24.9.15- 3 idiots in Surrogacy land, Ishu bombarded in police station

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gravshrav23

@gravshrav23

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Posted: 10 years ago

Till yesterday, it was simply disgusting and unimaginable to believe Raman was ACTUALLY making the surrogacy thing happen...Yesterday I was disgusted, outraged...but today, the way he spoke to Laxmi...the gentle way in which he tried to get to know her...her likes and dislikes..choices...family history, genetic traits/problems etc...actually made me emotional. Not in a gooey, starstruck way, thinking how lucky Ishita was to have him in her life...but in a bleeding, painful sort of way..😭 In a way that makes me wish he didn't go through this thing AT ALL.

Heck! I still am annoyed with what he's doing...but am more weary today...sighing, wondering why he's ruining his own little happy world with his own hands😭It makes twists my heart to think KP has been given such wonderful lines...and the nuanced way in which he portrayed his uncertainty, relief, gratitude, joy, excitement all rolled into that one scene...its a sheer waste to be giving him the liberty to play such shades backed by a horrible plot. Oh! How I kept wishing - How WONDERFUL it would've been, had Ishita CONSENTED to it (of her own volition and not because Raman gave his pyaar ka vaasta or something😕)...then we could ALL have prolly joined in and celebrated his good fortune. I would still want Ishita to be preggers and not have surrogacy as an option AT ALL, but I am just trying to compare and figure out the least of unpalatable situations...😲

Yahan toh it seemed he is positively bouncing on his heels, thinking he's going to be gifting Ishita the thing she has always wanted the most. But doesn't it miss HIS WHOLE POINT? The point of Biwi experiencing motherhood? Biwi getting to know how it FEELS like...What the hell happened to THAT reasoning???

Oh well! Raman was hardly able to contain his feelings, his tears flowing freely...he hugged Manoj...thanked Shagun...but what's up with Shagun and Manoj???😡 Its like Shagun has become a permanent fixture in his life😡 It was DOWNRIGHT ANNOYING to hear that lady Laxmi sing Shagun's praises, so pissing off to hear Manoj dropping Shagun's name in a conversation at the slightest opportunity... 'Yeh sab Shagun ki wajah se hua hai" yada yada...it seemed like everybody around wanted to set up Shagun's resume to look sparkling shiny and spotless to qualify her for a pre-emptive parole or something...😕

This whole Trimurti Natak of the trio is bugging me no end😡

Manoj should be sued and his license ripped off never to be given again😡 He is not the LEAST bit concerned he is actually violating 50 or so medical rules? Not to mention its unethical?? He was busy gloating over HOW Raman managed to get Ishita's signatures? Either he is a callous idiot...or a fake, who has a clear cut motive for rushing into the surrogacy..cant think of any other reason🥱

I am so so disappointed at so so many levels...

On one hand, we have Raman who is barging smack into this surrogacy thing, without sparing a single thought about his wife's reaction when she would get to know the truth.

On the other hand, we have Ishita...who..I dunno for WHAT EFFING REASON advised Rinky to leave for Dehradun that very night. Pray, WHY would you do that?? IF CCTV of Ishita's clinic is hard evidence to go by, then it means they were conversing at around 9.30 at night...at that time you tell a girl to flee to Dehradun without informing any of her family members??? What kinda dumb solution is that?? Especially, since its a city like Delhi...ANYTHING could've happened..anything...its not necessary only a blackmailer should harrass her.

This is what happens when you trust yourself too much and take big decisions without consulting equally or possibly more intelligent people than you😲YOU MAKE BLUNDERS...On top of that, Ishita apparently sent a message to Rinky, which said :Tumne mujhse jhooth kaha...iska anjaam accha nai hoga.

When you read it and try to see how it fits in the present context, it really DOES sound ominous. And yes, if Ishita would have continued to keep quiet, the case could've gone against her...naturally...coz she WAS the last person to have seen/talked to Rinky..I wonder where IS she? With that lover of hers, eh??

On the hindsight, I was wondering...usually CVs make it seem like the police and legal system are iron chunks around our neck...and we can never extricate ourselves from their clutches...and that people working in these two arenas dont really care how fast justice moves its ass...I was laughing actually...ALL the villains in this show landed in jail for a night or two...after a change in settings and air, they would come right back to their plush sofas and LEDs...and do masti...chugalkhori..hatch kidnapping and murder plans and YET the police moves at snail's pace when it comes to nabbing THOSE morons. When it comes to people like Raman and Ishita, suddenly, police ki ankhon mein mirchi lagti hai...and they get vigilant and take their work very seriously...⭐️ I admire ACP's urgency to deal with this matter right away...but then he has conveniently pushed Ashok's case to the backburner...bhaad mein jaaye evidence...who cares? He will get caught for half a day...come out grinning from ear to ear and blog about his experience or something🤔

Nevertheless, I liked that ACP was tough with Ishita...I must say, Vivek looks DAMN GOOD!😉👏 While he was right on his part to question her relentlessly, I think Ishita too, was right on her part...no matter what, Rinky's confession was something she hadn't even shared with Raman...toh woh turant jaake Abhishek ko kaise batati...sirf police wala hota toh shayad bata bhi deti...but now ACP's family too naa..he might judge Rinky...and why not? This bimbo has gone and earned such "accolades" we cant help but be disgusted with her😡

But then when Rinky's Dhdn friend, Nikki, informed her Rinky hadn't come, and they hadn't spoken for ages... Ishita started panicking...I hope this serves as a lesson for her...NEVER to meddle in places you cannot find a way out of or cannot actually solve. But well, I guess am hoping for too much🥱 DEHRADUN? Like really? Ishita ne pee li tha yeh advice dete time???

Ishita FINALLY shared the info with him..Rinky is having an extramarital affair with someone...poor Raman...he just doesn't know why Mihir has such horrid luck with women and how it transpires to HIS life...since he too is directly/indirectly related to them...

The best part of the episode today was Suraj mocking Ashok's plans...and asking him to focus on his work instead...I dont understand...HOW does Ashok manage to RUN his business like a BUSINESS? I mean, 15 out of 24 hours he is busy spying on Bhalla family...either personally or thru his chamchas...and aisi bhi kya pahunch hai uski ki uske chamche police station mein baithke SAARI KHABAR use relay kar dete hain...but khud pakde nai jaate...I mean, its not like P.S. people will welcome you with garlands if you tell them, "Hum FIR thodi na likhwane aaya hun..hum to chugalkhori karne aaya hun. Paan chabaiike, baatein sunke nautanki dekhke nikal jayenge hum" Like really...OBSCENE connections Ashok has!😕 Just PREPOSTEROUS

P.S. Am I the only one who thinks AbhiKa lacked spark today?

P.S. Hated the nostalgia washing over...and bharat milaap between ShaRam...what's with all those tears? And gratitude? And so much bonding baba?? I just hate the way these three are taking themselves to be The Three Musketeers😡 Three Idiots they are!

PRECAP - I might end up STRANGLING Manoj...ALL he has done this last one month is, keep asking patients to take hundred and thousand tests...and YET they turn up with complications...it seems even after conducting the smallest of tests, s

Laxmi has been diagnosed with Type II diabetes. Wow. Awesome.😡 I hardly care...I dont want this surrogacy shit AT ALL. But since CVs seem HELL-BENT on continuing with this, its uncannily manipulative of the CVs to try and justify Shagun being a surrogate mother in the end😡 JUST CANT DIGEST THIS😡

And anyway, the kind of incompetent doctor Manoj is, which person watching this show will ever fully, sincerely trust a doctor in his life again?Plain insult to the medical profession...after butchering legal, police system, mothers, fathers, everything under the damn sun😡😡😡

She will declare that all the women have some prob or the other...she cant really trust anyone..and that SHE will be the surrogate mother. And then Ashok, who's sitting on his ass all this while waiting with his "trump card" (The CD) will mail it to Ishita...and/or ACP...Ishita will think its prolly ShaRam's baby...which is why Raman is insisting so much on this new baby...and ACP will think that Raman may have tried to do away with Rinky since she'd got an inkling of his AFFAIR with Shagun...but not even ONE soul in this show will put their pea-sized brains to use and figure out...WHY a sister enjoying her extramarital affair will wanna question her bro regarding the same shit she's doing...this horrid, vicious, mindboggling cycle with go on and on till our brain cells are depleted...HATE THIS. Just hate this.😔😡

Edited by gravity23 - 10 years ago

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Maya

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Posted: 10 years ago

Hi Akanksha,

I was waiting for your review so that I could laugh but man there is nothing snarky anyone today which would elicit a laugh.

Nice review though for a crappy episode

What the hell they have done to Raman now he is thanking Shagun for her involvement when Ishita should be involved in this process😡

They did so many test and could not figure out the simplest test that she has diabetes I wish all the doctors get together and sue YHM for defaming their profession

Manoj knows that Ishita did not sign the consent form willingly and how can he go ahead with the procedure.

KP acting was good on the scene when he was talking to Lakshmi. I could see only KP there Raman was not anywhere to be found today.

I was not happy with Raman today at all more or less I was thinking what the hell is happening here and why cannot Shanoj leave IshRa alone.

Rinki life became a mess when Toshjii pushed her into marriage when she was not willingly and Ishita send her away made a even greater mess I hope she is not dead but the bullet hit her and she is some where alive in a remote hospital unconscious I want her to repent her sins not just become dead and you are forgiven.

ACP acting was good. I think they are trying to pair MiMi again so that is why the spark is not there.

I wish they would have paired MiMi before Rinki marriage I just want to see Abhika now.

on the whole yhm is going down the drain and one by one we are leaving the ship

A weird thought came into my mind right now what if this Surrogacy track is a recycle of the Accident track there too Raman was behaving weird praising Shagun, giving her credit, royally keeping Ishita in the dark, spending time with Shagun at the end of the track though the whole truth came out and IshRa relationship got stronger but at that time we were able to relate to Raman even though he was hiding stuff from Ishita he was feeling guilty so we are able to take it.

I think in this track we cannot digest Raman because he is not feeling an ounce of guilt for what he is doing but rather very happy in what he is doing and I am hoping like the accident track to and the end of it there is no surrogacy.

May be I am delusional but I am not liking the way they are butchering IshRA

What do you think?

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-Atii-

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Posted: 10 years ago

i'm literally so close to giving up..

nice review, Aka!! 😃😃

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Nidoo

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Posted: 10 years ago

Haven't read the review as of now. Will read soon 😳 But from what I saw today, here's my take.

I get Raman's longing to give her their child. His emotions were so out in the open today, when he had happy tears and hugged that unknown old lady. And I love KP for melting some of my anger towards Raman, for his portrayal was touching.

But I absolutely cannot fathom his need of hiding such a big truth of their life from her. I cannot get past how he got her signatures.

The sad part is not that he's opting for surrogacy behind her back (it is obviously appalling), the sad, sadder, saddest part is that he does not even think or realize that he is in the slightest bit wrong. During the accident track or child-swap, he felt guilty of hiding things from her. Here, he is taking the biggest decision of their lives, without her consent, based on his own assumptions, and expecting her to be just as happy about it as he is. I mean does the mother have no say in bringing about her baby to life? Does he really think she's going to be ecstatic about this?

This is violation of basic human rights as a woman, and so thinking about Ishita and her plight, I cannot feel for Raman the way I should.

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SA1234

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Posted: 10 years ago

Aka...as much as I looove reading ur reviews and always look forward to it...I don't think u should be wasting ur time on this show. I like the point that u made about KP. I really do feel for him...such brilliance wasted away..all thanks to the shoddy script.

BTW if u haven't read the latest spoiler..let me tell you..apparently Mihika is the one who accidentally fires a shot at Rinki..the family is at some Mela and Mihika was supposed to be shooting one of those toy guns..but someone has replaced the toy gun with a real one and off goes Rinki. Don't ask.me the how's and why's please..CVs or unke logic..bas woh hi jaane..

So sorry..couldn't comment on yesterday's review..but it was one.of ur best reviews so far...gave me that much needed comic relief .

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Mdwst

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Posted: 10 years ago

Hi aka,

Good review, I'm still hopeful that surrogacy will not happen.

I liked acp today he was fab. Finally ishita confided in Raman about rinki.

Raman going behind Ishu's back for surrogacy irks me, that too with his ex, don't know where this will lead, with regard to their relationship. Raman wants to give/ see ishu happy, but the path he chose was very wrong. As you said they gave gold mine of talents , it's sad to see their talent being wasted.

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Ramyalaxmi

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Posted: 10 years ago

@gravity 23: Nice review. I skipped the episode as its totally unbearable but intended to read your review.
Raman was asked to thank selfless well-wisher of human race by the world's leading fertility specialist. 👏 (only this was missing so far in YHM)
Ishita asked Rinky to go to dehradun, is not vandu already there for some conference?

Anyways suraj part seems to be good.

Continue your good work (I know your pain 😉) and keep us updated 😆. Thank u

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Shilpaaaaaaa

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Posted: 10 years ago

Kaash ishita would get that cd and then ishra confrontation then raman would not meet shagun in life

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sunitas123

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Posted: 10 years ago

Hi Aka. Cant believe you are still reviewing. What has the show come down to?

I just hate the fact that now it is all about Shagun and Raman is going around her and cheating on ishita by hiding stuff from her in which her decision is the most important!

Form what we know Shagun had complications during Ruhi so she cant be the candidate for surrogacy. But with CVs never know, their love for Shagun and their mockery of medical science anything is possible.

With this useless drama trp is up, so they will continue with this sh8t.

Frankly I dont care about Ishra anymore. I was looking fwd to their romance but here we just have stupid plots where villans can do whatever and ACP has no time for them, while Ishita and Raman will be caught for silly stuff... and worse Raman is constantly howering around Shagun and sharing secrets with her, while he claims to love Ishita!

Now they can do anything I hardly care. I watch when I can and can no longer relate to ishra... their relationship like YHM is going down the drain😡