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it is indeed irrational because she didn't get married to the person she thought she was and supposed to...if she has admiration, love or respect on him isn't the thing here..she got cheated and her dreams got crushed by the harsh reality...even if she learns vasu is behind it...still bihaan opted for his own selfish need of having his mother safe and get her love...over a good girl's respect..mrg isn't a joke...even if he be nice to thapki thru out his life...how can she forget the fact and be normal seeing tht the same man chated her is behind her?
Iam not for any pairs..i do like dhruv with her..they're both sweet and is it any wrong tht both r sweet and gud? there needs to be a rude or harsh guy to make things spicy right? i respect ur opinions bcoz not everyone get same vibes from pairs...dhruv wud have been admired with thapki by more ppl if he was a rude rich guy..wat is his mistake tht he has such a woman as his mom? and wat's mistake of thapki?
it is more than pair thing for me..since thapasya says it's an inspirational show..tht a person has to never lose the confidence despite of having any disabilities...and that they seek LOVE not PITY...wat Dhruv has on her is love...and bihaan has pity...even if love stems out of it..pity is the root for it...whereas Dhruv admired her for her character and talent...love came for him thru tht//for Thapki..Dhruv is an inspiration, her mentor, she respects him and admires him...he influences her, supports her, guides her...love came thru tht...but wat ppl like to watch is hatred turned love and cheating turned mrg...
it's sad that whatever story starts as a progression...it only ends up being the same as everyother..it all ends there..further degradation...either media or society has to stick to the right view to have the change.
i accept your points even If i disagree with most of them.. none of these things make this relationship irrational.. difficult yes but no not impossible.. realistically no relationship is perfect and an individual who repents from the heart can and will be forgiven over time.. Bihaan has the strength to accept his wrongdoings.. and that is what makes him likable because that makes him far more human in our eyes.. definitely not because of his background or his incapability of fitting into the norm as per society..
I'll be honest I ship ThaHaan but not because of the reasons you have stated.. though you are free to your perspective.. I like the man who no matter how broken he may be on the inside is willing to smile in the face of his mothers taunts simply for a bit of affection..now I want to know what's his fault in having a mother like Vasu.. my point is it's no one's fault each had selfish desires which led them to this path..
I don't believe I have ever encountered a scene where Bihaan took pity on Thapki.. you'll have to point that out to me.. in all honestly I believe he brings out the real Th.. the one willing to fight for herself and stand her ground..they are more realistic because they argue.. and will eventually come to understand one another.. whereas Dhruv and T.. love did not really last the test of time did it.. her faith shattered the moment she realized the man she trusted could not protect her.. agreed she was in immense pain..let's see if her faith is instilled once again.. you see she doesn't love him.. she saw a protector a mentor and a savior in him.. where as Bihaan will be her equal.. he will support her as a husband someone she can disagree.. fight.. and makeup with..
As for the concept of the show.. that"s exactly my point.. I want Thapki to leave Bihaan stand her ground and force him to show her a bit of who he really is.. this story is not about pairs but the journey of a girl who will find love and acceptance in an individual who is searching for the same.. she will stand on her own rather then have any man as a crutch she will teach a man to change for the better and truly love another along the way.. while he will support her but not suffocate her..she will be free to take charge of her life..
on a side note..Bihaan is not entirely at fault for his actions.. he feels the need to support the people who took an orphan into their homes.. he craves affection.. I see nothing wrong in his desire.. yes his behavior is unacceptable.. but how easily his pain has been overlooked in this entire fiasco..! and If I'm not mistaken Vasu threatened suicide if the marriage took place hence the reason was far more serious then simply gaining his mothers affection..!!
Iam not for any pairs..i do like dhruv with her..they're both sweet and is it any wrong tht both r sweet and gud? there needs to be a rude or harsh guy to make things spicy right? i respect ur opinions bcoz not everyone get same vibes from pairs...dhruv wud have been admired with thapki by more ppl if he was a rude rich guy..wat is his mistake tht he has such a woman as his mom? and wat's mistake of thapki?
it is more than pair thing for me..since thapasya says it's an inspirational show..tht a person has to never lose the confidence despite of having any disabilities...and that they seek LOVE not PITY...wat Dhruv has on her is love...and bihaan has pity...even if love stems out of it..pity is the root for it...whereas Dhruv admired her for her character and talent...love came for him thru tht//for Thapki..Dhruv is an inspiration, her mentor, she respects him and admires him...he influences her, supports her, guides her...love came thru tht...but wat ppl like to watch is hatred turned love and cheating turned mrg...
it's sad that whatever story starts as a progression...it only ends up being the same as everyother..it all ends there..further degradation...either media or society has to stick to the right view to have the change.
i accept your points even If i disagree with most of them.. none of these things make this relationship irrational.. difficult yes but no not impossible.. realistically no relationship is perfect and an individual who repents from the heart can and will be forgiven over time.. Bihaan has the strength to accept his wrongdoings.. and that is what makes him likable because that makes him far more human in our eyes.. definitely not because of his background or his incapability of fitting into the norm as per society..
I'll be honest I ship ThaHaan but not because of the reasons you have stated.. though you are free to your perspective.. I like the man who no matter how broken he may be on the inside is willing to smile in the face of his mothers taunts simply for a bit of affection..now I want to know what's his fault in having a mother like Vasu.. my point is it's no one's fault each had selfish desires which led them to this path..
I don't believe I have ever encountered a scene where Bihaan took pity on Thapki.. you'll have to point that out to me.. in all honestly I believe he brings out the real Th.. the one willing to fight for herself and stand her ground..they are more realistic because they argue.. and will eventually come to understand one another.. whereas Dhruv and T.. love did not really last the test of time did it.. her faith shattered the moment she realized the man she trusted could not protect her.. agreed she was in immense pain..let's see if her faith is instilled once again.. you see she doesn't love him.. she saw a protector a mentor and a savior in him.. where as Bihaan will be her equal.. he will support her as a husband someone she can disagree.. fight.. and makeup with..
As for the concept of the show.. that"s exactly my point.. I want Thapki to leave Bihaan stand her ground and force him to show her a bit of who he really is.. this story is not about pairs but the journey of a girl who will find love and acceptance in an individual who is searching for the same.. she will stand on her own rather then have any man as a crutch she will teach a man to change for the better and truly love another along the way.. while he will support her but not suffocate her..she will be free to take charge of her life..
on a side note..Bihaan is not entirely at fault for his actions.. he feels the need to support the people who took an orphan into their homes.. he craves affection.. I see nothing wrong in his desire.. yes his behavior is unacceptable.. but how easily his pain has been overlooked in this entire fiasco..! and If I'm not mistaken Vasu threatened suicide if the marriage took place hence the reason was far more serious then simply gaining his mothers affection..!!
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