Why is Sanskar better for Swara - My opinion

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Why are we expecting redemption for Lakshya?

Why should a woman forgive a man who never trusted and respected her? Who considered her capable of running from the wedding venue and who did not even show the decency to wait for her and hear her side of the story before getting hitched to his 'friend'?

Yes, Sanskar also did a lot of wrong things to Swara but there is a basic difference here - Sanskar hurt a third part to avenge someone he loved, Lakshya hurt the person he loved after being poisoned by a third party.

We can say that lakshya's character was destroyed by the CVs but again the true strength or weakness of a person comes out when he faces adversity. Lakshya had never faced real adversity till then in his life so was all goody good. The first tough test came he fell flat on his face.

This is where Sanskar shone- he was broken by his pain, stooped low to take revenge but corrected himself in time - realised that he was hurting someone innocent. Instead of asking for support he himself became a pillar of support for Swara.

Laskhya is so wallowing in self pity that he doesnot even seem to realise that he is hurting the person he loves.

Lastly Sanskar is shown intelligent and Lakshya gullible. So in my opinion Sanskar is much more a 'man' than Lakshya and therefore an infinitely better choice for Swara.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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From your post, it does not feel like you have watched the show from the beginning.

1. Laksh has believed and supported Swara multiple times before - during none of the occasions did swara bother to take him into confidence or confided to him what she thinks.
2. Swara never told laksh she loves him openly.
3. Ragini has purposefully created a lot of misunderstanding in laksh mind that swara does not love him and all the time he refused to believe ragini. This plus the fact mentioned in point 2 is the root cause for laksh loosing it on the wedding day.
Everybody so easily says- laksh should have trusted Swara . Yes he should have - and to all those ladies taking this moral high standard - should Swara have told and taken Laksh to her confidence that she loves him . Why so much double standard!!
Coming to Sanskaar - He is the one who did a lot of harm to Swara from drugs to misunderstanding with laksh to list few and just because he saved Swara from the dayan - he is redeemed . Wah! kya baat hai.
And I see a lot of people going ga ga over Sanskar standing by Swara - so he is more apt for Swara. He is standing by swara because of his guilt - he is AWARE of all the truth while LAKSH is not. Now THAT is NOT a fair comparison NOR a signal that Sansakaar is standing by swara in thick and thin!!
SWARSAN for me is unacceptable for the above reason and I feel CVs have fooled a lot of new folks into supporting Swarsan - reminds me of the phase "fickle minded mob" by Shakespeare!!! Hve to say Hats off to CVs
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@TM - Laksh character assassination is all to make Sanskaar the better partner. There was a time Laksh stood by Swara. Sadly cvs only care about the twists for trp and not character growth and story progression. So don't be surprised that in the future cvs might decide to ruin Sanskaars character to suit their story line.
@anewfan - I understand. However never found Laksh compatible for Swara. I was never convinced over the pair and actually stopped watching coz I lost interest. Having not seen Sanskaar do the evil on Swara... drugs and all. I find it easy to accept him. CVS have also created the characters as such. However deep down I am hoping that all along Ragini is following Sanskaar's instructions and that we get to see the real face of Sanskaar after his marriage to Swara (real this time.) I want Swara to expose his real face and realise that he is the master mind and has played them all. I would love to see how she would fix him up.
Edited by angelpureness - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sanskar is best life partner for Swara coz they share best chemistry..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Agree...
Whatever explanation is given for defending lakshya, is not enough to prove his part.
True love will never allow to distrust our partner, and if it does, that is not true love.
True love never hurts your partner in any adverse situation.
Lashya too had a badtime, when even his father or any of his family members were not willing to trust him, but swara did, and proved his innocence.
But when lakshya got a chance to reciprocate, he simply dejected her.
Is that true love?
True love doesnot need confession, it can be understood from simple jestures.
One need not cry aloud to show that he/she loves somebody.
True love paves way to trust, and any adverse situation we will protect our love. True love doesnt need a proof to show the truth of our partner

I follows this show from beginning, though not as a regular follower..
What i felt is Lakshy's feeling was just an infactuation.
And so far he got all that he wished in his life.
Swara ws also such athing for him..
I cant support him saying that he truely loved her. If it was so, we can't torture them, even if they are standing with our opponents.
Whole through yesterdays's episode, lakshya had been torturing her by words.
And the thing lakshya supported her many times, that are the things even our friends will do for us(i have such friends).
Actions of Lakshya cant be supported, even after Ragini blurts her truth, why he is again troubling Swara?
Why he is not even feeling sorry when he sees her tears??
Edited by Shreeswathy - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I really dont understand the comparison between laksh nd sanskaar...no meed of that...aur jahan tak baat trust nd support ki h...thrn in swara's sangeet when she got druged in front of whole society it was only laksh who trusted nd supported her each nd every words...nd on marriage day swara's video came to him from swara's phone...how can a normal person even imagine in that situation of this may ve a trick or trap...nd ya ofcourse after his marrige swara came to maheshwari house nd said "tumhe mera video to mila hi hoga na kya tum ni janti maine shaadi kyu ni ki" or something like that...any normal person in that circumstance will be heart broken n hate her...so i dont think there should be comparison of trust of sanskaar nd laksh...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shreeswathy

Agree...
Whatever explanation is given for defending lakshya, is not enough to prove his part.
True love will never allow to distrust our partner, and if it does, that is not true love.
True love never hurts your partner in any adverse situation.
Lashya too had a badtime, when even his father or any of his family members were not willing to trust him, but swara did, and proved his innocence.
But when lakshya got a chance to reciprocate, he simply dejected her.
Is that true love?
True love doesnot need confession, it can be understood from simple jestures.
One need not cry aloud to show that he/she loves somebody.
True love paves way to trust, and any adverse situation we will protect our love. True love doesnt need a proof to show the truth of our partner

I follows this show from beginning, though not as a regular follower..
What i felt is Lakshy's feeling was just an infactuation.
And so far he got all that he wished in his life.
Swara ws also such athing for him..
I cant support him saying that he truely loved her. If it was so, we can't torture them, even if they are standing with our opponents.
Whole through yesterdays's episode, lakshya had been torturing her by words.
And the thing lakshya supported her many times, that are the things even our friends will do for us(i have such friends).
Actions of Lakshya cant be supported, even after Ragini blurts her truth, why he is again troubling Swara?
Why he is not even feeling sorry when he sees her tears??

Shekhar too did the same even though more than laksh ...why sharmistha and swara are giving him second chance and dear its the TV world nothing can goes with logic.
All is over between swalak but can't say sanskaar is much more better
If sanskaar would do the same in future then urs views will be the same ?
I have seen in do many shows ,even so many MUs created between the leads and they also go through the same phase as swalak are going through but still they got together at ends
It's not about who is better or who us not
Rite now everything is in favour of sanskaar that's why people only finding flaws in laksh
If they can redeemed sanskaar then sure they may unite swalak by finding sum loopholes
But I already lost the hopes
Seriously ,I really find so bad wen people only commenting on laksh bcos of current circumstances
It's all cv's fault to first showed swalak as best couple and now turning all against them


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Posted: 9 years ago
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koi bhi character hamesha ke liye perfect nahi hota except main female lead..but the point is does the jodi have that kinda chemistry which make viewers forget all the bad infact even accept the flaws..n yes SwaSan is that kinda a couple coz sanskar woh insaan hai jisne swara ko drug kiya phir bhi log unki jodi accept kar rahe hai..so yes chemistry is important coz character will go from up n down..loving SwaSan!! Sanskar anti hero bana toh bhi i'll love them..moral science gaya tel lene..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hahaha...Exactly my point
I love swalak chemistry and if cv's will unite them in future ,we all will even forget that they even got married to different persons,logic never gets work on TV world
Everything have their own liking and disliking so we shuld keep loving our favs and stopped think who is more better than swara
Everyone has their own point of views to see the things
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shreeswathy

Agree...
Whatever explanation is given for defending lakshya, is not enough to prove his part.
True love will never allow to distrust our partner, and if it does, that is not true love.
True love never hurts your partner in any adverse situation.
Lashya too had a badtime, when even his father or any of his family members were not willing to trust him, but swara did, and proved his innocence.
But when lakshya got a chance to reciprocate, he simply dejected her.
Is that true love?
True love doesnot need confession, it can be understood from simple jestures.
One need not cry aloud to show that he/she loves somebody.
True love paves way to trust, and any adverse situation we will protect our love. True love doesnt need a proof to show the truth of our partner

I follows this show from beginning, though not as a regular follower..
What i felt is Lakshy's feeling was just an infactuation.
And so far he got all that he wished in his life.
Swara ws also such athing for him..
I cant support him saying that he truely loved her. If it was so, we can't torture them, even if they are standing with our opponents.
Whole through yesterdays's episode, lakshya had been torturing her by words.
And the thing lakshya supported her many times, that are the things even our friends will do for us(i have such friends).
Actions of Lakshya cant be supported, even after Ragini blurts her truth, why he is again troubling Swara?
Why he is not even feeling sorry when he sees her tears??



True love dont need confession.. Unconditional believe... !!! Get out of the romance books dear.. What do you think true love gives you ability to do mind reading?? Get real.. Every relationship needs open communication. I can say that with conviction coz i have been in love , had fought with the world to be with him as we both belong to two different religion and has been married for 12 years now! Your partner is not a magician to understand all u think. U talk u express and that is how it sustain!

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