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Posted: 9 years ago
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I disagree. I actually find Laksh a great partner for Swara and vice versa. As the earlier episodes showed, they worked wonderfully together. Swara was a stabilizing figure in Laksh's life who kept him grounded and focused. While Laksh was a calming influence for Swara whenever she got stressed/ overwhelmed. He was always able to calm her down and make her smile. The two were really well matched. In fact, I think CVs also hinted at this earlier when the pandit mentioned how Swara-Laksh kundali matched perfectly.

Regarding Laksh redemption. I don't know. I confess, I haven't been watching the show religiously or even that attentively since Laksh-Ragini marriage. But to me, I actually somewhat *felt* like he wasn't completely wrong. Laksh was madly in love with Swara and stood by her side like a rock. He constantly had her back and supported her in front of others (his initial outburst at DP was also because DP shouted at Swara -- she was the catalyst, that's how much she mattered for him), and constantly declared his love for Swara and put her first. Swara, on the other hand, ALWAYS made her family her first priority. She never put Laksh first. And secondly, she never really said she loved him that much. Despite all that, Laksh always believed her. And then according to him, she stood him up in their own wedding mandap and he was forced to marry Ragini to save reputations of both families. And then Swara comes and the misunderstanding grew. Despite that, he continued to love her. He only started retaliating and acting shitty towards when Swara and Sanskaar got married and started parading their marriage/ love towards each other.

So yeah, he's acting shitty, but that's because he thinks he's been betrayed in love. By the woman he loved the most. So for me, he doesn't really need a huge redemption. Once the misunderstanding clears (Ragini plan comes out in open), the original Laksh would immediately apologize to Swara and propose to her. That is, if the CVs decide to keep the original Laksh. They've been changing him so idk.

Regarding Sanskaar, for me, he's still technically not redeemed for me. The difference between Laksh and Sanskaar is this: Both thought they wre betrayed by people they loved the most. Both felt extremely unhappy and angry. *Both* attempted to take revenge (well not really in Laksh case) from the person who they thought wronged them. For Laksh, it was Swara. For Sanskaar, it was Laksh and DP. BUT the difference between the two is this: Laksh never attempted to bodily harm or ruin the reputation of a third party. Sanskaar DRUGGED Swara and attempted to ruin her life with Laksh to get his revenge from Laksh. Swara was innocent in the whole Sanskaar-love-dying fiasco and yet he STILL targetted her. Laksh has kept his barbs to Swara and occasionally, but he hasn't stooped down to Sanskaar's level.

All Sanskaar did was apologize to Swara and save her and he got redeemed. According to that logic, if Ragini apologizes to Swara-Laksh-Shomi and saves Swara, she gets redeemed. It's bullshit LOL. Sanskaar needs to have a more real redemption in my eyes. I still have hope he'll turn out to be grey shaded like he was earlier than the good character he's morphed into.

Now onto your points, again I disagree LOL.

Like I said earlier, Sanskaar realized he was harming an INNOCENT person so he stopped. Swara is NOT innocent for Laksh, she stood him up. He doesn't KNOW the truth.

And secondly, he knows he's hurting Swara LOL. That's the entire reason he's acting like an asshole, to make her feel pain the way he did.

I'd like to clarify, I'm not saying Laksh is right in his actions or that I'm supporting him, I merely saying I can see where he's coming from (in regards to his actions) and that I think he's still better than Sanskaar.

Just my POV LOL.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#12
i never thought i will say this
yes sanskar is 1000 times better than that looser cheater laksh
i just hate laksh now he really deserves that nagini
i had never seen such a shameless person in my life
i wish swara also falls in love with sanskar
when the truth comes out laksh should die with guilt and jealousy by seeing swasan
that 🤬 doesnt deserve any redemption forget abt swaras love he doesnt even deserve her forgiveness
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: muktha_cute

i never thought i will say this
yes sanskar is 1000 times better than that looser cheater laksh
i just hate laksh now he really deserves that nagini
i had never seen such a shameless person in my life
i wish swara also falls in love with sanskar
when the truth comes out laksh should die with guilt and jealousy by seeing swasan
that 🤬 doesnt deserve any redemption forget abt swaras love he doesnt even deserve her forgiveness

🤣 Laksh s loser 😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ANewFan

From your post, it does not feel like you have watched the show from the beginning.

1. Laksh has believed and supported Swara multiple times before - during none of the occasions did swara bother to take him into confidence or confided to him what she thinks.
2. Swara never told laksh she loves him openly.
3. Ragini has purposefully created a lot of misunderstanding in laksh mind that swara does not love him and all the time he refused to believe ragini. This plus the fact mentioned in point 2 is the root cause for laksh loosing it on the wedding day.
Everybody so easily says- laksh should have trusted Swara . Yes he should have - and to all those ladies taking this moral high standard - should Swara have told and taken Laksh to her confidence that she loves him . Why so much double standard!!
Coming to Sanskaar - He is the one who did a lot of harm to Swara from drugs to misunderstanding with laksh to list few and just because he saved Swara from the dayan - he is redeemed . Wah! kya baat hai.
And I see a lot of people going ga ga over Sanskar standing by Swara - so he is more apt for Swara. He is standing by swara because of his guilt - he is AWARE of all the truth while LAKSH is not. Now THAT is NOT a fair comparison NOR a signal that Sansakaar is standing by swara in thick and thin!!
SWARSAN for me is unacceptable for the above reason and I feel CVs have fooled a lot of new folks into supporting Swarsan - reminds me of the phase "fickle minded mob" by Shakespeare!!! Hve to say Hats off to CVs

@bold that's not true sanskar believed swara even in a situation where he didn't know the truth - like adarsh case sanskar didn't see him with someone but still sanskar is believing swara
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@lovely_lady, great post!

I agree that Sanskaar's redemption is far from over. The real punishment and pain will start when Ragini's secret is out and then Swara will go back home. He will have to fight with himself and probably with the situation because he will no longer have an excuse to be close to Swara. The mission made them team up, but once it's accomplished what would they have in common? I'm also pretty sure her parents will ask her to leave or divorce Sanskaar and she will probably agree. Whether or not she would be in love with Sanskaar by then, he will suffer a lot when that happens. On top of that, if people try to reunite her with Laksh, can Sanskaar justify fighting for her, to have her himself?

They are both serious people and once her parents are united and everything is sorted, I don't really see Swara and Sanskaar meeting up just to hangout for fun like she did with Laksh. How would Sanskaar justify meeting her? Things could change until then, but right now it seems unlikely. That will be the pain of separation that Sanskaar would have to go through in order to fully redeem himself.

However, today's episode was the first time Sanskaar actually expressed how much he hates himself for what he did and how much remorse he has. (Varun's expressions were great!)

All said and done, it would be weird for Swara to go back to Laksh because she still loves Ragini and wouldn't want to marry her ex-brother-in-law. Time will tell what CVs do...

Frankly, I wouldn't mind seeing a completely new guy enter Swara's life, a non-Maheshwari! Perhaps a Bengali guy, so that the Maheshwari sons really feel threatened!
Edited by inlieu - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#16
After reading title I thought ..ll get to read some awesome points 😳

This post is not about why Sanskaar is better for Swara instead its Laksh's bashing post 😳

Anyways who cares? 😊
Enjoy 😃
Edited by Vishi- - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#17
Lakshya and Swara's fall out is their fault. Both of them.

First, Laksh was looking a good reason to believe that Swara is in love with him, but never found one. I remember those look gestures he use to give but never got a reaction, like with they found her in a hotel room and she only ran pass him to hug her sister, with he says he loves her and she changes the topic, or throws the engagement ring on the floor..leaving his finger hanging.
Laksh knew Swara loves and trust Ragini more than anybody in the world. Not only has she told him, she acted on it. It wasn't hard for him to believe Ragini when Swara herself trust her that much.
Swara also wasn't very open with alot of what was going on. she tells him they are working together, but then she goes ahead and tried to handle the situations herself. So he most have been clueless.

The truth is that just like I knew, Ragini don't love Swara that much, I also felt that Swara never loved Laksh. That's why she is giving him away so easily to a evil girl. I mean if she could be fooled by Swara, who is she to judge another person for falling in the same trap?

Coming to Laksh, we always knew how stupid and childish he is ..by the way he always takes easy way out of every situation. The worst was to marry Ragini. I mean, How on earth is marrying Ragini and destroying both their lives suppose to help the situation?. I think he knows how wrong he is and that is hunting him. He should have waited for everything to calm down, and clarify his problems with Swara (not because he trust her), because he loves her. If you love some one you can't give up on that person unless you are getting mentally and physically abused by that person.

For example, Somi is the giving up on Shekhar no matter what we the viewer call her man. stupid, spineless, brainless...etc. She trust and understand his point of view.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#18
Now , I am following this serial from the very beginning. All the time I feel neither Lakshya nor Swara actually loved each other. I think, When Lakshya was very much close with Ragini and Swara an attraction towards Swara grew. For a guy like Laksh between Ragini and Swara it's obvious he will see a girl like Swara as a love interest. And for Swara, her liking towards Laksh was totally forced by Ragini. In many occasion he even trusted Swara. And After seeing that video on their wedding day, his reaction was natural. STILL, he could have wait more for Swara to come back, it was NOT necessary to marry Raagini. And after marriage his behavior towards Swara is not acceptable.

In case of Shanskar, yes, he was revenge driven. But, whatever he did after his realization is totally appreciable. As Swara said he could've easily live with his family ignoring Swara's problem. It was not compulsory for him to take a big risk, going against his family and helping out Swara. Even in real life, the person who realize his/her mistake and works to rectify that is always favorable. BUT, that DOESN'T make him perfect for Swara -- He still need to do a lot for complete redemption.

The thing is, although Now whatever Ragini is doing evil, it is true she loved Laksh (although it is now a evil passion).

I really feel pity for Swara. A mature, sensible girl like her doesn't deserve this. First of all, her love towards Laksh was forced, they fixed the wedding date even though she was not ready, she was forced to act/wear like a "Sanskari" girl even before her marriage. In normal situation, she shouldn't have fallen for Sanskar, BUT, as now SwaSan are married, a girl like her will try to maintain this relationship.
Edited by akelapothik - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#19
Sorry for disappearing from my own post. One more thing which I always observed was the lack of that unquestioning rapport between Lakshya and Swara. She was never very trusting of him which makes one question the depth of her affection for him. He never had the top top priority in her life and that meant that something was seriously amiss and wrong in that relationship. Ultimately the relationship collapsed as such a weak one was wont to do. I will not be surprised if they show Swara getting over Lakshya very fast.
Plus I also sometimes wonder if she actually loved Lakshya or was in love with the idea of someone loving her so much. Please note I am not siding with Ragini here who is a psycho.


With Sanskar Swara's rapport trust and confidence is apparent. It could be because the CVs have shown Sanskar older and mature than Lakshya or maybe because he fills the void created in Swara's heart due to her father's defection and fulfils her yearning for a male she can rely on.

Whatever might be the case the pair looks better matched and balanced
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Posted: 9 years ago
#20
Yes, Swara & Sanskar are better matched!
Edited by KhwaboKeParinde - 9 years ago

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