Relationships

There have been soo many topics bashing all the characters and actors etc. but today's episode brought up some other points too and I wanted your inputs on this.
So, obviously there are many diff. customs for marriages. For example, hindus take saath phere to represent ages long of togetherness. Christians and others walk down an aisle, take vows, and kiss etc. etc.
So what do you think actually binds people together. Kasturi was saying that the mangalsutra represents blah blah, but what does a mangalsutra mean to a christian or muslim. What does a kiss and ring mean to a hindu. According to me, nothing. So what do you think is the real basis of love and marriage. What binds people together. What is the most essential thing in a marriage? Can two people love each other yet not be able to sustain a marriage? Most importantly, what does marriage mean to you?
P.S. hope my questions make sense

hi there ! u asked what is marriage, its true that a piece of paper , a ring or a mangulsuter is sign of commitment but the main thing in marriage is trust ,honesty,love the reason i put them in this order is that i belive that u have to have trust in your spouse if u r 2 spend your life together,secondly honesty you have 2 b honest with one another and finally love. i dont really belive in love at first sight because its not luv its attraction which is confussed with luv, luv is very important part of a marriage and that happens when u deeply care for one another,yeh aisa rishta hai jo aap dono ko samjnah aur nibhana parta hai .

same here i agree with flower
love diesn't happen at first sight that is just called
attraction but love is something very stronger then that
it is not a bf gf stuff like you change it everyday 😕 😆 😆 it stays with you all along your life
i know that RaKa jodi has trust in it but i am still with
RoKa because my robbie has cry a lot and i an't leave him in this condition
kasturi deserves a lot pain 😡 😡

@ flowertot and ramsha: thanks for your replies

Originally posted by: ramsha247

same here i agree with flower
love diesn't happen at first sight that is just called
attraction but love is something very stronger then that
it is not a bf gf stuff like you change it everyday 😕 😆 😆 it stays with you all along your life
i know that RaKa jodi has trust in it but i am still with
RoKa because my robbie has cry a lot and i an't leave him in this condition
kasturi deserves a lot pain 😡 😡

sweetie on one hand ur agreeing wid flower and on the other u're saying u're still wid roka😕 sadly Roka has neither the trust or honesty in their relationship The only thing they ever had was infactuation or attraction as you say it and robbie sustains that to this day

In my p.o.v real love starts AFTER marriage😳 whatever happens before marriage is all part of infactuation😳

@Jk i agree with you. I think a marriage can sustain without love but without understanding and maturity there would be no future. And as time progresses love surely develops. Also, a true love would want to see their partner happy with or without his/her presence

Originally posted by: JK_5

sweetie on one hand ur agreeing wid flower and on the other u're saying u're still wid roka😕 sadly Roka has neither the trust or honesty in their relationship The only thing they ever had was infactuation or attraction as you say it and robbie sustains that to this day

In my p.o.v real love starts AFTER marriage😳 whatever happens before marriage is all part of infactuation😳

aww u put tht so nicely and i agree with u 100 %

I don't think there is only one element that binds two people together in a relationship, it's combination of many aspects..First of all, trust which carries honesty with it...Second, comfort, two people feel comfortable enough to share anything with their partner and thirdly love, which gives two people a reason to be together, which brings joy, togetherness and passion into a relationship..Love is the emotion that binds two hearts together, trust and honesty is the element that binds a relationship together and comfort/understanding is the support element..

Lastly, in a relationship you be able to feel/share almost every emotion with your partner, most important - love, anger/fights, jealousy, attraction, passion, tears..etc You come together because you want to, not because of anything else/any situation/any person...

Yes two people can love each other and not able to stop their marriage from breaking a part, it happens many times in real life, and that's why we have divorces...It doesn't mean they don't love each other, it just means they failed in their relationship...Also, at the same time, two people who don't love each other, may have equal chances of drifting apart, they may fall in love with other people outside their marriage and that also happens in real life...Also, there are people who marry out of convience, and sometimes those could be the most horrible choices you make,,,

JK: If you think all Roka had was a mere infatuation, then why do you feel bad for Kasturi, when Robbie didn't trust her? And when he humiliated her? If what Robbie has is just infatuation, then he wouldn't be in such emotional turmoil, agony and pain, he would the very famous, carefree rockstar that he was, and happier..Also, the way the story has been portrayed so far, it clearly depicts the love Roka shared...So what if their relationship didn't succeed, love doesn't need to pass a test to be proven...

Also RaKa don't share much honesty either, because Kasturi hid her job from Raunak, and hasn't told him yet, unless I missed something...Also, in a relationship you've got to talk things out, at first I used to say this to Robbie-Kasturi and this time I say it for Raunak-Kasturi...

But interesting post skyblu, enjoyed answering to this post!!😛

PS: Will get to your pm soon!😛

Keep smiling...

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Soni

hey soni, thanks for answering the questions, glad you had fun 😊