The priority called Roshni - for DD !!!

Wanted to make a post on this topic long back, but some how forgot about it.. And got reminded of it yesterday with DD's constant dialogue of Roshni not being Sid's priority I don't know why DD has this skewed vision but I'm having a polar opposite vision in which I see Roshni never being a priority of DD and always being THE priority of Sid. Now, there is no denying the fact that both DD and Sid loves Roshni the most. DD's love is obsessive but still it is love🥱 But talking about PRIORITY, I want to know when Roshni was a priority for DD??😕

Through out Roshni's childhood, she was never DD's priority.. She was always behind money and status, for whatever reason. She neglected Roshni so much so that she craved for a mothers love She never had time to even wish Roshni a happy birthday. There are mothers who work, earn money and still bring up their children with love and care by squeezing out time for them. For that the child should be ur priority which was not the case with DD🥱

DD never prioratized Roshni's feelings ever🤢 She wanted Roshni to marry Krish, not asking about her consent, then she played all the dirty games of breaking her marriage with Sid upto the extent of changing the groom.. Now if Roshni got married to Krish in disguise what would have been Rosh's feeling??😲 Was Roshni the priority in DD doing all this and also the fake heart attack and other nautanki🥱 Then she kept on insulting Sid in front of Roshni during the middle class drama knowing fully well that its hurting Roshni Then her obsessive act of forcing SidNi to stay in Patel house against the wish of Roshni.. In all this where has she as a mother cared for Roshni's feelings??

Then during Shiv track, she had a problem with Roshni accepting Shiv as her father. DD was not guilty of keeping her daughter away from her father for so many years. Instead she kept on accusing Roshni for preferring Shiv over DD.🥱She kicked out Roshni during Shiv murder investigation b'coz her ego couldn't accept that Roshni may be right about Kritika being innocent😕 Didn't even care about where a divorced Roshni would go.😕 DD's ego was always her priority🤢

And then the pregnancy.. She created so much hungama and hype regarding Roshni being pregnant b'coz her Shiv was returning🥱 She forcefully kept Roshni in Patel house giving kasam, when Roshni clearly wanted to stay with Sid and Khurana's.. Even after miscarriage, DD prioritized her hatred for Sid and her own grief over Roshni that she left Roshni alone and was busy bashing Sid and throwing out Ayesha in rain🤢

There are several instances where i have felt Roshni is never a priority of DD.. Only her words prioritise Roshni but her actions don't

u pointed out really valid and good points...

True...agree wid each nd evry thing...during her initial days..she never cared for roshni... It was sid who made her realise importance of roshni...otherwise she would have not even seen roshni face now ..😡 but still she blames sid😡

Pal agree with you :( :( I gonna tweet this DD 😎

Originally posted by: fazmina

Pal agree with you :( :( I gonna tweet this DD 😎

Originally posted by: skinnypal

u pointed out really valid and good points...

Actually the fault with DD is that she is suffocating Roshni by imposing her beliefs and decisions on her since the very beginning. It is true that sometimes mothers do what they feel is right for the kid, but then here DD is over looking the fact that Roshni is not a child anymore, she has grown up having her own identity! She needs to respect that which she is not doing it clearly!

What Sid does is he always prioritizes Roshni's feelings/wishes over circumstances and DD does the opposite!! DD needs to learn to give space to her daughter, so much interference is really annoying! I wonder how Roshni takes it! -_-

The difference between DD and Sid is that DD prioritizes Roshni's well being ( and for that she doesn't care who gets hurt in the way, even though it is Roshni herself ) whereas Sid prioritizes Roshni's feelings over everything.

@bold Well said and very true👍🏼

Originally posted by: Abinaya12

True...agree wid each nd evry thing...during her initial days..she never cared for roshni... It was sid who made her realise importance of roshni...otherwise she would have not even seen roshni face now ..😡 but still she blames sid😡

Blaming is in DD's genes, u can't change that😆

awesome post

DD can never beat Sid's love or his priority to Roshni every second... Sid showing all his love to Roshni more than her own mom and it'ld be very tough for a person like DD to accept it first of all😊