & also saved her many times wid in her limited resources & limits. just bcoz shes not biological mother her rites as whether as foster mother or just a gaurdian r no less than Aji.
and many mothers go 2 any length get wid their kids.
i'd seen a biological mother who cudn't live wid out her son so family called him back tho the son was in gud school but in hostel. that boy was my classmate but just after 2 months he went back.so that means hat mother is -ve bcoz she din't think abt son who was happy in the school & she only think abt her feelings??strange logic. or just bcoz Mn is not biological mother so very action or her 2 live wid her foster daughter makes her -ve!!😲

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